Tuning Into This Powerful Cancer Full Moon Energy Field

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Dear Friends,
on January 12th we are facing the first Full Moon of this highly creative year 2017, and this Moon is in 22 degree Cancer. And we are starting this years Full Moon cycles with a powerful blast of energy, as there is a grand cross of cardinal signs elevating the intensity of the stellar impact this month. This is the first messenger of the exact same constellation, which we will meet again in 2020!! So please dear ones be wise, document the events, your mind sets and the feelings you experience this Cancer Full Moon, and you will be able to watch everything you bring into change right now – take of like a rocket in 2020!
A grand cross can either feel to us like a stretch table – pulling us in all four directions, or like a massive wave of empowerment and growth for all directions, this entirely depends on our personal level of awareness. When we
keep our hearts and minds open and our feet well grounded, we will experience particularly intense movements of awakening energy entering, shifting and leaving your physical body and energetic body. Connect yourself well with your breathing, so you can balance and navigate all the challenges of this strong impacts. Go out and spend time in nature if possible!

The Cancer energy is bringing into the mix our need for comfort, for nurturing ourselves and others, for love and safety; while Capricorn in the Sun is interested in reality, making plans, making money and grounded decision making; to balance this needs is our chore in the game this week. Jupiter opposing Uranus, can bring a very sudden change of luck. This will also create another big change for the collective awakening process, as we can count on a high appearance of  pineal gland awakenings, an increase of psychic abilities and even a unusually high amount of Kundalini awakenings!!! A reason for that, is the meeting of Chiron and the Pisces. This combination makes us particularly sensitive to the energy streams and flow of mother earth, and allows a release from old pattern around our nutrition, our mother and the way we see the divine feminine in this world!
Also we can easily be triggered around themes of social equality, fairness, justice and brotherhood of man. Take the chances this Full Moon is providing and shift this challenges into higher vibration and take a deeper look at the bigger picture of the divine plan behind the physical situation.
So BE READY, FEEL WORTHY to get your most amazing dreams fulfilled, within the blink of an eye!
Here are some quotes that easily could come from the feather of a Cancer Moon ;-).

“Am I too much for the world, or is the world too much for me?”
― Kelli Jae Baeli

“Sensitive people are the heart of the world. Sensitive hearts will save this world if they are empowered. Caring deeply and feeling deeply is a gift. But it’s important to shift it out of victim and wounded and into the strength and blessing that it truly is and can be.”
― Eileen Anglin

“Sensitive people feel so deeply they often have to retreat from the world, in order to dig beneath the layers of pain to find their faith and courage.”
― Shannon L. Alderb“Sometimes I think, I need a spare heart to feel all the things I feel.”
― Sanober Khan

“The spiritualization of sensuality is called love: it is a great triumph over Christianity.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

“Touch me, touch the palm of your hand to my body as I pass, Be not afraid of my body.”
― Walt Whitman

“Some people are far more cognizant than others but sensitivity has its own cross to bear and ample insight, in many cases, can bring on disquietude.”
― Donna Lynn Hope

“yes, I have feelings
and no, I’m not afraid of them
not even the shadowy ones
that you’d rather ignore
i gather them in
welcome them home
give them space to breathe
and light them on glorious fire
just to see
what might be illuminated
while they burn”
― Jeanette LeBlanc

“I believe in the flesh and the appetites; Seeing, hearing, feeling, are miracles, and each part and tag of me is a miracle. Divine am I inside and out, and I make holy whatever I touch or am touch’d from; The scent of these arm-pits, aroma finer than prayer; This head more than churches, bibles, and all the creeds.”
― Walt Whitman

“The joy from eating does not come from the exclusivity of the food, but instead from the sensitivity that we eat it with.”
― Nino GruettkecDear Ones, I hope you are inspired now to go digging deep into the unknown depth of your own emotional body and to align all you feel with the light that comes from within. Make sure you stay balanced so you can handle the energies of this massively powerful Cancer Full Moon, act gracefully and enjoy harmony in your mind.
Love and Full Moon Blessings!
Edith

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The Emerald Codes And The Return Of The Garden Of Creativity

ADear Friends,
the second Full Moon in Sagittarius is about to peek and within a few hours we are passing the Solstice of this half year. Again we will have to navigate thru intense waves of awakening energies, that should bring another collective leap in consciousness for humanity. So much more is there for us to discover in the next half year, when we are digging deeper into a harmonic co-creation with all levels of existence. Today I am happy to share with you this piece from Celia Fenn about the upcoming galactic events, and the shifts and changes they will provide for us!

Article by Celia Fenn from Starchildglobal:
JUNE/JULY 2016 : SOLSTICE, PLANETARY NEW YEAR AND THE LION’S GATE

Beloved Family of Light, once again you are approaching the mid-year with its powerful waves of Cosmic Energy. First there is the Solstice on the 20th June, which marks a “turning point” in your spirals of creation. The Earth reaches her farthest point “outwards” and, at this moment she pauses, as if standing still, then she returns for another creative spiral around the Sun. In the Northern Hemisphere this will be the Summer Solstice, marked by the longest day and the shortest night of the year; in the Southern Hemisphere this will be the Winter Solstice, marked by the shortest day and the longest night of the year.
This shift of energies initiates a series of powerful events that will determine the next phase of your personal and planetary evolution. In July, on the 26th, you will enter into the Planetary New Year, when incoming waves of Transformative Energy precede the Grand Cosmic Wave of the Lion’s Gate Portal on the 8th of August (8/8/1). At this time, new Light Code templates for the coming year are integrated into the Earth’s crystalline New Earth grids.

At this time, Beloved Ones, there will be powerful waves of Diamond Light originating from the Galactic Center. Then also, you will be receiving powerful transmissions of the Magenta and Turquoise Light Codes to balance the Divine Feminine and Masculine energies. And finally, the brilliant Emerald Codes will be transmitted from the Cosmic Heart, to allow you to fully integrate and experience your blessed gift of life on a biological world where you create and co-create in the material realms.CThe Emerald Codes and Re-Connecting with Soul and Nature : The Dance of Magic and Sensuality
Beloved Ones, the purpose of the Diamond Light and the Diamond Codes is to assist you to reconnect with your Galactic Self and to understand your origins in the Galaxy and your connections to the Star Nations. The purpose of the Emerald Codes is to assist you to reconnect to the Earth, to your physical being and to your heritage and power as a Light Being in Physical Form.
We ask you to feel the radiant Emerald Green Light Codes entering into your Light Body and your Physical Body to reawaken your deep cellular memories of living in a Paradise Garden of Love, Harmony and Creativity. This was always the plan for human life, to live in harmony with Nature in a Planetary Garden of Sensual Joy and Enjoyment.You might ask, well why is that no so today? Why are we so far from this idea? As you look around you, you see chaos, violence and unhappiness that seems so far from the original plan.

Beloved Ones, there came a time when you, as Humanity, decided to focus your Collective Evolution into an exploration of lower density and duality. This involved an experience of the nature of “good and evil” in material form. This “experiment” in collective consciousness, described in Biblical stories as the “Fall”, is now just about completed, and you, as Family of Light, are ready to return “home” to the Garden and to Higher Consciousness beyond the limitations of duality.
This is achieved by means of the process called Ascension. The first phase of this process was to activate the Diamond Light Body, which was disconnected at the time of the “fall”. This reconnection is the work of the Diamond Light Codes. The first phase is the re-wiring of the Physical Body and the Light Body and the healing of the separation from your Inner Divinity and from Nature that was the consequence of the fall into lower frequencies and into duality.

As you rise in consciousness, you return to the state of Unity Consciousness and “Oneness” that allows you to be in the Fifth Dimensional New Earth. But, to complete the process, you need to also allow the Emerald Light Codes to do their work of opening your Heart and Soul to the Divine Light flows that create Magic and Abundance on the New Earth.
When you began to live in the denser dimensions of the Third Dimension and to explore duality, you found it more useful to work with the mind and ego, and with the left brain faculties of linear thought and logic. Over time, this “bypass” of the right brain ,with its intuitive wisdom, and the heart with its ancient wisdom, became a way of being for you. You were truly “disconnected” and your physical body was re-wired over time to accommodate these new experiences and these new flows of energy.

As a result, the Soul shifted upwards and anchored above the physical body in the energy center known as the “Soul Star Chakra”. The Soul was still able to guide the body, but from a “distance” that could only be bridged by meditation and prayer. The chakras created new pathways of energy where the Left Brain mind and Solar Plexus were dominant, and the Right Brain and Heart were largely bypassed. This “wiring” of the Body and Soul/Spirit has produced the kind of destructive and fearful society that you see today. You have a culture that cannot solve its problems or see a way out, because it is unable to function together with the Heart, Soul and the Creative essence.BMSo, Beloved Ones, the Ascension process, guided first by the Christ Consciousness, opened the Hearts of those who were ready, to begin to experience the energy of Love and Oneness and to reconnect with the Right Brain and the Divine Feminine intuitive wisdom. This was followed by the Diamond Codes, that reactivated the Light Body and allowed the Soul to descend and anchor into the Heart, which became the center of the New Earth being.Now, Beloved Ones, the Emerald Codes are allowing you to complete the process.
To reconnect the Heart and Soul with the Earth and to “re-wire” the flow of Divine Creative energy from the Crown Chakra through the left and right brain equally, creating a new and balanced Flow of the Magical Creative Energy that can be expressed on Earth through your Creativity. As you allow this “rewiring” process, you will reconnect with the Creative Dance of your Soul, and also with the flow of Magic and Synchronicity that occurs when your Soul creates and dances with Divine Light on the Earth and with Nature. You will feel, once again, the sensual and creative joy as your Soul experiences Earth existence in a state of Fifth Dimensional consciousness and “Oneness”, and from a state of balanced Flow and Creativity.

Your Diamond/Emerald Heart and your Creative Essence:
So, Beloved Ones, in this final phase of the Ascension and Transformative process, you are invited to fully activate your Diamond/Emerald Heart Light and return to the Essence of Who You Are – a Creative and Balanced Being living in Inner Harmony with Self and Soul. Now is the time to begin to really activate the balance of Right Brain/Left Brain.
Heal the “separation” by reconnecting with your creative abilities and surrounding yourself with Beauty and the High Frequencies of Harmonic Creation. When you activate your Sacred Heart and allow it to be a part of the Flow of Divine Light within the Four Phase energies of Diamond, Emerald, Magenta and Turquoise, then the Right Brain will activate and the Soul will begin to express itself through Sensuality, Playfulness and Magical Creation.

Beloved Ones, when you allow this balanced flow of Divine Energies in your Being, you will feel yourself aligning with different frequencies, and living at a different pace and rhythm! You will feel Calm, Peaceful and focused on your Higher Purpose in life and achieving the Work of your Soul in the New Earth that is birthing. So, we ask you to enjoy these powerful waves of energy and allow them to activate your Creative and Intuitive Self along with your Heart energies. It is time to return to the Garden of Creativity!B

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Within The New Paradigm – Creating A Healthy Enlightened Sexual Relationship

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Dear Friends,
about two weeks ago, I shared with you details about the collective cleansing of the first chakra, that took place for us between the last New Moon and the Cancer Full Moon on Christmas Eve. By now, the first insides and effects have arrived on planet earth and, as it had to be expected, one of the collective desires driving us now, is to develop the new sexual relationship paradigm for the Golden Age of Aquarius. Many people feel the need now, to evaluate the personal expression of their sexuality and other physical desires. Looks like more and more people follow their desire, to be an active part in the creation of the divines plan bigger picture. So I found it pleasing, inspiring and perfectly fitting to the changes we are undergoing now, to share this beautiful piece with you.
Enjoy and give it a try yourself!!

From the beginning of mankind, sex has been the most natural way to discover meditation. The endorphin’s released after orgasm instantly send you into a euphoric state of bliss where the mind is no longer achieving, scheming or controlling to demand that the ego meets its goals. Through this orgasmic release a deep state of relaxation is experienced where you find a true feeling of inner peace. The 3 Sacred Sex Secrets are an invitation to expand your mind and liberate your soul from our society’s sexual suppression. If you have any type of sexual abuse from your past, it may be VERY challenging for you to imagine experiencing Enlightened Sex.
I invite you to keep an open mind, for you are about to combine and transcend two of the most controversial topics in the world, “Enlightenment” and “Sex”. This melting and merging of these seemingly opposite contradictory subjects, will open you to discovering the vast free spirit dwelling inside your being. The moment you remove all judgments around what Enlightened Sex looks like, what you have left is an open mind ready to explore the experience of a state of pure bliss. By freeing your mind right now from any assumptions or judgments that arise, you are inviting a great revolution in consciousness. This transformation is a truly spiritual awakening where you can enter every moment, every breath and any relationship in the most Enlightened Intimate way.460How long has Enlightened Sex been practiced on this planet?
In Khajuraho, India, there were over 200 erotic and exotic temples built from 950 AD to 1150 AD. Today, 25 of these ancient erotic temples are still standing and pose as living proof that sacred sexuality has been practiced for well over a thousand years. Each of the outer temple walls contain many carvings of erotic art, pornographic sexual positions, and masturbation. These sexual statues represent the pornographic play that is designed to uncover the divine goddess and god within us. They show us that sex is an intimate spiritual guide to discover the free loving, fully self-expressed, wildly creative divine being is who we truly are.
The statues were not created to convey hideous messages of disgust within you otherwise they would have not been created on temples. They are here to create a bridge between sexuality and the sacred. They awaken that sexual being inside you who can feel sensuality is one doorway to the divine. It is only through the body that we can experience life and discover the experience of God. Without the body there is no life, and no sensuality to taste, touch and feel what this great unification truly is. These temples are living proof that man has been able to find the experience of God through the sensual organs in the body. They enlighten us to this ancient knowledge that we can use every experience we are given in life to enter the Divine.

The 3 Secrets to Enlightened Sex
If you’re open to exploring the sacred sensual spiritual aspects of your being, you are about to dive into the most dynamic expansive healing experience of your life! Through a process of being vulnerable you can reveal what’s holding you back from being present to your beloved. Here, the subtle bodies soften and together you will create a divine experience for yourself and your lover.gesThe 1st Sacred Sex Secret to Enlightened Lovemaking is to learn how to communicate with radical honesty with your partner. This is about extending yourself beyond what you feel is your “comfort zone”. What you cannot talk about is exactly what you need to talk about. If you cannot open up to your beloved, who can you truly open up to? The practice of reaching out to your beloved from your heart, with vulnerability allows the Divine experience to come flooding in. The walls start crumbling down when you choose in each moment to dive deeper into intimacy, and release the over-protecting habit of defending and upholding the ego.

The 2nd Sacred Sex Secret is to let yourself totally dissolve into your partner. Meaning, surrender to them and the amazingly divine connection already between you. Sitting close to each other and doing long periods of eye gazing and slow, soft gentle touching will melt the apparent boundaries between you. Looking beyond their personality into their soul is by far the greatest way to create a long lasting loving relationship. If you do this on a daily basis you can only expect the most amazing relationship in humanity.

The 3rd Sacred Sex Secret is to create the most safe and loving space within yourself and outside of yourself. As within, so is without. So start with choosing to be emotionally, physically and mentally safe to creatively express yourself in ANY way you choose. Now being fully self expressed, there may be some things that may shock your partner at first. This is to be expected and brought to the surface to be recognized, yet not hooked into. Simply honor each other and never hide anything from each other. Be real, and know that deep down you will experience the greatest love, joy and ecstasy by loving, accepting and appreciating yourself totally as you are.

What is Tantra All About?
The ancient Sanskrit word “Tantra” has a very simple definition that means, “a direct experience that is without a book”. Tantra is the oldest and most powerful spiritual practice for creating enlightenment in the world today. It is complete in itself, a way of life where you feel spiritually alive and living each moment to its maximum. When a couple is focused on having a deep intimate connection, they are allowing for the direct experience of the other to enter them. It is through this intimacy that a profound healing occurs. The ego releases its habit of imprisoning you and you are truly free. As this sacred intimate connection deepens, it heals the entire individual, and radiates throughout the community. tantra1Energetically speaking, one whole couple in love and deep intimacy can provide a light of wholeness for the entire community to follow. Tantra is the ultimate exploration of the Divine Presence within yourself and the other. It is a release of your mind and ego into the cosmic orgasm that is happening in the Universe. No other experience comes even remotely close in this world to the levels of bliss, connection and peace with another human being. It is important to know that a Tantric experience does not always have to engage in sexual penetration. An orgasmic Tantra experience can be as simple as a long deep heart felt hug, or gazing into your beloved eyes. It is all about merging with the Divine, the oneness that we are all connected to.

I hope this beautiful article brought you some inspiration, maybe a little bit direction but most of all, joyful curiosity for the creation of a brand new paradigm for the sacred sexuality, that is emerging for humanity now!!
Blessings and Love!

Edith

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No Longer Procrasturbating My Life Away – Reflections Of An Awakening Man

trueDear Friends,
if you follow my writing, you probably can remember my excitement about the ripple effect of discussion, the posts about our collective sexual awakening into the Golden Age of Aquarius have kicked off. Many people felt the impact of the energy frequencies, as the theme of aligning the human sexuality is unfolding for the collective. Some of them completely rejecting to take responsibility, but also many who shared my happiness about the immense chances for healing, we collectively experience now. Inspired by my search, a dear friend send me this wonderful, reflective piece from another Spiritual Warrior brother, fighting his way back to authentic sexual expression.
Today’s Gemini Full Moon provides us with the mental power and energetic support we need for this next leap of faith into the unknown, into a brand
new relationship paradigm. To leave behind what ever does not serve our highest good. Be courageous, be fearless and claim your liberation from the past!! Don’t forget, when ever you feel in need, you can call in the support of the Angelic Energies, that are here for us right now!!
Peace, Love & Blessings
Edith

And here comes his Story:
The dim blue light flickered in the room down the hall. The sounds of people cheering for more and laughing echoed as he entered the room to see what she was watching. She was under the blanket with her teeth sunk into the side of her lower lip and wetting them every now and again. They met while traveling and decided to move in together. Watching TV regularly had lost its luster for him, since he had sold his belongings all those years ago in order to move into backpack and travel. Naturally he was curious what kind of show she was watching to get so hot and bothered. Craning his head towards the source of this light and sound to see that she’s watching the cooking channel and the chef is driving his fingers into the tender muscle on the table in front of him. He was moving in a thorough way going with and then against the grain of the muscle. He applied different pressures and speeds to slather the marinade spice rub in every sensual way. With his head cocked to the side and a quizzical tone, he laid thick the sarcasm, “Babe, why do you love watching those foodie shows so much? It’s not like you can cook.”
She took her gaze away from the TV, locked eyes as her chest rose to gather her thoughts, and with a sigh she fogged the broken mirror, “Well… you watch porn!” That was the beginning of the end. Not just the relationship but also of my need to distract myself with porn. My distraction and inattention led her to seek what was missing in our relationship with another man. I had unconsciously pushed away a great woman. I was confronted with a dirty little secret that very few of us will engage, let alone talk about, until some sex scandal gets splashed across the front page of the national headlines. I wasn’t sure if porn had affected my relationships but it definitely ruined my computer and how I used the Internet. After the breakup, I also had a death in the family which made reflection of what kind of life I was really living extremely relevant. That was when a buddy of mine introduced me to yoga. I was hooked on yoga even though I felt like something more was missing from my personal life. I realized that porn was destroying more than just my keyboard and leaving my computer riddled with digital STDs, so I chose to do the one month NoFAP challenge. Cold turkey. Good thing it was one of those shorter months.
a1At first, it was easy to keep myself occupied, but then my mind began to race about why I was really doing this and reflecting on how long pornographic images had plagued my life. Ultimately, the ‘why’ was easy… I wanted to have better relations and interactions with women in general. I was brand new to yoga and yoga studio life then and one day before in a mid-morning hot yoga class I was caught googling an attractive woman in the mirror who kept fiddling with her yoga costume. I couldn’t remember the last time that I had felt that ashamed and guilty. I never did muster up the courage to start a conversation with the attractive woman in the studio in order to apologize for our mutual embarrassment. There I was, in a world surrounded by amazingly dynamic women that I couldn’t fully appreciate because of simple, blatant subject-object separation. I suffered from a physical conditioned reaction to a physical conditioned attraction where normalcy included my porn-influenced tunnel vision which sexualized every woman and interaction I subsequently initiated. In a conversation with one of my Russian friends, she told me an old expression that translates as, Women fall in love with their ears, and men fall in love with their eyes. Another friend blurted, “And hands, don’t forget the hands!” That little insight belly flopped from the high-dive in the ocean of my mind. I was substituting my visual love with online pornography.

Truth be told, my porn habit HAD ruined my relationships and the one it ruined the most was the relationship with myself. The amount of time, energy, and bandwidth used for auto-erotic procrast-urbation had reached a tipping point. So, ask yourself… what do procrastination and masturbation have in common? They both feel really good until you realize that you just fucked yourself! Procrast-urbating. This most intimate form of communication that had been poisoned by the media I consumed had overflowed into all of the other types of relationships I had. Both interpersonal: family, friends, casual, and intimate and interpersonal: my internal masculine, feminine, human and divine. As they say in Spanish, this was the drop that overflowed the glass.
As I heal from the polluted visual and mental environment I can choose to identify, observe, and change my behavior regarding the media I consume.
In sharing my story with you I have opened myself up and exposed a dirty little secret of my life, which is one that is also collectively shared among society in general. I, like everyone else, am a work in progress and the story of my life is just that. Another story. Another beautiful reflection of our inner and outer worlds. And my story, just like yours, is flexible. Very flexible. So don’t get so bent out of shape. My decision to share this is part of my own growth as I continue to upgrade my grey matter and improve my relations with others is just one of the many steps I’ve taken to reclaim my body and my mental environment. aaIt’s all about the intention and the feeling. In the end, is pornography bad? In general, NO. It has a form, function, and purpose that can be a beneficial tool when used with intention to explore our sensuality. This only gives rise to the deeper questions of where we as a collective are taught about sex and love. These days I prefer to share the experience with my lover and let her choose what we watch and the different things we try behind closed doors as I learn to more effectively communicate my own likes, dislikes, needs, fears, and desires rather than simply re-enact scenes of semi-violent simulated sex that had been implanted in my visual landscape. Releasing myself from the bondage of online pornography was one of the best and most difficult things I’ve ever done for myself.
These days I am No Longer Procrasturbating My Life Away!!

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Sexuality, Shamanism and Community

aaaDear Friends,
I so very much enjoyed reading this article. It is lovely written and  provides downloads of authentic energy. In my daily experience as a human being on planet earth, who translates divine existence into human expression I feel blessed and happy to stand at  “ the point where polarities meet, between the ordinary and non-ordinary, day and night, life and death”. It is a good place to be. It is where life happens, where obstacles turn into opportunities and an old way of living can end, for the blessing of a new beginning :-)! Enjoy the article and may your powers return and your inner shaman guide you home!
Blessings, Love and Light! Edith

For ages on our planet conflicts around sex issues have been a major cause of sufferance, addiction and frustration. As we move into a path of rapid spiritual reawakening it is vital to acknowledge these wounds and strenuously promote ways to heal them. Shamanically each human being, no matter how conditioned or unaware, is an inherent part of the web of life. This means that together with their separated personality, they experience the interaction with a multidimensional identity, which is their true self. When more individuals join together with the intent of giving creative space to their true multidimensional nature, they amplify the access to the web of life and the unity of human consciousness, creating the conditions for radical healing shifts in human values.
The first step in the above respect entails fully acknowledging sexual conflicts, frustrations and grievances, allowing each party to express their feelings, without rushing a resolution of the issues themselves. This implies that transparency and the availability to release are the primary steps in healing, together with the capacity of translating sexual personal history into sexual collective history, which means thinking in terms of the global community, instead of our personality. From a multidimensional and shamanic perspective I regard sex as a symbolic representation of the energy pervading the web of life, often described as an ongoing multi-dimensional intercourse between the earth and the sky, the seen and the unseen.
Many healers and also ordinary, yet highly sensitive, people stand on the threshold of this copulation, right in the point where polarities meet, between the ordinary and non-ordinary, day and night, life and death. Whether they know it or not, they are intensely tied to the essence of creation, stirring up the energy and using it to sustain the web of life. They are involved in healing soul-fragmentation, which is the result of belief systems based on separation and the cause of all fears held in our culture. People who are aware of this healing process work at an archetypal or collective level, as opposed to the personal or self-centered levels most individuals operate from. As a result, they constantly move to different ways of perceiving and using sex energy. Due to the conventional denial and distortion of such themes, this can be unsettling for them and their relationships.astroshamanismWorking shamanic and multidimensional with sexual energy does not necessarily imply promiscuity or even having sexual intercourse. Due to its controversial implications many people on this path have firm boundaries around sex and even observe vows of abstinence. Multidimensional sex is not necessarily Tantra or Taoist eroticism, which involves conscious manipulation of sexual energy. It is based on the experience that ordinary love-making, sensuality and also mere sexual fantasies are potentially conducive to healing states of consciousness and to the emergence of multidimensional awareness. This is the experience of many common people, who out of the blue, without warning or predetermined intention, find themselves in expanded states of consciousness when having sexual experiences. They move into other worlds, accessing spaces of deep peace and ecstasy. And in doing so they forget about their partners, and may feel puzzled, ashamed and unable to share or understand their experience when they return. Sexual energy can be a sacred gateway leading beyond consensus reality, right into our core multidimensional identity. Sexual energy, when properly used, can shatter our separated perception of life, unveiling an ecstatic experience a billion times stronger than the most desirable orgasm.
This is why sex is so heavily manipulated, repressed and misunderstood. Yet here sex is not at all the taboo. The greatest taboo is the experience of ecstasy, the mystery of death, the release of our human separated reality and the unveiling of our multi-dimensional nature. Sexual interaction involves enormous exchanges of energy. Apart from the conscious reality of those who seem to be involved there is much more going on, which is what creates the energy. Most relevant forces are engaged in sexual activity, yet we miss their impact if sex is approached with lack of awareness. The sexual union provides a multi-dimensional evidence of unity, encompassing the physical, the emotional, the mental and the spiritual body. Since as human beings we officially identify ourselves only through our physical body, major issues often develop when individuals misunderstand their experiences or interrupt their relationships.
Acknowledgment and awareness regarding sex is a major step in shamanic healing. This is devoid of any interpretation or judgment. It is a witnessing process which also encompass our memories of sexual experiences by recapitulating them. The point here is not whether to have sex or not. It is being aware of what is truly happening behind the veil of sex, no matter how we experience it, getting out of glamour and prejudices, unconsciousness and denial.
Conscious use of sexual energy, whether through physical interaction, shamanic work or imagination, can be a fast track to the awakening of our multidimensional nature.wb051432

It can also provide inspiration, healing and luminous transformation for human communities and the planetary environment. As I move on the shamanic path and in daily life, a big part of the learning on the above comes from mistakes and frustrations. Yet deep within I know that as human beings we all share the same longing and dreams. Hence my determination and commitment grow, as I step out of isolation and become open to join other folks who share the same visions.

Choose Her Everyday – Or Leave Her

x0Dear Friends,
as the last few weeks encouraged us to birth into Spiritual Warriors for love and to clear our core values around everything we truly desire, I thought this piece a nice invitation to both sexes for a personal relationship reality check. It is a beautiful and heart felt confession from a man who failed himself in love and mad his math – how not to repeat the pain. Written in honesty and clarity it deeply reminds us, that both sides are suffering when we can not really choose our partner.
After yesterdays share of A Spiritual Warriors Apology to the Feminine, I feel it a beautiful addition. Hope that all of you – who desire so, find the courage to manifest your most hidden, most loudly screaming, inner picture of new love relationships into this world!
AHO! And Blessings!
Edith
I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her:
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Everyday, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.coupleChoosing her would have meant focusing everyday on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more. Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her. I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.
Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years. She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her everyday, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her everyday for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her. Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.x2If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
“Why am I choosing my partner today?” If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them everyday.Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Everyday.
You do, too……   Choose wisely!!Source: Bryan Reeves

Everything is Relationship – Everything is Flow – What to do if yours feel stuck!!

2aaby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
in the last few month the universal energies that have been influencing or transformation and evolutionary path as a human collective, have challenges us over and over again to allow a new paradigm of relationships to slowly emerge from within each of us! We have been pushed to understand all the little steps, how we are standing in our own way to truly receive the blessings of unconditional love, open sharing, authentic exchange and a supportive climate, for our personal relations and between all human beings.  A desire, that so many of us feel resonating as their soul path. A desire for a life as brotherhood of men.

Most people, when they her the word relationship, automatically think of partnership love, love relationships or sexual relations, but the picture is much much bigger.
In the second our spirit merged with the offerings of planet earth to materialize our human bodies, we became creatures intertwined in endless relations, with many layers of manifested and not manifested beings. Means, in our spirit we are pure light, unconditional love and bliss – as human beings our existence is about experience, evolution on all levels and, how we are standing in relationship to EVERYTHING in this world!!
In this so amazing time of human transformation we increasingly have the magnificent opportunity, to touch other creatures with our sensory self. We can be in communication, sharing and teaching with Ascended Master, Angels, the Animal Kingdom, Plant Healer and Crystals, just as easily as talking to a stranger in a coffee shop. The only thing that separates this beings from us, is our own claim to be worthy enough for such a relationship.
ashes-and-snow-by-gregory-colbert1These tips how to get your relationships back in flow, are therefor adaptable to every relationship of your life. Your core family, love relationship, children, friends, work colleges, the relationship you have with your work (if it makes you sick all the time, it might not be for you!), your home (if it breaks down without reason and sign show up for another place – maybe its time to move), the random world outside your window…

*)  The first particularly practical step is, to check if you are still two people in the relationship. Depending on your situation and the openness of your communication with the other, that can have many faces. You might see yourself realize bit by bit, that your partner is mainly physically in the room – but not actually present with you. You might speak to the other direct and ask if he is still fully in the boat. How ever your way of investigation might be, just make sure you are brutally honest with yourself. If you find yourself in a relation of two actively involved individuals, interested in maintaining the relation, your first victory has already happened!!
Unfortunately if you realize that this is not the case, your search ends here! There is no way to be in relation with somebody, who refuses to be actively part – every try to do so ends in abuse or/and self-abuse.

*) Make sure you are both totally honest about your core values and true needs in a relationship. That one actually can be tricky. If you socially meet new people or start a new relationship with the hope to maintained and carried it ahead, it is actually pretty simple to get what you need. You just need to be clear on your own needs and values – Clarity Attracts!! With your family members, long term friends and married couples its a bit more complex. When you met, you might not have been very grown up on a spiritual level of your evolution. So it is more likely that pattern mixed that you are unaware of.
My advice is: meet in a relaxed space of your home, light a candle have nice smell, meditate a little while together and than sit down and agree on topics for a writing meditation. The meditation is to detect your true values and needs, as they are TODAY. Be brave, choose things like how safe really feel with the partner, how much mental – emotional – practical help you need, if you truly can feel each other, values how children should be raised….
Sit down separated from another and write as long as it takes, as detailed as possible and as truthful as you can – even if it hurts or you feel scared or frustrated while you are writing. When ever both are done – exchange the papers. Make sure you give each other time and space to read and digest the information in separated physical space.
From there on you know what you are dealing with, and if the two people present in this relationship share the values required.love*) This might sound funny but ancient tantric teachings and science found out, that human being have basically four different ways how they are able to receive love. Means, there are four energetic gateways of connection inside of us, for natural recognition and acceptance of love. When somebody does the – for the individual RIGHT THING – it is immediately stored as “received love today from…” deep inside our being. Of course the borders are a bit fluent and you might find yourself between two expressions. It also can feel right to list them in importance. All of that is true. True Love always starts with ourselves!!  So find out how you are able to receive love … Think about it, feel it, allow the past to come up and see, why situations could not work out with one or the other person you loved so much!!

*) Logical next step, find out how all your beloved once are able to receive love … If we truly love by heart, not only love the movie of our past with a person or the feeling they bring into our world, but love from a place that is giving and sharing, over-floating in abundance – than we naturally want to give the other exactly what they express as their need. Do it and your bound will grow stronger while spirited with more freedom than ever!

*) Seek to inspire each other again!! Remember how it felt when yo met your best friend, your dearest college your long-term partner! The endless talks, the sharing of things that inflame your passion, the fearlessness to talk about yourself with out expectation to be understood or pampered. Try it out for one day and look at every person you seam to KNOW WELL – with the eyes of a stranger, and ask questions you never thought of before. You might be surprised how much more there is to people, that where boxed up already 😉 by the mind.

*) Create time for talks in a sacred manner! Especially when we know people since a while or live with them, our mind can easily be tricked into the idea we would know them and know everything about them. That is a deathly assumption for a relationship. We always know only so little fractures of another being, that we have to be brave and ask questions – instead of assuming we would KNOW the answer already.
Take each a little time for a meditation and than meet. Great each other – maybe with an intimate hug, a namaste, a shy smile – what every is truthful to the character of your relationship! Create a little circle with stones or crystals, balloons or any other item of your choice. Sit down in front of each other and talk about yourself!! How you feel, what you need, how you experienced situations between each other – no blame, no judgement, no guilt!! Always only one person is talking!! Try to hear the other in order to understand them – not in order to be immediately ready with a reply. To the contrary – allow the “energy of the spoken word” to stay in the room and sink into your awareness, before you start answering at all. Make that a culture in your relations and the level of intimacy, relaxation and happiness you can experience together are, at least for me, not even possible to describe!!670px-Cast-a-Circle-Step-6-Version-2*) Create space in your life for sensual encounter. Sensuality and Sexuality might be relate to another, but are in character profoundly different. Sexuality is intensively activating our energies and pushes them to rise. Sensuality mostly calms us. A sensual touch without intention, gives us time to sink in and hangout with our own body. Sensuality nurtures us till the core of our soul – sexuality not always! So with the partner take time for sensuality only and you will feel much deeper connected! And for yourself – allow this differentiation and you will feel more freedom to share intimacy, with more people than only your partner. So hug the hell out of your friends, let a dog poppy lick your face or cuddle the neighbors baby. It does not matter how, just allow yourself abundance in being nurtured by others touch!!!

I wish you courage and strength, purity and inner guidance when you go out there to be brave and create authentic, truthful, intimate relations with ALL YOUR WORLD!!!
In Gratitude for our Relationship!
Blessings Edith

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Choose Her Everyday (Or Leave Her)

Dear Friends,
this is a beautiful and heart felt article from a man who failed himself in love and mad his math – how not to repeat the pain. Written in honesty and clarity it gives a clear picture that both sides are suffering, when we can not really choose our partner. As since yesterday the star constellation Venus is retrograde, inviting us to clear our core values around everything we love and deeply desire in our life, I thought it a nice invitation to both sexes for a personal reality check. So close to the lion’s gate the energies are fiery, raw and deep!! 
Hope for all of you – who desire so, to find the courage and manifest your most hidden, most internally screaming, most satisfying picture of new love relationships into this world!
AHO! And Blessings! Edith

I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her.
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Everyday, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.

Choosing her would have meant focusing everyday on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more.

Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her.

Emotional SpiralI was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.

Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years.
She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.
To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her everyday, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her everyday for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her.
Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.
If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
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“Why am I choosing my partner today?”
If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”
If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them everyday.
Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Everyday.
You do, too.

Choose wisely.

Source: https://bryanreeves.com/choose-her-everyday-or-leave-her/