Authentic Leadership And Emotional Intelligence – Teachings For 2017

2by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
I don’t know where you are standing right now in your life, but I have to say “I am incredibly excited about the perspective of this awakening year 2017”!!! It will be a year full of action and active manifestation of lots of little details, that we desire collectively and individually for the Golden Age of Aquarius. But before we are there, we still need to transform and shift a lot of the things we got aware of during the last year.
There is a quote from Arundhati Roy:
“The trouble is that once you see it, you can’t unsee it. And once you’ve seen it, keeping quiet, saying nothing, becomes as political an act as speaking out. There’s no innocence. Either way, you’re accountable”. And this year we are particularly accountable for understanding higher leadership abilities, and putting our own leadership strength behind the physical projects we want to see born into this world.

And it is our time to become the authentic communicator as well as the truthful community leader, that we want our children to have as an example to look up to.

This is a part from the book Meditations with Native American Elders: The Four Seasons
“In order for our children to survive in the world, they need a firm understanding and belief in the basic principles of sharing freedom and respect of individuality.”
–Haida Gwaii, Traditional Circle of Elders

There is a saying:
Tell me, I’ll forget;
Show me, I’ll remember;
Engage me; I’ll understand.
The adults need to determine what the child is learning.
The principle of sharing keeps the youth from being greedy and selfish.
The principle of freedom teaches the youth about choices, decisions and consequences.
The principle of respect keeps us from playing God and becoming a controller of all things.
We need to learn these lessons so we may demonstrate them for our children.
Great Teacher, help me to understand Your principleaaOne of the things we might have to top up our understanding about, is emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is the ability to identify and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others”, states the official explanation of the term. Personally I would add to this, “while not manipulating others and looking for a win-win outcome for all parties involved”. To refine your emotions, you can seek the help of the violet flame and the Ascended Master Afra!!

VIOLET FLAME PRAYER
I AM a being of violet fire
I AM the purity God desires.

OSHO
If you can weep and laugh well, you are alive.

The dead man cannot laugh and cannot weep.
The dead man can be serious in a more skillful way
than you can be.

Only an alive man can laugh and weep and cry.
Smiling is the first social activity,
and should remain the basic social activity.
One should go on laughing the whole of one’s life.
If you can laugh in all sorts of situations,
you will become so capable of encountering them —
and that encounter will bring maturity to you.

I am not saying don’t weep.
In fact, if you cannot laugh, you cannot weep.
They go together;
they are part of one phenomenon: of being true and authentic.
aaaDear Ones, I hope you are filled with inspiration right now to become the most authentic and most joyful leader for this Golden Age, that you can possibly be within this world and your personal space. Remember that the journey is a long-term run, that there is no end and no beginning, but one layer after the other. Keep digging dear friends!!
Love and Leading Passion!
Edith

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Leo Full Moon And Mercury Goes Direct

kDear Friends,
I highly recommend you take some time tomorrow and let yourself be papered!! Right after the 5 planet stellar alignment of yesterday (Venus, Mars, Mercury, Jupiter and Saturn!!) we are hitting the peek energy of this January Full Moon in Leo. Many of us are still processing the intense effects the resent magical stellar and intergalactic events had on our system, and staying grounded with our energies will be very important over the coming days. To spend some relaxed family time in nature and do a light workout (simply kick some balls with your children!), might be just the right thing to do.
Also think of discovering / renewing / actively continuing your love-relationship with the powerful alchemy of your own breath, and let the waves of light wash away the past!! I hope you are all doing well and feel loved held and guided in this magical dance of constant transformation, we call life. The divine forces are on our side and support us with full power on our collective journey into the Golden Age of Aquarius. I hope you enjoy and use this amazing new energies that the Full Moon is providing to bring forward you true colors and pure light!
Loving Star Light and Blessings
Edith

Shared with the kind permission of the wonderful Kelley Rosano:
There is a Leo Full Moon on January 23. The best part of Leo is the inner child. You are to nourish and protect your childlike innocence. You are to be open to new ideas and fresh perspectives. Be curious about life. Be engaged in the magic of the moment. Be in your heart. Let go of the need to criticize and judge. This will kill your creativity. Instead, allow yourself to make mistakes. It is the only way to learn what works and what does not work for you. The magic word is “try.” Try something different. Keep an open mind and heart. Nourish your gifts. Gifts + Passion + Values = Calling.
What does your heart desire?
What are your gifts?
What have you come to be?
What talents have you come to share?
What is your calling?aLeo represents the creative individual. Aquarius is the power of the whole. There is strength in collaboration. Aquarius teaches us to transcend tribal limitations. You are to go beyond race, gender, age or country. All Are One. The sum (Aquarius) is equal to all of its parts (Leo). Unity builds community. When you join forces with like-minded people, you will be unstoppable. You matter. You count. You have an important role to play. What is your destiny? “Many think success means getting everything I want. And we say, that’s what dead is, and there is no such thing as that kind of dead. Success is not being done; not being complete. Success is still dreaming and feeling positive in the unfolding.” — Abraham
Full Moons are oppositions. On one side, you have the Sun and Pallas Athena in Aquarius. Pallas is the Goddess of Truth and Wisdom. On the other, you have a young Leo Moon. Shouting, “Who wants to play?” Aquarius is an intellectual and determined air sign. Aquarius teaches you about the power of knowledge, facts and reason. Leo is a fire sign. Leo rules leadership, creativity and love. Leo is passion. Aquarius is objectivity. The cosmic message is to balance your heart with your head. Find the middle ground in your relationships. Work to create the win/win with people. Live from your heart. And, be practical in your approach with your dreams and goals. There are many kinds of love. Romantic love is but one expression. Self/Soul love is the foundation to a healthy and happy life. You were born complete. You were born perfect. What you need is inside of you. Loneliness is a disconnect from your own soul (inner child). The word alone means All One. Love you more than the need for a relationship. Love you if you want another to love you. Love you. Make relationship a want not a need. You need food, water and sleep. These are real needs. Relationship is a want. You want it, if, the union adds value to your life. You want relationship, if the person makes your life better. You receive.
What is true for you?
What do you love and value?
Is your heart in the work you are doing?
Is your heart in the relationship?
Are you living the life that you have dreamed?bThe Law of Attraction rules the universe. That, which is within you, is what you draw to you. Change on the inside first. Then the outside will reflect what you want. Change yourself. Be the soul mate to you that you want in your life. In this way, you will attract one who is healthy and whole. Your soul mate will arrive when you are ready. Make the space for a partner if this is what you desire. Act as if, s/he is already here. Give to you the love you want from another. The Leo Full Moon is saying, “Don’t wait to celebrate. Live as if you have what you want.” Then you will be a match in vibration for your heart’s desire. Be love. Be joy. Shine your light. This is very attractive. There are 100 Ways to make you irresistible to the right people and opportunities. Use The Irresistible Attraction Program. Make it happen.
Leo is about who you really are. Your heart. Your essence. Your Inner Child. Purity. Living your life from your creative self-expression. Embracing your unique Self. Aquarius is community. Leo is the creative individual. Aquarius is the power of the whole. There is strength in collaboration. There is strength in numbers. Aquarius teaches us to transcend tribal limitations. You are to go beyond race, gender, age or country. The sum (Aquarius) is equal to all of its parts (Leo). Unity builds community. When you join forces with like-minded people, you will be unstoppable. You matter. You count. You have an important role to play. What is your calling? Now is the time to use your gifts to create a better world. Why are you here at the turning of the ages? Mercury will couple with Pluto at the time of the Full Moon and on January 29. This energy is intense and penetrating. Watch out for mental obsession. Worry is focusing on what you do not want. Wherever your mind goes energy follows. Focus on what you want, not on what you do not. You can solve any mystery or puzzle. You can get to the heart of the matter quickly. Truth may be revealed. On the other hand, be careful. The waters could get rough. It is going to be intense. It could be challenging at times. Some people may be aggressive. Take good care of you. aaMars is the planet of action and desire. He is in Scorpio. Mars is challenging both lights (the Sun and the Moon.) On the one hand, this empowers you to complete your creative endeavors. Watch out for losing your temper. Conversations can erupt into disagreements. This energy can make you irritable. Mars creates sexual tension. Make love not war. Channel your energy into physical activity. If you notice your anger rising, count to ten. This is temporary. The Moon harmonizes with Saturn later that day and then Uranus. Do something new and creative. Build up your strength. Practice patience. Meditate. The Leo Full Moon message is follow your heart’s desire. Play. Let your inner child soar. Fall in love with life. Nurture your gifts. Gifts + Passion + Values = Calling. You end the month with Mercury Direct! This is good news. This is your green light from the universe. You can move ahead with your plans. The Aquarius New Moon on February 8 will be a great time to start a new job or project. Begin a new love affair. Be bold. Be brave. Be Blessed. Be safe. Be well. You are loved. All Are One.

“Let your light shine for your soul is merry and bright. As you share you with this world,
all is better for it.” —Ivo/Lisa Dorr

Magical Blessings,  KelleyRosano.com

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