How Indigenous Wisdom, Shamanism, Environmentalism & Our Awakening Meet

1850-8343by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the last month the spirit guides have dropped hints that we collectively need to make a deeper inner connection with mother earth and our own human nature. This week now the Taurus New Moon brought us the energy field needed to ground all this new energetic connections into our physical body. Next question is how that will influence our society collectively. I would say by now there is no doubt, that human beings need nature for creative inspiration, inner peace and communion with spirit.
When we spend time in nature, our inner connection with the energy and vibration of all life on planet earth is growing. So if we accept that spirituality is supposed to lead us to authentic expression of unconditional love, compassion, and ethical ways of living, then spirituality necessarily leads us toward an inner need to take better care of the Earth than we are now doing as a global society. And now the collectively renewed energy field, allows much more people to feel a deeper and more tuned-in relationship with nature and mother earth.

In 2012 the Kogi people of the Sierra Madre in Colombia, shared their latest film, Aluna, sending out a warning to the world that we must change our path in how we treat pacha mama and the collective resources provided. They are a very old tribe, filled with indigenous wisdom, which lead to them having no interest in being studied by Westerns. They have not allowed anthropologists to live among them. And they have not allowed that their civilization becomes simply another object within ours. Maybe, because they can see thru the illusions the western world still expresses in the desire to conquer nature, which has destroyed the forests, rivers and mangrove swamps near their home.

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The indigenous people claimed “The government builds dams without ever finishing their environmental studies, and without awareness or respect for the consequences of the destruction of nature on our lives”. The authorization was issued for the construction of dams without giving response to the indigenous people, and leaving them with no fish, no water, no resources. The dams of the Teles Pires and Colider had already killed tons of fish and thousands of animals. And downstream of the dams the fish where dying, because of the sudden floodsand and uncontrolled lowering of the rivers “.

And now, with the new born inner connection to the earth and all her elements within our human existence, we will start feeling again the impact of all the things our society has done to nature.

  • Oil drilling and fracking release toxic chemicals into the Earth that harm the surrounding ecosystems, plants, animals, and humans who live nearby.
  • Spraying our crops with pesticides and herbicides to increase production ultimately poisons the food that we eat; we still do not fully understand the long-term consequences these practices will have on our health, reproductive ability, and longevity.
  • Burning fossil fuels to support our dependence on motor transportation, air conditioning, and other conveniences, pollutes the air and increases the carbon in the atmosphere, which brings harm to every living thing on the Earth.
  • Factory farming results in cruelty to animals on a massive scale including poor living conditions, injection with chemicals and hormones, removal of calves from their mothers immediately after birth, and other atrocities.

hRemember the article “The Earth And Us Are One – Earthquakes, Volcano Eruptions & Human Passion“? There I shared insides about our inter-connected nature even with the weather expressions.  As our dominant cultural mythology falls apart, we face repeated humiliation in the failure of our cherished systems of technology, politics, law, medicine, education, and more. By now. only with increasingly willful ignorance we can deny that the grand project of “civilization” has failed. Thanks God the needed humility to truly hear the messages of the indigenous people by heart, can be born of this humiliation. So it is on us right now, to turn the boat around and align our daily life with this awareness.

Dear Ones, the next collective step we need, is to focus our passion on planing and creating this world capable of hosting the Golden Age of Aquarius. To find back to harmony with the earth and oneness that moves us. I hope your activism is inflamed already! And that you are burning from within, for the preservation and sustainability of the mutual ground we are standing on!!! There is much each of us can do, from adapting our shopping habits, to raising inner awareness how we treat water and other natural resources,…
Love and Earth Blessings!!
Edith

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The New Relationship Paradigm – Things That Drive Independent Women Away

twinloveby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
the other day I found this refreshing article from Suzanne Kammer about things that guys do, that drive independent women away from their relationships. After we all have been going thru the collective healing of the divine masculine within, that the Equinox energies have brought upon us; and the recent triggering of the Twin Flame healing into the threefold inner flame of divinity; I feel that many things she mentions are not only true for independent girls, but collectively needed to create the co-creative connections we desire for the Golden Age of Aquarius. So no matter if you are a guy who is seeking to develop a broader understanding about women, a woman in relationship who failed so far to communicate this needs, or open for something new to come… this are valuable tips what to watch out for!! And as I did it before, I posted here the original article with my comments in color, below every section!

If there’s one thing an independent girl refuses to give up, it’s her independence. While these types of women may be seen as intimidating or cold, they’re often just misunderstood by men who are looking for a woman that can feed their ego. An independent woman is looking for a man that is as secure as she is – a man that knows the difference between wanting and needing another person. There’s a certain type of man that can date an independent woman, but if he’s doing any of these things, the relationship is not likely to last long.

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We will survive if we don’t see you every day. We’d even be okay if we had to spend a week apart. But the second you try to take up all our time and not give us our space when we need it, we’re going to feel smothered. And there’s nothing we hate more than that.
Funny enough I just recently had an experience like that during my holiday at the beach. It was like watching a whole relationship unfold in front of me, within the period of 6 hours. Met a guy at the buffet, shared a coffee and talked a while; went our ways.. met again and enjoyed spending more time… separated again.. did our things and the next time we met (between 9am in the morning and 3pm in the afternoon), he had developed the idea of having a RIGHT to CLAIM and DEMAND my time, space and presence… SERIOUSLY…
And girls, if you see him do that within 6 hours.. JUST WALK AWAY… no matter how cute, sexy, interesting or otherwise attractive he is for you!!

2. Getting upset when she travels alone
We crave new experiences and adventure, we like being alone with our own thoughts and we are comfortable striking up a conversation even when we don’t know a single person in another country. These are qualities an independent girl values about herself. And if you try and throw her down for them, you can kiss her goodbye.
If you are not jet in an relationship but are training your senses to translate a higher understanding of what you really need, so you can identify a good partner when you meet one, this is an important thing to watch. For all the journey of traveling life together, a true partner knows when to step back and let the other live their natural powers, and when to step in – because the situation requires theirs!! This is something couples learn to harmonize over time, by listening well to the vibration of the partner and the situation.

3. Being overprotective
We’ve likely been on our own for a while. We can fend for ourselves. We’re looking for a partner, not a second father.
I totally agree with her “looking for a partner, not a father” part, and apart from that, there is so much more for me in the wrong type of protection. I feel the feminist few of “I can do it all for myself” has also harmed us in our ability to allow being pampered, taken care of and treated lovingly by the ones we care for, so I like being protected on that level. But than over my lifetime I saw masculine protection turn within the blink of an eye into control, domineering, belittling and overpowering – and that does not harmonize with equality and co-creation!!knkj4. Making her feel guilty when she takes a day to herself
Sometimes we just want a day to ourselves. Don’t be offended if we choose a night in with Netflix over seeing you. It has nothing to do with how we feel about you and everything to do with how we feel about ourselves. We value our alone time and, heck, sometimes we absolutely need it.
This in my eyes is a matter of self-knowledge and self-care, and needs to be communicated in clarity. So many people by now are aware that they carry the traits of an empath, that they are Indigo Children, Crystal Children, Highly Sensitive, introverts, or..or.. or…, and all this personality types have an elevated need for official “alone time”. For many of this people it is even necessary that nobody is physically present in the same space (that can be simply a room, a whole house, a complete property), so they can deeply open up to energetic regeneration with the divine source direct. So if we know all that, it is our responsibility to communicate it to our partner in a way, that they can understand and respect our needs!?

5. Trying to do everything for her
We can change our own light bulb, carry our own groceries and drive ourselves, thank you very much.
Here again I sense a bit to much anger and feminism for my personal taste. I really don’t have to carry my groceries home – while my partner with the naturally stronger muscles – walks home next to me without bags!! I also enjoy being picked up, taking of my shoes immediately, putting up my feed on the cars dashboard and have a relaxed ride home, chatting away; while my partner drives us home, no problem with that. The only thing unhealthy is when a man implyes with words or energetically that I lost my ability to do this things for myself, because he appeared in my life!! Also that is not coherent with equality!!

6. Being jealous
We are going to talk to who we want and hang out with who we want. We want to be trusted and the last thing we need is an insecure man who makes us constantly check in with them or interrogates us like we’re at a job interview.
Well I agree with her on the “checking in and interrogation” parts, not on the general topic. If we desire to have deeply soul touching relationships, than we have to be capable to move on from stereo types!! It is one thing to say I am not interested in a partner that is willing to control me – but that is easily done by choosing a person who trusts themselves, but there also has to be space to express in an appropriate way if particular behaviors of our partner trigger us in our insecurities. If not we are not providing a safe space for growth for another, and the relationship starts limiting instead of expanding us!uh7. Telling her she can’t do something
We’re sorry, but we don’t recall asking for permission.
Noting else to say but “AGREED” on that one ;-)!

8. Taking her away from her family or friends
When you weren’t around, family and friends were our everything. We’re not about to give that up. We value our relationships with the people who are important to us. Even when we have a boyfriend, we still need time for the ones who have been there since day one.
Again this is simple self-responsibility, nobody can take anyone away from someone, we always have a part in that! Situations like that are about control, power and emtional safety, not an expression of love!

9. Wanting to come everywhere with her
We are perfectly comfortable going out to get food alone. We can attend a wedding without a date. And we don’t need you to be our body guard every time we go out dancing with friends.
That’s the same than number one.

10. Putting down her hobbies
You don’t have to like our hobbies or even take part in them, but you better respect them. There’s no bigger turnoff than a man who discourages you and can’t support what you’re passionate about.
I think this is another important topic to take a deeper look at. Why at all partnering with somebody who has the need to discourage us at all?? How can that serve the partnership? How will that bring passion, beauty and natural desire for the mutually created projects (including reproduction) into the mix?? And again bringing others down is about feeling higher up.. so no equality in this team!

11. Needing constant reassurance
We need a man who can be secure about our relationship even if we don’t make you feel needed all the time. The truth is, we don’t need you. We’re completely fine on our own. What’s important is that we actually want you.
I agree very much with the “ we don’t need you” and “what’s important is that we actually want you” parts and, if we demand from our partner that he never feels insecure, just because he is born male, than we are simply stuck in stereo types!!l

12. Paying all the time
You know we work too, right?
I feel that is totally a matter of agreement and has to be arranged between every couple individually. When we are developed enough to desire an authentic co-creative love relationship, maybe even meet a Twin Flame partner, we can’t get stuck in fights about money – that is ridiculous! Real partner work together, they talk and make the arrangement that fits for their personal situation. No society colored opinion needed here!!!

13. Not having a life outside of her
We know there are three aspects to a relationship- the me, the you and the us. We like a man who knows how to take care of the ‘you’. We want you to have your own hobbies, take a weekend trip with the guys and do things for yourself once in a while.
This I found interesting because I feel that when we truly are independent beings (no matter if man or woman), we don’t attract people who are not!! A self-sustainable woman (who learned to feed her emotional, mental, spiritual and physical body herself, will naturally attract a man who also knows about the 1+1=3!!! So if you feel like the author in your relation right now, ask yourself where your have not quite developed true independence jet!

14. Being too traditional when it comes to gender roles
We can pay for our own dinner, put together our own piece of furniture and even work after giving birth.
Just a repetition of 1, 3, 9 and 12.

15. Moving too fast
We didn’t get this independent overnight. We’re likely used to being on our own and it may take a little while for us to get used to having someone else around. We are secure enough on our own that we don’t need someone to tell us they love us on the second date, we don’t need to meet your parents tomorrow and we aren’t going to move in with you next week.
Haha.. this actually is perfectly explained by my answer of number 1.aaDear Ones, I hope you enjoyed the read, had maybe a good laugh about one or the other familiar theme, and all in all got inspired to take a good deep look at the reality and insides of your relationship life so far!! May the information bring blessings and seeds of new beginnings and divine manifestations to you, and may you feel strong to take your self-love to the next level. The energies are strong and the universe is sending us the winds of change on the way, while we are walking into the Golden Age of Humanity!!
Love and Blessings!!
Edith

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Guidelines To Awakening Into The Golden Age of Aquarius

animation-BUDDHA_UNION_by_VISHNU108by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
in December last year I shared how the collective cleansing of the first chakra, that took place for the human race at that moment allows us now, to sense on deeper levels how we need to create our collective future as oneness race on planet earth. During this March, three month later, with the collective healing of the divine masculine, the resulting possibility to unite the Twin Flame Fire, the incoming Ascended Master support to renew our life energy and the powerful impact of the Pisces New Moon with the Total Solar Eclipse; this healing circle is closing for us. In another post, I shared what role the Native American Code of Ethics is playing in the collective development of emotional intelligence for our society and relationship development. And today allow me to bring you a collection of quotes from the Buddha that, when brought into context with another, give us a clear picture how we need to behave, to bring this ethics codes into reality. See for yourself and feel how his words of wisdom vibrate for you!

1.) The virtues, like the Muses, are always seen in groups. A good principle was never found solitary in any breast.

2.) You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.

3.) I do not believe in a fate that falls on men however they act; but I do believe in a fate that falls on them unless they act.

4.) We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.

5.) We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.

6.) Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.

7.) Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

8.) Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.

9.) The foolish man conceives the idea of ‘self.’ The wise man sees there is no ground on which to build the idea of ‘self;’ thus, he has a right conception of the world and well concludes that all compounds amassed by sorrow will be dissolved again, but the truth will remain.

z10.) Just as treasures are uncovered from the earth, so virtue appears from good deeds, and wisdom appears from a pure and peaceful mind. To walk safely through the maze of human life, one needs the light of wisdom and the guidance of virtue.

11.) To keep the body in good health is a duty… otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear.

12.) To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one’s family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one’s own mind. If a man can control his mind he can find the way to Enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him.

13.) Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.

14.) With fools, there is no companionship. Rather than to live with men who are selfish, vain, quarrelsome, and obstinate, let a man walk alone.

15.) No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.

16.) He who gives away shall have real gain. He who subdues himself shall be free; he shall cease to be a slave of passions. The righteous man casts off evil, and by rooting out lust, bitterness, and illusion do we reach Nirvana.

17.) Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.

18.) I am not the first Buddha who came upon Earth, nor shall I be the last. In due time, another Buddha will arise in the world – a Holy One, a supremely enlightened One, endowed with wisdom in conduct, auspicious, knowing the universe, an incomparable leader of men, a master of angels and mortals.

19.) However many holy words you read, however many you speak, what good will they do you if you do not act on upon them?

20.) Charity bestowed upon those who are worthy of it is like good seed sown on a good soil that yields an abundance of fruits. But alms given to those who are yet under the tyrannical yoke of the passions are like seed deposited in a bad soil. The passions of the receiver of the alms choke, as it were, the growth of merits.ijkDear Ones, I hope this loving guidelines from the Ascended Master Realms are flaming your inner fire of passion for life, and provides some direction how to act divine in this amazing time of change. May you be supported and guided in every moment, and may you feel strong to manifest your true soul desires for the Golden Age of Aquarius on planet earth!! Shine bright beloved friends, be a beam of light for all of us, in this incredible collective awakening process.
Love and Blessings!!!
Edith

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The Art of Lovemaking

loveby Edith Boyer-Telmer
Dear Friends,
for some days now, again and again the theme of our collective human sexuality popped up and created the energy for the shifts and changes, appearing within the new relationship paradigm. We talked about the influence the constant consume of pornography can have on the masculine mind and brain reward system. And I shared the beautiful, open, heartfelt and authentic confession of a friend, about what kind of influence his regular porn watching had on his relationship.  As we are shifting another little step deeper into the Golden Age of Aquarius and into the openness for a new, evolved human sexuality. Many of you expressed by now your feelings and hopes for this changes. So here are some baby steps how to start, and move from having sex, into a mode of “making love”. I hope this Gemini Full Moon’s energies have filled you up with bravery and passion, and that you find the right person to share all your dreams and desire with!!!
Blessings, Love and Light
Edith

This is an excerpt from the article “Pornography Verses Conscious Sexuality”, from Stella Muse:
The Art of Lovemaking

Conscious sex leads to LOVE making. Learning the art of lovemaking, of intimacy and connection with your partner beyond diving direct into genital stimulation is so empowering personally and in a couple. When my clients realize this, learn and practice this they express there is no longer a desire for porn as it doesn’t satisfy like love does.

Gift Presence
Being conscious means being present, totally and utterly in the moment; with yourself if it is self pleasure or with your beloved if you are enjoying together. You are not distracted, thinking about the ‘to do’ list from the day, neither are you worrying about how your body looks in the light or if some part of you is big enough or small enough. None of these ‘personality’ driven thoughts are given any attention. Instead, that mind power is channeled into presence and thus love for your beloved. As you let go of everything else you loosen, you relax, you soften and open to melt into them and the moment. Being fully in the here and now on a regular basis with yourself first and foremost through practices such as meditation, yoga, floating and mindfulness allows you to better drop into the moment and be present with your beloved as well. Gifting presence is a priceless gift of love to your beloved which in turn is also a gift to your relationship and yourself.

Get Intimate
When you are present you are really being with the other person and this is when the intimacy builds. Intimacy also depends on how honest you are with yourself and your beloved. You can not lie to yourself and you can not lie to a beloved if you want to get intimate. Your innate desire for intimacy is your desire to know and experience yourself deeply and to be truly known by your beloved.

11988521_10153391755423515_3098415974840019079_n4 simple ways to build intimacy before you get to the bedroom

Share Ideas – Be open minded, listen and share; perhaps it’s planning a holiday, booking a restaurant, or creating something together from a meal to a business launch.

Share Emotions – Without projection – Own how you’re feeling – share your emotions in a loving manner. This opens your heart to your beloved and brings you closer.

Have a Snuggle – Snuggling and hugging is endorphin raising. Holding someone and/or being held allows your body to slow down enough to connect deeper; to feel the others warmth, their energy merge with yours and welcome them into your personal space. This can be as intimate as you allow.

Touch to Feel – Conscious touch means being present while you are touching to deeply feel the other person can be extremely intimate. This transforms the stroke of an arm or cheek to a sensual interaction. Building upon this with touch after touch can awaken the fire between you both.

4 simple steps to spark Conscious Sex / Lovemaking

Set the scene – Candles, music, incense, dim lights, some champagne, ice cubes, strawberries, a blind fold, mirrors, warming or cooling of the room. Use your imagination it can be as simple as one candles by your bed or turning your space into a sacred temple of love worship.

Eye gazing – Eyes are the windows to the soul and are the powerhouse of sparking intimacy and fueling passion. Try; sit knee to knee, women on top, stand naked across the room from each other, or in front of a mirror if you are alone and look deeply into the eyes of yourself or your beloved. In them you will see yourself, you can see love, oneness, unity, Divinity. What else can you see? What do you feel? Where in your body do you feel it?hqdefaultSensual touch – Where on your body or your partners body do you love to touch, explore, be licked, kissed, tasted, tickled, pinched, massaged? Go to other areas besides the breasts or genitals, make them hungry, wet, begging, desiring, excited, turned on, juicy for more before you go near the genitals.

Body Worship – This is the time to slow dance your way around the body temple, yes, slow. Slow it right down. Once you do make it to breast, yoni or lingam touch, take your time. This should be a dance or enticing erotica. THIS foreplay is lovemaking, it is being present in the heat of the moment, in the HEART of the moment.

The key distinction is that conscious lovemaking goes beyond the physical, you are penetrating each others hearts and souls as well. A  conscious lover tunes into their beloveds movements, the flush of their skin, their breath and heart rate increasing, the little quivers or moans. They tune into the energy of their beloved and respond with passion and love. For some there is a healthy curiosity, a desire to experiment, mix things up and/or explore porn but once that has been achieved and the art of LOVE making, of conscious sex has been learned and practiced the distinction between the two is so vast it is like your eyes opening for the first time and you can not close them and shy away from what you have seen (felt, tasted…) ever again. This is the power of conscious sex, this is the power of making LOVE through opening to being Divine LOVE.
Article Source: http://www.stellamuse.com/porn-v-conscious-sex/

Yogic Tools For A Better Sex Life – From ‘Having Sex’ to ‘Making Love’

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Dear Friends,
I shared this wonderful piece about a year ago and today realized, it is even more inspiring now as we are collectively invited to understand sexuality on a completely different level than before. It complements perfectly my post about the sacredness of our human sexuality, within the new relationship paradigm for the Golden Age of Aquarius. I hope you like it as much as I did, and that you feel inspired by the practical tips the author is providing! Have fun experimenting and discovering yourself and your partner in the beauty of your soul’s light!!
Blessings and Love!
Edith

The key is to view our sexuality holistically—not just as a physical or emotional experience. When we honor our sexuality as the most potent energy we possess (literally the ability to create life), we realize a powerful opportunity for cultivating union—a deep, soulful merging between two people. Turn your love making into a spiritual practice. Use sex to awaken, express your creativity and expand consciousness. In yoga, this is called bramacharya (containment and mindful use of sexual energy) and is one of the 10 foundations (yamas) of living a yogic life.

1. Choose Partners Wisely
Look and choose partners that have the same intention as you. For example, if you are seeking a relationship, be clear they have the same intention. If you just want a lover, make sure your partner is on the same page. Is this a monogamous relationship or open? Transparency builds mutual trust and understanding and creates the safety necessary for your psyche and soul to feel safe enough to expand. Having honest, direct conversations means you’re setting the foundation of love and respect.

2. Agree on the Ground Rules
Prior to entering into a sexual relationship, have a conscious dialogue around basics such as sexually transmitted diseases, what type of birth control you’ll use and even what happens if you do get pregnant. It’s crucial to set and agree on ground rules in order to build a foundation where both partners feel understood.
If you have trouble discussing touchy subjects with your partner, it’s a good indication that there is not enough care, friendship, emotional connection or psychological development between you to warrant moving into a sexual relationship. In other words, if you can’t be honest about your needs or truth, ask yourself why? Is this really an appropriate sexual partner for you? Bonus: deeper intimacy and physical satisfaction comes when you feel safe, heard and respected!

3. Practice Deep Breathing
Before you enter the physical love making, get in the habit of slowing down and resonating with your partner by breathing together. Conscious sexuality is not about orgasm. It’s not even about intercourse. When we focus our attention on the breath, we move out of a goal oriented, physical process and into a more ‘feeling state’ connected to the subtle, non-linear, energetic body.
Making love is two people truly seeing, feeling, celebrating and honoring each other—a merging of the two into the one. When you deepen and slow down your breath, you open over 72,000 energetic pathways or nadis. This relaxes your body, increasing blood circulation which can lead to fuller, more pleasurable orgasms (not necessarily the goal). It also calms the mind and softens the ego. You will begin to connect to your partner from a more generous, humble, open and authentic place. If you notice continued deep, conscious breathing is difficult for you, get thyself to a yoga class!7898900_f5204. Practice Soul Gazing
Another powerful exercise to build energetic and emotional alignment with your partner is Soul Gazing. This is an open-eye meditation where you simply sit comfortably and relax together. Start by sitting on the floor or bed across from each other in a cross-legged position (or whatever feels comfortable). Sit close together, knees almost touching. Lengthen through your spine, relax your shoulders, face, jaw, tongue and your expectations. Make and gently hold eye contact. (It is helpful to look left eye to left eye so the eyes are not darting back and forth.) Begin to observe each other silently. Take each other in. Watch your breath without trying to control it. Observe what you see in the other person and how it feels to truly be seen. Let any thoughts, judgments, expectations, defenses or tension rise and silently fall away. Relax, breathe, see, be seen and feel.
For many people, it is extremely difficult to maintain eye contact here. Laughter often arises, a feeling of silliness or fidgeting. Simply notice this and allow it to rise and fall away like waves in the ocean. Come back to the breath. Silently sit and gaze into each others’ eyes—with no expectation—for a minimum of 15 minutes.
When you move out of the personality and verbal mode of communicating, you begin to simply be with another and drop into a more authentic space. Your connection deepens out of the “False Self” we tend to project. You begin seeing through the eyes of the heart and perceiving your partner beyond the roles and identity you have attached to them. Expectations and judgements slip away. The Soul or Spirit becomes more tangible. Attuning and bringing your energies into alignment with deep breathing and soul gazing will immediately enhance the intimacy in your relationship even when you are not having sex.

5. Set an Intention
Allow your love making to turn into a spiritual practice. This is often referred to as ‘sexual magic’ —or using sex as a gateway for spiritual evolution and deep psychological and emotional healing. One way to begin this practice is to simply set an intention or say a prayer before making love. Ask Spirit to enter the room. Ask that this be a ritual to bring both you and your partner into your Highest Self, connect with your deepest truth, wisdom and capacity for unconditional love.
If you’re in a committed relationship you may choose to focus on something you intend to create together with your partner. For example, if you have children you may dedicate your ritual as an offering to be better parents. If there’s tension in a relationship or you just had a fight, ask that the love you make help you both soften, let go, forgive and reconnect. Perhaps, your intention is simply to explore, release, be wild, playful and have fun! Sex is alchemy—an opportunity to use the physical body to consciously shape-shift, change our emotional state and elevate our consciousness. Your sexual energy is the most powerful energy you own. Literally, the energy that creates life. It does not get any bigger or more potent than that. Setting an intention before sex is like placing a dam on this raw power—focusing and directing the flow to exactly the area of your life you choose.

6. Start Slowly
Slow down…. Sex is not a goal-oriented process. Our aim is to move out of the ego/thinking mind and into the transcendent realm of the Soul. Start with deep breathing, massaging, gentle touching, kissing and maintaining eye contact. The nervous system, physical body and heart need time to transition, relax, feel safe and open. Patience creates safety, ease and contentment. The ego mind is goal-oriented. When we are trying to get somewhere or get someone else somewhere it breeds tension, anxiety and constriction in the body.
When you notice your thinking mind ‘trying’, analyzing, judging or anticipating, return to the breath, relax, recommit to gazing and slow down. Holding each others’ gaze while making love breeds much more intimacy (and vulnerability) and connects the heart center to the second chakra or sacral center. Deep breathing expands and spreads out the intensity, desire and sensations of the sexual organs, building a bridge between our primal desires (sexual energy) and our heart—the emotional, sweet, tender, vulnerable, authentic space of who we are. Breath, gaze, sound and intention begin to align our actions with our heart.se7. Draw Energy Up Your Spine
Once you are making love, practice taking deeper breaths to expand your energy and draw it up the spine. When we move up the line through the chakras, we move into more refined aspects of Self. We are less obsessed with our individual, physical desires and getting our needs met and more attuned to our partner, expanding our awareness and serving others. Allow yourself to be “inspired.” The word “inspiration” literally means to breathe in—to be filled with breath. Allow Spirit to flow through you and be literally In-Spired or filled with Spirit when you’re in the process of making love. Visualize the flow of energy moving upwards through your belly, chest, back, outwards through your arms and eyes, and back to your partner again. This begins the tantric loop of contained energy that will fuel and “inspire” both of you.

8. Bring More Affection Daily
Make affection, kindness, tenderness and physical touch a priority on a daily basis. Sweetly caress your lover’s face. Get in the habit of regularly giving compliments. Hold their hand. Surprise your lover with a sweet kiss. Practice random, unsolicited acts of kindness. This stimulates the ‘mirror neurons’ making us feel loved, lovable and keeps us sensually connected. Do this for yourself, too! Self love is the foundation of all love.

Posted by Ashley Turner June 17th 2014, in http://www.meetmindful.com/conscious-love-how-to-improve-your-sex-life/

Trees Speak When They Are Thirsty Science Proofed It

bhby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
while we are integrating the balance between the divine masculine and the divine feminine forces, the role of our relationship with planet earth is taking front and center space these days. In this very special moment our newly increased sensitivity level enables many people, to deeply feel themselves for the first time as a living and breathing part of mother nature. It is crucial for the emotional, spiritual and mental re-connection of the human collective, to create head-space for a new way of relying to the Earth. A way of living fully responsible and harmonious, with all beings involved. Also we are finally called to understand the very personal role every plant, animal and crystal is playing in the ascension process of the human race. Being aware of that, I was not surprised when a research on the fact that “trees are actually talking when they are thirsty”, found me today.

In this research, published by a team from the Grenoble University in France, scientists confirmed that they found evidence that “trees can talk”. To be exact they realized that, when trees are thirsty and in lack of water, they make a sound. Of course this sound is not available within the frequency resonance of the human ear. The experiments the Grenoble team made showed, that trees communicate thru so called “ultrasonic pops”. This pops release a vibration, that is 100 times faster than the human ear can receive. By simulating a living tree with the use of dead pine tree pieces soaked in a hydro-gel, the researching team discovered the sound-phenomena of the “Speaking Tree”.aAccording to lead researcher Philippe Marmottant this hydro-gel helps to isolate what noises the trees make. A historical act, as the hydrogel approach was used for the very first time, for this particular purpose!
We can track the articulation of bubbles, and what we found is the majority of sounds that we hear are linked to bubbles. I say majority, because there may be other causes like cracks in the wood, or insects. But the majority of sounds that occur during cavitations are due to these bubbles,”
Philippe Marmottant stated.

We can imagine that now as this information is available, the race is on between researching teams all over the planet, to create the needed sound equipment for the human ear to be able to listening to this exciting sounds. Personally I am looking forward where this is going and, who will be quicker in developing their abilities… human beings within the sensory-self, so we can naturally hear our tree brothers talk… or science in developing a machine for the same purpose ;-)!taWhat ever may come, I hope you are getting out there to enjoy the beauty, serenity and peace nature and a loving relationship with our environment creates!! Allow yourself to be embraced by the unconditionally loving, nurturing and grounding energies our tree companions share with us
Blessings and Tree Huger Hug!
Edith

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Allow Angelic Energies to help with your Inner Shifts!

budby Edith Boyer Telmer

Dear Friends,
we are truly experiencing the first steps into the manifestation of our Golden Age of Aquarius!!! In posts last month , I shared information about the synchronicity of numbers, their relationship to Ascended Masters, Angels and divine color rays and already this month, we are invited to make even deeper contact. Again the doors to the angelic energies have opened and provided more downloads for our collective evolution. Still we are experiencing and integrating internal shifts around the frequency impact of the year 8 and its themes. This is what right now manifests changes in our political systems and relationship paradigms.
Important to know is, that a numerology year 8 carries the frequency field to end cycles, for the creation of balance and the repayment of karmic depths of the human collective. As karma is carried forward from lifetime to lifetime, we may not experience the consequences of our actions until a subsequent lifetime. Karma equals the Universal Law of Cause and Effect. The law explains that, as we are energy beings by origin, every single act thought and feeling of human beings has an impact on their environment (cause). This cause somewhere – sometime appears again in your world, as outcome (effect). Law related phrases are as you give so you shall receive’, or ‘you reap what you sow’. Means, your moment by moment choices of thoughts and emotions will affect your vitality and health. 12031992_875402682528539_1722544325102534693_nSo if you want to be part of the active creation of PEACE, choose wisely and work with the forces provided to support us. You can connect with the divine rays of light, that have been transmitted intensively over the last few weeks. You can learn about the divine qualities of the Angels and Ascended Masters. You can invite them to help you cultivate this energies. A simple start is to remind yourself of the meaning and divine content, when ever you see a specially radiant or shining color. Also by thinking of, or calling out the name of a Master or Angel, you make your connection. Don’t be shy and give it a try! Take it easy and relax! The divine powers love a playful approach!
Here a short list of some angelic forces, working on the different color rays – to help manifest “The Divine” within the collective consciousness of the human race:

Blue Ray of Divine Will, Divine Guidance & Faith
Immaculata the purity of the divine plan & miracles
Lemuel the forces of nature & balance
Mother Marie the force of renewal & blessings
Archangel Michael the Angel of death

Golden Ray of Divine Wisdom & Ascended Peace
Lanto the victory of the divine plan
Laotse moderation in behavior & material desire
Maitreya peace of the golden age of humanity & completion
Archangel Jophiel the Angel of beautiful thoughtsa444Green Ray of Healing & Soul Science
Hermes Trimegistos Thot the metaphysical laws of the divine forces
Pythagoras coding and decoding of the divinity within
Hilarion concentration & healing
Archangel Raphael the Angel of healing

Violet Ray of Transformation & Mercy
Kuan Yin the power of forgiveness & divine grace
Afra the power of spiritual emotional intelligence
Karmic Counsel the power of true justice
Archangel Zadkiel the Angel of mercy

Pink ray of Unconditional Love & Peace
Sanat Kumara & Venus the power of loving acceptance & the frequencies of the golden world
Tia & Ai the power of oneness, unification & creativity
Lady Nada the power of unconditional love, gratitude and self-esteem
Archangel Chamuel the Angel of prayer and peaceful relationships

I hope this will give you a good foundation for your co-creative interaction with the forces behind the veil!! Wish you fun and big success in the steps you choose to make!! An collectively – of we go, into a united WORLD IN PEACE!!
Love and Blessings
Edith

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Choose Her Everyday – Or Leave Her

x0Dear Friends,
as the last few weeks encouraged us to birth into Spiritual Warriors for love and to clear our core values around everything we truly desire, I thought this piece a nice invitation to both sexes for a personal relationship reality check. It is a beautiful and heart felt confession from a man who failed himself in love and mad his math – how not to repeat the pain. Written in honesty and clarity it deeply reminds us, that both sides are suffering when we can not really choose our partner.
After yesterdays share of A Spiritual Warriors Apology to the Feminine, I feel it a beautiful addition. Hope that all of you – who desire so, find the courage to manifest your most hidden, most loudly screaming, inner picture of new love relationships into this world!
AHO! And Blessings!
Edith
I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her:
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Everyday, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.coupleChoosing her would have meant focusing everyday on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more. Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her. I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.
Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years. She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her everyday, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her everyday for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her. Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.x2If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
“Why am I choosing my partner today?” If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them everyday.Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Everyday.
You do, too……   Choose wisely!!Source: Bryan Reeves

Are Indigo Children and Empath our Natural Leader for a New World?

38by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
our world is changing and we are still about to grab the bigger picture of what it means to go thru a number 8 Numerology year. One of the themes we are triggered to understand on a deeper level, is our idea of what it means to be a true leader.
When we look into the society we collectively created so far most people would probably say a leader is a person of strength, of big knowledge, a charismatic, headstrong, probably courageous being – with maybe even an intimidating personality. But than, when we look into the society we have right now, we also have to admit – that did not quite work out so well for us!
I was born in the 70s in Vienna-Austria, as an Indigo Child, Introvert and Empath. When I was little, we lived in a residential area next to diplomats, local politicians and the economical elite of Vienna. People of great power and influence in the world. I always felt like an outsider, somehow alone, different than others, more like standing on the sidelines of life watching the figures in my world make their moves – than emotionally present with them. Something many High Sensitive People experience as a challenge in their life. During the years of my parents divorce, I had to switched schools quite often, which did not make it more easier for me to feel connected.
But, every single time I meet people who where in class with me, they tell me how much they loved my “loud voice against injustice“, the frequency of change that came with me into the classroom, and “that I lead them” into more authentic and courageous expression – when talking to the teachers. Some call it revolution ;-)…
Do you see where I am going with that?

Indigo Child & Empath use all their being when listening to others:

Empath just like Indigo Children and High Sensitive, experience the world through a different perspective than the average person. Most people with these traits are used to live their life in the extended energetic state of the 6th sense. That allows them to read other peoples energies and emotions, while talking to them.
Something else that differentiates the behavior of most Empath, Indigo Children and High Sensitive from the collective is, that they are used to listen to people with the intention to hear THEIR TRUTH and to understand the motivation behind the spoken word. That creates a field of security – a warm embrace for the talker, which naturally leads to more freedom in expression.

Stephen R. Covey once sad, images That’s a problem as it does not create human relationships but distance.

When I am honest, most of the impressive men in leading positions that I met during my childhood, scared the living hell out of me. They where simple unapproachable!!  No warm feelings or no openness, there was nothing that mad me feel safe – in the energy field they where radiating.
For me that is a clear sign, that sensitive personality types are rather the more effective “natural born leader” in our world. They have the capacity to do a better job, as its natural for them to put their egos aside and truly care for others. Their communication skills include the awareness, that transparency and honesty are required to create an authentic relationship with others. That are traits of leader for me, traits I desire seeing in Politicians, Teacher, Doctors and Police officer!do

Sensitive people feel the need to balance their environment:

Why would that make them good truthful leader? When High Sensitive people interact with others, they are naturally looking for a win – win situation for all beings involved. If that is not the case they feel very uncomfortable and could even make themselves sick. Most of the political leader we have at the moment, are puppets to the system they are working in. Indigo Children are literally born with the soul purpose to lead the human collective, into the manifestation of the Golden Age of  Aquarius and change that!

Sensitive people mainly seek to make their decisions, based on the needs and for the best of the collective. They experience it as rather natural to consider the feelings and opinions of others, in their evaluation of a situation.
To me – that sounds like a healthy natural leader. If in a political position, a developing project, a cooperate job or the little family clan, that is what the world needs!!

Self-study makes them more accepting of human nature:

Many Empath, Indigo Children and High Sensitive are often also rather introverted people. It kind of comes with the shared traits this personality types usually have. Because many of them feel weird and as outsider in their society,  they spending more time trying to understand themselves than most people do. They study their own behavior and human nature, with the intention to feel the beauty of oneness.
In a conversation with others they than apply the gained understanding, in order to connect on an even deeper level. It makes their ability to accept the inner dynamics that are at work in peoples emotions, much profounder than most people are able to find inside themselves.

introversion introvertWhen self-empowered, the highest good of all is naturally their goal:

Once Empath, Indigo Children or High Sensitive people understand the incredible gifts they carry inside, nothing can stop them from using them for the higher good! The sensitivity and vulnerability that is part of their nature, makes them strong and highly co-operative creative partner. Their natural mindset and positive attitude about leadership in co-operation, allows them to be fearless in finding new solutions for our collectively evolving humanity.
They carry the ability and courage to create strong impacts of positive change for our world!! Change born from compassion for self and others and the need to create balance and harmony for everybody!!

So if you identify yourself as an Empath, Indigo Children or High Sensitive person.. STEP UP… develop your personal beauty, strengths and divine abilities, and go out there to do the job you came for!!! Don’t be shy in taking chances!! Don’t forget, that you have everything you need already inside of you!! You can study alone, take a teacher to help you develop your truthful expression or a group to share your steps with. Do what ever it takes to be the person you wanted to be, when you decided to live on this beautiful planet!!
I wish you clarity and strength on your path into your future leading roles on this planet!!! Blessed be your beautiful, crystal clear souls!!
Love and Blessings
Edith

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