The Difference Between Being Needy, Being Needed & Being Of Service

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the past eleven month, since this year of increasing authentic expression in the human collective has begun, there have been many astral events in the universe teaching us profound details about the creation of human relationships in the Golden Age of Aquarius. For those human beings, who are interested in a loving family, community building or deep personal love relations, this was a year of great chances to try out our spiritual concepts, in manifesting more of our true authentic self in new relations.
The upcoming year 2018 is caring the vibration of a numerology year 11, which is not only a master number, but also resonates with the number 2 – the vibration of co-operation and balance. For all of us that means, that the coming year will unfold even more fired up with creation and manifestation power, for our
personal and collective awakening path. 

Many people who are walking a spiritual path are aware by now, that true relationships can only be build in a climate of equality, mutual respect and true interest to understand another. But what about needing the other?
Over the past years of working with people and their personal emotions, I encountered many who understood the ancient teachings for human awakening as a form of being totally independent and free of commitment, and that this equals being a strong individual. Personally my experience is different.
While I totally agree that taking absolute responsibility for our own emotional body creates space for true encounter, and allows us to feel clear and strong as beings so we are not needy for the other and clingy in our energy, I also found that peacefully being human includes needing another. In my self-studies I further discovered a deep need to be of help and service for others. This is a need which comes directly from the source of my soul, it is one of the most profound urges I ever experienced, and I know for sure that I am not the only one who feels that way.
So my conclusion is, that while the human soul does not react well to relationships we consciously or unconsciously building in order to profit from the other, it does react very well to needing one another for the sake of being of service to our beloved ones and the community we live in.

All people have a natural desire to be needed, to have their importance to others tangibly confirmed.
Daisaku Ikeda

Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.
Adam S. McHugh

We are unhappy because we think that love is something we require from someone else.
Arthur Japin

They say that people are innately afraid of those who need them, they say that people are afraid of “clingy-ness”, afraid of attachment, afraid of being needed by another. But I beg to disagree. I believe that people, when looking at someone who is needy of them, see themselves and see their own fears and they go away because they can’t handle those fears; it’s their own neediness that they’re afraid of! They’re afraid to want and to need, because they’re afraid of loss and of losing, so when they see these things in another, that’s when they run away. Nobody is actually running away from other people; everybody is really running away from themselves!
C. JoyBell C.

It wasn’t as if she’d thought it through or anything, how what a person wanted wasn’t always what they needed, and what a person needed might be the last thing they could ever want.
Shannon Celebi

What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.
Saint Augustine

This is the true joy in life: Being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one, being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.
George Bernard Shaw

But I have seen the best of you and the worst of you, and I choose both. I want to share every single one of your sun shines and save them for later. I will tuck them into my pockets so I can give them back to you when the rain falls hard. Friend, I want to be the mirror that reminds you to love yourself. I want to be the air in your lungs that reminds you to breath. When the walls come down, when the thunder rumbles, when nobody else is home, hold my hand, and I promise I won’t let go.
Sarah KayDear Ones, the Golden Age of Aquarius will appear for all beings in the collective, when we are ready to live in balance and harmony with all forces inside and outside of us, and that includes needing another as well as being independent. Take some time to feel into your personal details on this, and I am sure you will figure it out soon enough :-).
Love and Blessings!!
Edith

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Cleansing With Master Saint German And The Sacred Geometry Of Metatrons Cube

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
the last two month have collectively been experienced as very heated and intensively transforming, under the impact of the fiery Leo energy field. A field of divine light that radiated from the golden color ray of the I AM awareness. The vibrations the human race have received in this time, where designed to remind us all of our inner beauty and to create clarity for our higher self to guide our daily steps. But just because we received all this information, it does not mean we are already the products of the vibrations transmitted. Now it is on us to consciously translate the teachings and change what ever is in our way.
T
he Ascended Master Saint Germain is the Chohan – the leader – of the violet flame of ascension into the Golden Age of Aquarius. He is the master alchemist of the sacred inner fire of transformation. With him on this ray are many other Ascended Masters like Kuan Yin the Goddess of Mercy, Lady Portia the Goddess of Justice, Pallas Athena the Goddess of Self-confidence, and also the Archangel Metatron.

Just as material Alchemy can turn Lead into Gold, the violet flame turns the lower vibrations of our human existence into expressions of our highest divine potential. The violet flame has a strong effect on the emotional, mental and physical level, as well as through all layers of our individual spiral dance of creation. This means working with the violet flame can be used to shift the present moment, to raise above lower vibrational pattern and to release us from any karmic depths and energetic entanglements we carry inside. It is an important tool of the divine blueprint for the Golden Age of Aquarius, uniting the colors our divine trinity – gold, blue and pink.

Metatron is known as “the voice of god”, his right hand is the Archangel Michael. Metatron helps to find people’s karmic purpose in life. He especially works through spiritual, mental & sensitive children such as Indigo Children and Crystal Children.  As a teacher of esoteric knowledge, he helps them understand their spiritual gifts and life path. If you call on Archangel Metatron he utilizes the sacred geometry called Merkabah cube or Metatrons cube, for healing and clearing away of lower energies. The cube spins clockwise and uses centrifugal force to push out loose energy residue, the pattern you are ready to let go of!! The Merkabah cube is also the safe space your soul is taking its meditation journeys in. To create an energetic connection with the Merkabah energy field allows us to stabilize our inner forces in space travels and our daily life.
METATRON’S CUBE
I AM created from the vastness and omnipresent light
free of boundaries, limitations and control

In my divine design I AM without limit
I AM beyond form

I AM created from divine light,
live as light, and return to this essence.

I AM an omnipresent divine being
forever dancing with the eternal sun

Cleanse your emotional body with White Sage:
White Sage is widely known as one of the strongest healing, transforming and transcending sacred plants on the planet. That is good news because it means you don’t have to be a professional in order to be effective. To the contrary, the ability, the trait, the power is in the plant itself. No need to be shy, as you cant do wrong even if it is your first time. Don’t think to much about it! Get a sage stick, light it, go mentally to the smallest inner point you are aware of and than to the furthers corners of your extension. Speak out loud or repeat in the mind the prayer below.

WHITE SAGE
May your hands be cleansed,
that they create beautiful things.

May your feet be cleansed,
that they might take you where you most need to be.

May your heart be cleansed,
that you might hear its messages clearly.

May your throat be cleansed,
that you might speak rightly when words are needed.

May your eyes be cleansed,
that you might see the signs and wonders of the world.

May this person and space be washed clean
by the smoke of these fragrant plants.

And may that same smoke carry our prayers,
spiraling, to the heavens.Dear Ones, I hope you are feeling motivated right now to use all the natural tools you are aware of, to do your best on daily basis for the creation of the Golden Age of Aquarius on planet earth. I hope you are well connected and in flow with all the little changes we are collectively asked to apply. May you feel strong and clear enough to face them all.
Love and Blessings!
Edith

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We Are Guided By Angels In The Energy Of Tomorrows Taurus Full Moon

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
tomorrow our collective awakening process into the Golden Age of Aquarius will be supported by the energetic impact of the Taurus Full Moon! Take a moment to rest, to breath and to celebrate the family and friends that are surrounding you. The Taurus sign is ruled by the planet Venus the planet of love and for the Taurus’s earthly character is inviting us to enjoy the love we have. You can find guidance for the coming days from the Angelic Realms, that have send us their help in the vibrations of number sequences.

Here are the Angelic Numbers most vivid right now:
Angel Number 0909:
This number combination talks to us of energetic, emotional and mental renewal, and the blessings of new beginnings!!! It is a number that enforces the development of our divine motherly heart. The burning force of unconditional love, within the gazing heart of Mother Mary. Our chance to turn our own heart into the sacred home of the divine Threefold Flame!! A completion is achieved, a circle has closed, and our consciousness is from now on altered in awareness.

Love is the Divine Mother’s arms; when those arms are spread, every Soul falls Into them.
Hazrat Inayat Khan

Threefold Flame Prayer:
Divine Light
into your hands I commend my spirit.
Mighty I AM Presence my Holy Christ Self,
power of the blue-lightening angels,
lead me to the Temple of Illumination of God and Goddess Meru.

Escort me, instruct me,
guide and protect me.
I pray to the inner fire of illumination,
to inflame my devotion for service to the divine plan,
and for all life on earth.

Angel Number 1010:
The combination of the Angel Number 1010 is an invitation to pay even closer attention to the messages of our intuition; to the information of our sensory self and the vibrations we experience from others. The influence of the number zero in this mix is telling us about a new seed that is sprouting into manifestation now. The angels let us know that we are perfectly prepared to manifest new relationships based on the blossoming paradigms for the Golden Age of Aquarius. The number sequence 1010 resonates with the vibration of the number two, which is helping us to understand profounder and more balanced levels of co-creation with other human beings, the universal forces and between our higher heart and our mind. It’s a message that we are supported to follow our personal soul path and divine mission with all the passion of our heart, while taking the needs of our beloved ones and the whole world into consideration in our decisions.We all woke up this morning and we had with it the amazing return of our conscious mind. We recovered minds with a complete sense of self and a complete sense of our own existence — yet we hardly ever pause to consider this wonder.
António R. Damásio

Jesus Christ knew he was God. So wake up and find out eventually who you really are. In our culture, of course, they’ll say you’re crazy and you’re blasphemous, and they’ll either put you in jail or in a nut house (which is pretty much the same thing). However if you wake up in India and tell your friends and relations, ‘My goodness, I’ve just discovered that I’m God,’ they’ll laugh and say, ‘Oh, congratulations, at last you found out’.
Alan W. Watts

Our bodies have five senses: touch, smell, taste, sight, hearing. But not to be overlooked are the senses of our souls: intuition, peace, foresight, trust, empathy. The differences between people lie in their use of these senses; most people don’t know anything about the inner senses while a few people rely on them just as they rely on their physical senses, and in fact probably even more.
C. JoyBell C.

Angel Number 2222:
Angel Number 2222 is a particularly powerful and intense number sequence, for caring the quadruple impact of the same number. In this moment of development on our wonderful planet, this completed, harmonious and especially balanced number, is a wake-up call to clearly act on the laws for a manifested brotherhood of man. Its a call for just behavior between human beings as well as all other realms of existence, and justice for the pain we have created in the past. The number combination 2222 is resonating with the number 8, a vibration of personal power and the wisdom we developed in applying our abilities in daily life. In the cross of life, the number sequence 2222 represents the center of our heart to each of the direction points, and back to our selves. The angels now encourage us in finding balance, unconditional love and respect for all beings, by experiencing all lines of this sacred geometry of life.

I have defended democracy, human rights, and brotherhood between peoples. And I’ll keep doing so for as long as I live.
Leyla Zana

Tolerance implies no lack of commitment to one’s own beliefs. Rather it condemns the oppression or persecution of others.
John F. Kennedy

I tried to discover, in the rumor of forests and waves, words that other men could not hear, and I pricked up my ears to listen to the revelation of their harmony.
Gustave Flaubert

Working hard for something we don’t care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.
Simon SinekDear Ones, the Taurus energy field is always a good time to enjoy the material side of life and all the blessings it brings to the fullest. Its a time of grounding and celebrating our physical body and I hope that is what you are all experiencing right now! May you be blessed with hearing your divine guidance and enjoy your body with all your senses.
Love and Full Moon Blessings!
Edith

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What The Libra New Moon Angels Are Promising Us

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
I am sure you are already feeling the influence of the Libra New Moon, which is at its peek tomorrow and brings us a new direction for the collective awakening process of humanity into the Golden Age of Aquarius. I hope you are taking full advantage of the “new” in this magical Libra New Moon energy field, and find yourself ascending to higher understanding of justice and balance for all beings on planet earth. As always, we do have the support of the Angelic Realms behind us. Listen closely and follow the guidance you receive.

Here are some numbers I see repeating for lots of people right now!
Angel Number 717:
Allows us the joyful realization, that we have made the right decisions, taken the correct directions from our higher self and now are brought thru the angels guidance, on a brand new path full of possibilities and never known chances. This newly emerging opportunities will finally align us with the higher purpose and profound mission of our life on planet earth. The Angels and Archangels applaud the work we have done in the past, and bless us with the power of new beginnings right now! Keep listening closely to the guidance of the angelic realms and your spirit guides! Do so and all your further steps will simply unfold in front of your eyes, at the right time – in the right place! Ground yourself and stay centered in your being, there is nothing to do!

When you see people only as personalities, rather than souls with life missions to fulfill, you forever limit the growth and possibilities of what God has in store for another person.
Shannon L. Alder

Truth serves a great purpose for all that want to see. It will help uncover your life’s mission in order to reveal what your soul wants you to be.
Molly Friedenfeld

Your Spirit Guides and Angels will never let you down as you build a rapport with them. In the end, they may be the only ones who don’t let you down.
Linda Deir

Pay attention to your life and you will see bits of ‘magic’ that happens precisely when you need it to happen.
Linda WestphalAngel Number 1144
Angel Number 1144 tells us to keep our thoughts positive and optimistic as we step up into an important new role or adventure in our life. The Number carries the vibration and energy of the trinity “The Body – The Mind – The Soul”, as well as our relationship with the Spirit Guides and Angelic Realms. It is a message from the angels that they are sending us the most positive energies and signals, in which direction to go with our work and how to set intentions that will manifest the needed outcome. We also can receive now guidance and clarity, how to align our business behavior and income creation with a spiritual path.

Live simply. Only own that which you need and perhaps a few little things for your personal enjoyment. Fundamentally, own only what you truly need and there will be no confusion, and you will not have to work too hard for money. Give money to support those things that inspire you. They require support, and you need to support them to experience your relationship with them.
Living the Way of Knowledge

Once, my mother told a whole host of angels that she’d rather die than go back to a man she didn’t love.
Brenna Yovanoff

When angels visit us, we do not hear the rustle of wings, nor feel the feathery touch of the breast of a dove; but we know their presence by the love they create in our hearts.
Mary Baker Eddy

Angel Number 1188:
Is a message of uplifting encouragement from the angelic realms. A confirmation that our positive affirmations, concentrated thoughts, helpful beliefs and visualizations, manifest for us in an increased flow of monetary abundance. An invitation to fully enjoy our rewards of prosperity,to be grateful and appreciative of what we got and grateful for what comes. And don’t forget, to receive more, means it is time to give more. Feel blesses, because you will find success in all matters, that you put your heart and soul towards.

If you always attach positive emotions to the things you want, and never attach negative emotions to the things you don’t, then that which you desire most will invariably come your way.
Matt D. Miller

Your self-esteem and emotional strength relies solely on
how you think and how you see things around you.
Derric Yuh Ndim

Prosperity is only an instrument to be used, not a deity to be worshiped.
Calvin CoolidgeDear ones, I hope you are sensing all the wonderful balance and the feeling for justice, that this beautiful Libra New Moon is providing, bubbling up inside of yourself. Make clear and self-loving decisions my friends! Stand for your truth and for justice in this world, and keep your inner balance!
Love and New Moon Blessings!
Edith

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The Power Of Poetry In The Human Awakening Process

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
in my posts called “What Is An Artists Role In Collectively Troubled Times Part I” I shared my understanding of the importance, for the collective awakening process into the Golden Age of Aquarius as well as for the individual, to express socially critical themes in our artistic work. In “What Is An Artists Role In Collectively Troubled Times Part II” you find a beautiful TED-Talk from Elizabeth Gilbert in which at mark 10:11, she speaks of the wonderful poet Ruth Stone and her experience with catching the genius of the universe.
The magic she is describing in her talk is the foundation of another important part of art in human life. The ability to allow ourselves than we can be guided by our creations. To give allowance to a poem, a song lyric, a melody, a sculpture or a painting to unveil the world or the universe, the path we are about to take or the roads we have traveled, to us and the ones connecting with our authentic expression. Below you find three poems that are all together creating a beautiful harmony, explaining much better what I mean, than I could in my own words ;-)!

The Road Not Taken
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
by Robert FrostHeartwork
Each day is born with a sunrise
and ends in a sunset, the same way we
open our eyes to see the light,
and close them to hear the dark.

You have no control over
how your story begins or ends.
But by now, you should know that
all things have an ending.

Every spark returns to darkness.
Every sound returns to silence.
And every flower returns to sleep
with the earth.

The journey of the sun
and moon is predictable.
But yours,
is your ultimate ART.
by Suzy Kassem

It happens all the time in heaven
It happens all the time in heaven,
And some day
It will begin to happen
Again on earth –

That men and women who are married,
And men and men who are
Lovers,

And women and women
Who give each other
Light,

Often will get down on their knees
And while so tenderly
Holding their lover’s hand,

With tears in their eyes,
Will sincerely speak, saying,

My dear,
How can I be more loving to you;
How can I be more kind?
HafizDear Ones, if you feel inspired now to give poetry a chance to be your spiritual guide and open your being to a new experience, remember the words of  Leonardo da Vinci “A painter should begin every canvas with a wash of black, because all things in nature are dark except where exposed by the light.” I hope you enjoyed the read!!
Love and Blessings!
Edith

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6 Spirit Guides From The Animal Kingdom That Enjoy Mating For Life

ghby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
yesterday after sharing my article on
How Indigenous Wisdom, Shamanism, Environmentalism & Our Awakening Meet” I ran into this beautiful post from the White Wolf Pack page, about 10 animals who mate for life. Now some of you might remember  that the last Taurus New Moon brought us the energy field and possibility for a love that lasts. So reading about the beloved animal kingdoms representatives who mate for life, it was immediately visible that 6 out of the 10 examples are also animals well known as helper for humanity. Day by day now, we are collectively tapping deeper into the awareness that we share our reality not only with other people, but also with the Animal Kingdom. More and more people receive messages by the other world, transported by animal spirits.

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Over the last few month the spirit guides and angelic realm have dropped hints, that we collectively need to make a deeper inner connection with mother earth and our own human nature. With this profounder union in our bones and the chances for love that lasts, I am happy to introduce you to the characteristics of six animal spirit guides that enjoy having a mate for life!wol1.) The Wolfs
One of the most outstanding qualities of the Wolf is the ability of community building. Wolf packs are socially smart, deeply structured and highly organized animal communities. Indeed the wolf can energetically transmit to us, the understanding how Brotherhood of Men works, when we take the deeper animal nature of human beings into account. They can teach us how to stand our ground and defend our boundaries in an appropriate, not hurtful and clear way. An expression that still allows us to keep by heart relaying to another, when our opinions and personal needs go apart. Qualities we need if we want to ground a “love that lasts”. Wolfs have an air of inner freedom to them, even that they are deeply loyal and emotional intelligent in their relationships. Skills we need for the Golden Age of Love!1A_12.) The Eagles
Eagles are messenger from the divine blueprint of our spiritual path on planet earth. Well known about this animals usual behavior is, that when trouble come down on us on planet earth, they simply rise and soar above all clouds. With this strength, they are helping us to develop states of higher consciousness, higher powers of communication and the ability to listen carefully to our intuition. Supported by the eagle medicine we are empowered to deeply ground our spiritual awareness, to purify our energy field and cleans old believe pattern. The eagle reminds us to integrate the awareness of the Hermetic Laws in our life, that all things material are build from the mind.beaver3.) The Beavers
Beaver are the ingenious builder and constructor of new realities with stable foundations. They are representing the power how to step by step come from visions, burning desires, soul dream and insights; to an as stable experienced reality, that represents all this guidance in our life. They give us the encouragement and inspiration that we need, in order to reach our deepest desires and soul goals. Beaver are big team player in general, maybe that is why they have happy marriages ;-). They know how to make everyone in the team feel appreciated, respected and used according to their personal skills. Quite important abilities to develop for humanity too, in the collective awakening process.coyote4.) The Coyotes
Personally I love the Coyote energy. I called my first dog Coyote for his cheeky character and childlike playfulness, even in old age. The Coyote is the clown of the nature realms, known for his trickster, shape-shifter, and transformer qualities. The Coyote tells us to be mindful of the impact of the hermetic laws in our actions. To raise our awareness for the inner self-sabotage system, that allows us to play tricks on ourselves and others (the illusion of Maya). Coyote also reminds us that the consequences of our actions effect more than just ourselves, as we are truly one on this planet and beyond. In his playful ways, he brings along endings and new beginnings, and therefor represents the cycle of life and death in nature.ra5.) The Ravens
The Ravens are representatives of the divine magic within the material world. They bring us higher awareness of the divine balance between the light and the dark side of existence. Wise as they are, they are master of the time and space continuum. A bridge between the underworld, the present moment on planet earth and the spirit realms. When in tune with the ravens medicine, we are moving through transitions and changes of consciousness more smoothly and from a place of inner ease. Profound healing created by the renewal of our energy are possible under the influence of the raven power. condor6.) The Condors/New World Vultures
The vulture is all about rising to higher awareness, patience and resourcefulness. Like most of us, vultures like eating well, but they do not hunt! What they know to do best, it to seizes the chances and resources that show themselves as available. From them we can learn how to go from “working hard” for our dreams and soul desires; to allowing them to present themselves to us!! When we have the passion and clarity to plant our seeds well, the vulture medicine will help us develop the patience it takes, to receive. When we are about to develop new abilities or projects, the vulture is also bringing message to make sure we check our core values before we call new beginnings into manifestation! Vultures have well developed physical senses. They can smell fresh meat from miles away and have highly advanced vision. Connecting with the vulture medicine remembers us to trust our body, to also develop our higher physical senses and become one with nature within.

Dear Ones, I hope you enjoy this insides and find maybe also some guidance for your personal path in them. I hope you are motivated and will have fun developing a relationship with the animal spirit guides. Let your body teach you, motivated by the animal kingdoms loving guidance!
Love and Nature Blessings!!
Edith

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What’s Wrong with Voluntourism? “Everything” – This Beneficiary Feels

aaDear Friends,
at the beginning of last month I shared an expect from the article “are you a truly spiritual person, or simply full of it”, written & translated by Giulio Pietro Benati, where the author shared his thoughts and concerns about the “fake spiritualism”, that also seams to have made its way into the awakening movement of our society. The question was raised what the student of spiritual practices truly gains, when the exercise is rather consumed as under fashion demands, than driven by the desire to surrender to the teachings in everyday life. Today’s piece is a cry for more attention towards our giving, and if everything given as a present – anyway still has a price in this world.

Since eleven years of my life, I have the incredible blessing of spending time in my wonderful second home; San Marcos La Laguna, Solola, in Guatemala. In this little highland country side town, we are living together in a wild mix of world people. The original San Marcos population are Mayan people, from the tribe of the Kaqckikel, and the rest are a crazy colorful mix of foreigners, from all countries, cultures, character, colors and languages of the world. You could say the divine plan has used its complete crayon color box in San Marcos La Laguna.
Something I watched over all these years is – the coming of the archetype of the “helper and healer”, with or without any kind of religious background, inspired to “safe or local population” from their lot. People who often very quickly, very profoundly get frustrated with the locals respond (or NON RESPOND) to their efforts. So I found it very interesting to read this intense piece from a person who actually received all this “supporters” gives AND takes.

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Dear Ones, I hope you enjoy the read. I hope the authors fiery words will make one or the other of us check in again, if all our givings are truly as unconditionally as we would like them to be.
Love & Peaceful Awakening!

Edith

pocc5q6kw06photo: Prisca                               I am the default brown girl in your dorm room pictures. 

written by Prisca Dorcas:
I will preface this by saying that a lot of my doctors and dentists were white Americans, and that I have a soft spot in my heart for those people because they are working hard to change someone else’s life. Access to medical care, good medical care, is nearly impossible for many poor folks in Latin American countries and the Caribbean. These doctors and dentists came into communities that most outsiders will not step foot in.
In fact, my first tooth was pulled by a white American dentist when I was a kid growing up in Nicaragua, and I remember the care and attention I got like it was yesterday. You always remember your first visit to a dentist, it sticks with you. Another time I had a huge fall off my bike, and a white American dentist was staying at our home and he sewed me up, giving me seven very necessary stitches. I will always remember this. I also remember that they never asked me for a picture. They were too busy helping people. I hold these people who come to our countries and do that kind of work in high regard. Voluntourists and missionaries are another story.

Why We Should Listen to Our Inner Brujas:
Gospel Outreach came to Nicaragua when I was a little girl. All of my toys, clothes, and much of our food came from ships that were stocked with their goods. I remember walking into those boats and seeing piles of toys and boxes upon boxes of minute soups. These much-needed supplies were crucial to my childhood. We were that poor. But the people sending this very important stuff decided that they needed to see the faces of the lives they were changing. It was not enough to just help, they wanted to see where their selfless donations were going.
I have many childhood memories in Nicaragua that include voluntourists and missionaries. I remember that they were really kind, almost too kind. When you grow up poor, you have a lot of street smarts and reading people comes second nature. It was like they were trying to make up for something. They really wanted us to like them, because they loved us — indiscriminately. It was the sort of love where they did not get our mailing addresses or phone numbers, because it was not about becoming lifelong friends. They loved being around me, it was something about my poverty, brownness, and how they felt like they were saving me. They loved that feeling.
It was as though in exchange for life-giving goods we had to give them a life-changing experience. We had to welcome them to our lands with our arms wide open, as though they were blameless as to how our country was in such distress. As if they did not inherit their comfort and safety from the presidents and governments that they had elected who had done this to us. They wanted us to say mil gracias to their smiling faces as if reparations were not due, deserved, and rightfully ours.indexAn Open Letter to My Gringo Boyfriend:
We have always been able to see right through this facade. Since I was five years old I saw right through it. I probably did not have the words as a kid, but I knew you were trying to get something out of me. I do not have fond memories of the Beckys and Chads who came to my country and took pictures with me so that they could hang the photos in their dorm rooms and go on with their lives. Those same Beckys did not stand up against Trump’s xenophobic agenda. The Chads stayed silent during that Cinco de Mayo party that their roommates hosted, perpetuating problematic stereotypes about ALL Latinxs. The Beckys know that NAFTA and CAFTA rulings keep kids like me in poverty, but still shop at stores known for using slave labor and sweatshops.
Those Chads and Beckys have never done anything for me. When they’re asked why they went to my country, they probably said that they wanted to help, but after they were done planting the trees that their church donated, they went home and did nothing besides wear our trajes tipicos. You left and told your life-changing story, but you’ve dismantled nothing. You’ve helped no one but yourself. What have you done for those brown children in your dorm-room picture since you left? I personally resent that you have pictures of us brown poor children, because while we probably changed your life, you’ve done nothing for us but used our brown bodies as a reminder of your good deeds.

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Clearing The Influences Of Our Sexual Past & The Twin Flame Reunion

jby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
some of you might remember that over the last few month there where a lot of energy waves, triggering us collectively to allow a transformation in our human sexuality. For month now we have been aware, that within the collective human awakening process the sexual paradigm has to change. Over time it will show, what a role ancient teachings like tantra and the tantric principles will play in this transformation, and how the Native American Code of Ethics fits into the picture of our newly developing sexuality. In December last year
the collective cleansing of the first chakra has changed human kind, and now every individual has the chance to catch up for their personal process too.
At the end of February, the Mars retrograde phase has pushed us to face a collective healing of the divine masculine energy within, which was followed by the Twin Flame energy field of God and Goddess Meru and the threefold flame in our hearts. For many of us the time has come to step us and become goddamn warriors for authentic love. And many who feel called to bring this kind of love relationship into the world, can sense that there might be something missing. Many feel that they are ready by heart, but also seam to be held back by some invisible cords. And that might just be what truly happens. But this feeling is not there in order to hold us back forever, it is there to make us aware. Where we feel trapped, there can be old and maybe long outdated sexual connections active; are maybe past entanglements at work; or our ultimate survival pattern can be on.

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And some relationships, that far extend in connection beyond the material level, can have an influence on our sexual reality in the hear and now, much longer that the 7 year phase of the physical body. So if we desire to be free and cleansed from the past, and maybe even wanna call our Twin Flame connection home, than it is recommended to do so in some conscious acts of transformation and separation.

Here are some steps that help the alchemy of your heart, to transform your past:
1.) Inform yourself in this article about the alchemy of conscious breathing, how the elements within us are working for our shifts like a kubic’s cube.
2.) Make yourself familiar with the power of the violet flame. This flame is part of the crown chakra, which is the physically opposite point to the root chakra and the perfect place to start our experience (above as below). Memorize the simple prayer!!
3.) If you first up want to steer your passion for the process or increase the strength of you inner fire, repeatedly listen to this sacred song to the fire element, before you continue.
4.) Put yourself some healing music on first. Lay down on your back, seek a deep inner connection and regular breathing rhythm and bring yourself to a meditative state. Allow the parts of your physical body, that still hold memories or entanglements to teach you about the leaks in your energy field. Where ever you feel a loss of strength, energy or clarity, direct the passionate fire of your will to leave free from the past to it, and keep repeating the mantra until you can feel the energy shifting. From there on move on to the next and next spot, until your body feels light, liberated and yours.
TIP: Don’t bother wanting to know which encounter had which impact, or even what person of your life left that fingerprint in you!! Simply know that if you need the information in order to heal, it will come to you.. if not, not!
This process can get quite intense in times, so take good care of yourself by preparing well…. have a placket and some water with you.. and reserve time so the flow is not limited by the clock!!
5.) When you feel that your vessel is empty for that moment, cuddle up and keep resting for as long as it feels right for you. Resist the need to understand what happened and rather allow the energy to work a bit for you.
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Dear Ones, I hope this insides and steps will help you on your way to freedom from your sexual past!! I hope you can let go with ease and grace, from the dynamics and pain that still might have a hold on you. I wish you all a wonderful time with the integration of this intense process, and may there be endless blessings for you to come!! And if you desire to meet your soul partner, don’t forget it is your inner clarity that attracts!
Blessings an Love ;-)!
Edith

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What Differentiates Being Sexually Dominated From Being Abused

17lu7bfxzx0btjpgby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the last few month I shared a lot of posts about human sexuality; the changing sexual paradigm within the collective human awakening process; the role of tantra and tantric principles in this collective transformation; what impact it has on men when they watch porn on a regular level; the brave sharing of a brother who decided “no longer procrasturbating his life away“; the passionate call of a beautiful soul to become goddamn warriors for authentic love again, and how the collective cleansing of the first chakra has changed human kind on a sexual level forever; and even what to be aware of to identify a spiritual sexual predator.
And now this article was send to me, unfortunately I don’t know the author, bringing up the important question in differentiation between a chosen, sexually dominating encounter and an abusive situation. It can be hard to know if you’re being abused or if your own behavior is abusive. One may think that a ruff way to approach sexuality is “just natural” and the other might experience it as abusive. For some a little physical pain or sexually threatening words are not abuse, for others it might scare the living daylight out of them.
Also sexual abuse does not always start in the bedroom. For example monitoring the partner in what ever he/she is doing, consciously limiting the partners time or possibilities to talk to members of the other sex and even, overly strong control of how the other spends his/her money, can be part of a sexual abusive, dominant behavior. Sometimes a relationship might not be abusive, but it might have serious problems that in the moment make it unhealthy to sexually interact with another. Who ever you are with, in a health relationship you should be to be yourself, to take care of yourself and feeling like your partner supports you as you are.fightbackRead here what the conscious brother has to share about his personal discoveries:
Much discussion, and with it a lot of disagreement on the matter, is whether women enjoy being “taken”. The fantasy of a man coming into their room and grabbing them, throwing them against a wall, and fucking them senseless is a common fantasy. Other women with past trauma of various kinds react to the above paragraph and call it abuse.
So what is a man to do? On one hand we are told women wants a “bad boy” with confidence bordering on arrogance. In the same breath, we hear we are to be the sensitive man in tune with his feelings, understanding the needs of women. It isn’t that complicated; I am discovering. (I didn’t say women aren’t complicated, the study of this fairer sex is never ending and a life-long pursuit which shall never be fully completed). However, knowing what a woman wants is not something that we should EVER cross over into being abusive. Confident, sexy, strong, and aggressive may, depending on the woman you are with, be a huge part of your relationship, but crossing over to where the woman doesn’t feel safe is never something any man should ever do, and in so doing claim ignorance.
You know. Period. It’s in her eyes.You can read trust in a woman’s eyes like a grade three book. It’s there in black and white, written for you to see. She will project it to you even in the most erotic situations. Look deep in her eyes, and read what she is writing for you. Sometimes, she will want you to man up and grab her; some want it rough and with a sense of you proclaiming your dominance over her at that moment. Other times, she wants you to look into her eyes, and just caress her cheek, nothing more. Kisses, love and tenderness. For some women, other times it’s begging to be slapped on the ass. How do you read the signs? If you are new to this and have never played a more dominant role, have an honest discussion.aAsk her!
And not when you are both wound up like a top sexually and ready to fuck each other, but when you are sitting over a cup of coffee. Ask her what her fantasies are. Ask her specifically if she has ever imagined being taken. Blindfolded or dominated in any way. You may be surprised. It’s not every woman’s fantasy, but it is for more women than you may think. Woman want to be desired, deeply wanted for their body, their mind, their soul. They want a warrior to conquer them. They want a real man to “want” them so bad they see lust and desire in your eyes. And in the midst of all of this, they must feel safe and loved. Why is the rape fantasy still one of the highest ranking fantasies for a woman? I believe it is precisely this. A woman wants to be wanted.
They desire a strong man who owns his masculinity unashamedly, yet with a deep respect for her femininity. She wants to feel that your eyes are staring at her body with lust; that when you are caressing her it means something so much deeper. That if they trust you enough to tie them up and spank their ass, it is not because they love to feel pain necessarily, but because it speaks to the desire you have to dominate them in a way that, in a circular way, has them really in charge of your desire. Focused completely and un-distracted on them and their sexuality. Where the line must never, ever, be crossed is going to a point where she doesn’t feel safe or has crossed into the world that makes her feel you are taking, and she has not given permission. There is no excuse for abuse. Ever.

Ever.
Tricky, yes. A scene in lovemaking might look the same between two people on two different days, and one day it is true loving sex, and the same scene a day later may be abuse. The difference? Permission and trust. And both of these are in her eyes. Look deeply. You will know. So to myself and all men: man up and consume your lady. That might mean chains and leather, or it might mean a hot tub with wine. Ask the hard questions, and be ready to explore a little outside of your comfort zone. You might be surprised to what levels your sexual enjoyment might reach.h

Dear Ones, I have to say I really like this piece. I enjoy the way how honest the author is and also many of his details are close to my personal and professional experience. One thing is for sure, female sexuality can only unfold in its true beauty and depths, when we feel desired, safe and truly seen as who we are… but than, maybe man actually feel that way too?? I would love to hear about your ecperience!!!
Deep Love, Blessings & Safe Sex ;-)!!
Edith

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Something Extraordinary Is Happening in the World, Have You Noticed

channelingDear Friends,
during the last week, I shared insides about the flow of cosmic energy, that we are integrating and grounding right now, the impact the 12/12/15 frequency shifts collectively had on us, the amazing heart opening reflection “You’re ready for all of her, than you are a goddamn warrior”, and the realization that our first chakra has collectively changed over the last few days. And as I am a very blessed being in this world, I immediately was guided to this article. Another conscious author who in his observation and sharing, reflects on the collective changes our world has seen over the past few years. I found his piece a perfect addition to the information gathered so far. I hope you feel the same and enjoy his work as much as I did.
Love and Blessings Edith

by Gustavo Tanaka
Most of us haven’t quite realized there is something extraordinary happening. A few months ago I freed myself from standard-procedure society, I broke the chains of fear that kept me locked up into the system. Since then, I see the world from a different perspective: the one that everything is going through change and that most of us are unaware of that. Why is the world changing? In this post, I’ll point out the eight reasons that lead me to believe it.

1. No one can stand the employment model any longer.
We are reaching our limits. People working with big corporations can’t stand their jobs. The lack of purpose knocks on your door as if it came from inside you like a yell of despair. People want out. They want to drop everything. Take a look on how many people are willing to risk entrepreneurship, people leaving on sabbaticals, people with work-related depression, people in burnout.

2. The entrepreneurship model is also changing.
Over the past few years, with the explosion of startups, thousands of entrepreneurs turned their garages in offices to bring their billion dollar ideas to life. The vortex of entrepreneurship was to find an investor and get funded. To be funded was like winning the World Cup, or the Super Bowl. But what happens after you get funded? “Isn’t it absurd that we, 7 billion of us living in the same planet, have grown further apart from each other?” You get back to being an employee. You may have brought in people not sharing your dream, not in agreement with your purpose and soon it’s all about the money. The financial end becomes the main driver of your business. People are suffering with it. Excellent startups began to tumble because the money seeking model is endless. A new way to endeavor is needed. Good people are doing it already.ec0c7d4163513f48bdc04ab6cfac5d2a3. The rise of collaboration.
Many people have figured out that it doesn’t make any sense to go on by yourself. Many people have awakened from the “each man for himself” mad mentality. Stop, take a step back and think. Isn’t it absurd that we, 7 billion of us living in the same planet, have grown further apart from each other? What sense does it make to turn your back on the thousands, maybe millions, of people living around you in the same city? Every time it crosses my mind, I feel blue. Fortunately, things are changing. Sharing, collaborative economy concepts are being implemented, and it points towards a new direction. The direction of collaborating, of sharing, of helping, of togetherness. This is beautiful to watch. It touches me.

4. We are finally figuring out what the Internet is.
The Internet is an incredibly spectacular thing and only now, after so many years, we are understanding its power. With the Internet the world is opened, the barriers fall, the separation ends, the togetherness starts, the collaboration explodes, the helping emerges. Some nations saw true revolutions that used the Internet as the primary catalyst, such as the Arab Spring. Here in Brazil we are just starting to make a better use out of this amazing tool. Internet is taking down mass control. The big media groups controlling news by how it suits best what they want the message to be and what they want us to read are no longer the sole owners of information. You go after what you want. You bond to whomever you want. You explore whatever you may want to. With the advent of the Internet, the small are no longer speechless. There is a voice. The anonymous become acknowledged. The world comes together. And then the system may fall.

5. The fall of exaggerated consumerism.
For too long, we’ve been manipulated to consume as much as we possibly can. To buy every new product launched, the newest car, the latest iPhone, the top brands, lots of clothes, shoes, lots and lots and lots of pretty much anything we could our hands on. Going against the crowd, many people have understood that this of way off. Low-sumerism, slow life and slow food are a few excerpts of actions being taken as we speak, pointing out by contradiction how absurdly we have come to organize ourselves. Fewer people are using cars, fewer people are overspending, and more people are swapping clothes, buying used goods, sharing assets, cars, apartments, offices. We don’t need all of that they told us we needed. And this consciousness of new consumerism can take down any company living on the exaggerated end of it.a6. Healthy and organic eating.
We were so crazy we even accepted eating anything! It only needed to taste good, and everything would be alright. We were so disconnected that companies started to practically poison our food, and we didn’t say anything! But then some people started waking up, enabling and strengthening healthy and organic eating. This is only to get stronger. But what has this got to do with economy and work? Just about everything, I’d say. Food production is one of the basic fundamentals of our society. If we change our mindset, our eating habit and our way of consuming, corporations will have to respond and adapt to a new market. The small farmer is getting back to being relevant to the whole chain of production. Even people are growing plants and seeds inside their homes as well. And that reshapes the whole economy.

7. The awakening of spirituality.
How many friends do you have who practice yoga? What about meditation? Now think back, 10 years ago, how many people did you know by then who practiced these activities? Spirituality, for too long, was for esoteric folks — those weird-like and mystic people. But fortunately, this is also changing. We’ve come to the edge of reason and rationality. We were able to realize that, with only our conscious mind, we can’t figure out everything that goes by here. There is something else going on, and I’m sure you want to get hold of that as well. You want to understand how these things work. How life operates, what happens after death, what is this energy thing people talk about so much, what is quantum physics, how thoughts can be materialized and create our sense of reality, what is coincidence and synchronicity, why meditation works, how it’s possible to cure using nothing but bare hands, how those alternative therapies not always approved by regular medicine can actually work. Companies are providing meditation to their employees. Even schools are teaching the young how to meditate. Think about it.

8 . Un-schooling trends.
Who created this teaching model? Who chose the classes you have to take? Who chose the lessons we learn in history classes? Why didn’t they teach us the truth about other ancient civilizations? Why should kids follow a certain set of rules? Why should they watch everything in silence? Why should they wear a uniform? What about taking a test to prove that you actually learned? We developed a model that perpetuates and replicates followers of the system. That breed people into ordinary human beings. Fortunately, a lot of people are working to rethink that though concepts such as un-schooling, hack-schooling, homeschooling. Maybe you’ve never thought of that and even may be in shock. But it’s happening. Silently, people are being woken up and are realizing how crazy it is to live in this society. Look at all these new actions and try to think everything is normal we were taught so far is normal. I don’t think it is. There is something extraordinary happening.educational-system-in-one-image

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