You will not be punished for your anger – you will be punished by your anger

1by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
have you ever heard that saying before? Have you ever experienced the meaning for yourself? Have you ever had a freak out over a spilled tea, a unconscious insult or a sassy child for example? and if so, have you ever had the feeling, that the freak out actually made the situation even worse? Just three days ago, we have collectively experienced the very strong influence of the first of three Super Full Moons, that we still are provided with this year. It was a Full Moon under the fire sign Aries, which has triggered for many people a confrontation with their own and other peoples anger. Now lets make clear first, that anger is not a wrong, bad or unwanted feeling – it is simply a feeling that most people experience as uncomfortable because of its low vibrating nature (take a good look at the emotional guidance scale below – anger is on number 17 – far below a balanced state).
In human interactions our anger has the important function to inform us about moments in time, that are not aligned with the state of consciousness that our own spirit needs. When we are picking up on this information, it is on us to use the impact in the most positive way. So when we feel
our heartbeat racing, our hands sweating, and our blood pressure increase with rage, this would be the right moment to step back and take a look at the situation. If we can change the essence of what we experience right now, that is what our spirit is trying to let us know – time to take charge and initiate change the way we need it. If we can not change it, this might be the right moment to practice patience, surrender and faith.
But not only is anger a feeling that can lead us to improved actions, for many people it is the destructive and unsettling experience of an emotional roller coaster. And that comes from covering other feelings with the reaction of anger. When you take a look at the spirals below you will see, that there are 9 other feeling levels we pass – till we actually are at the impact of anger, but how often do we feel them? It is a collectively very common pattern and for many people in our society a “normal experience”, to skip the feelings we really have and jump directly to anger.
Allow me to share an example from my own life. The other day my beloved dog, while scratching himself, came crushing down from a high spot in my house that he loves hanging out on, painfully landing on the stairs with a loud bang. Now you need to know that i tell him nearly daily to not go to far out and be careful up there. I watched it happen and saw him getting hurt, and anyway my very first reaction was to scream angrily that he should take better care. Thanks god I am trained enough to not let it go any further and already my second step was back, deep breathing and feeling what truly is going on, and of course I rushed to his side to be with him and make sure he is not to badly hurt by the fall. The feelings that than ran thru me while i was stroking his head and calming his racing heart, where irritation, fearful hope that he is ok, worry that he is not, the question if my repeated warning can have caused the fall and many more – but non of them truly where anger. emotional-spiralAlways an excellent partner for the transformation of feelings within the vessel of our inner alchemy is the Ascended Master Saint Germain and his violet flame of ascension. Under the influence of his burning fire for higher consciousness, there is no chance for lower vibrations to keep bugging us. Its just a matter of devotion, patience and perseverance, how long the process of transformation takes. Practice with passion!!

VIOLET FLAME PRAYER
I AM a being of violet fire
I AM the purity God desires

If you find yourself confronted with a rather profound situation, where you failed your own better judgment and / or others in honesty, truthful sharing, authenticity, loyalty or other important qualities, you can also use the forgiveness prayer below. Same for everyone who wronged you.

IF I HAVE HARMED YOU IN ANY WAY,
DURING MY SPIRAL DANCE OF CREATION,
KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY,
THROUGH MY OWN CONFUSIONS AND INPURITYS,
I ASK FOR YOUR FORGIVENESS

TO YOU – WHO HARMED ME,
DURING THE SPIRAL DANCE OF CREATION,
KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY,
THROUGH YOUR OWN CONFUSIONS AND INPURITYS,
I OFFER MY FORGIVENESS!!

AND IF THERE IS ANY SITUATION I AM NOT READY JET TO FORGIVE,
I FORGIVE MYSELF FOR THAT!
FOR ALL THE WAYS I EVER HARMED MYSELF,
NEGLECTED, DOUBTED, BELITTLED MYSELF,
JUDGED, HAVE BEEN UNKIND OR MEAN TO MYSELF….
I OFFER MYSELF ABSOLUTE FORGIVENESS NOW!!2Dear Friends, I hope you feel encouraged and inspired to be brave and that you will take a deeper look at your true feelings, when the waves of anger want to take control of your actions the next time. The energies of the universe are one more time ready to turn our world upside down, take all the chances you get!!! You deserve to walk this life in the ease and blessings of your I AM presence, and that only works with cleaned first chakra energies!! Keep breathing deeply, praying and repeating the mantras over and over again, and divine blessings will find you soon!!
Love and Happy
Blessings ;-)!
Edith

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The Emerald Codes And The Return Of The Garden Of Creativity

ADear Friends,
the second Full Moon in Sagittarius is about to peek and within a few hours we are passing the Solstice of this half year. Again we will have to navigate thru intense waves of awakening energies, that should bring another collective leap in consciousness for humanity. So much more is there for us to discover in the next half year, when we are digging deeper into a harmonic co-creation with all levels of existence. Today I am happy to share with you this piece from Celia Fenn about the upcoming galactic events, and the shifts and changes they will provide for us!

Article by Celia Fenn from Starchildglobal:
JUNE/JULY 2016 : SOLSTICE, PLANETARY NEW YEAR AND THE LION’S GATE

Beloved Family of Light, once again you are approaching the mid-year with its powerful waves of Cosmic Energy. First there is the Solstice on the 20th June, which marks a “turning point” in your spirals of creation. The Earth reaches her farthest point “outwards” and, at this moment she pauses, as if standing still, then she returns for another creative spiral around the Sun. In the Northern Hemisphere this will be the Summer Solstice, marked by the longest day and the shortest night of the year; in the Southern Hemisphere this will be the Winter Solstice, marked by the shortest day and the longest night of the year.
This shift of energies initiates a series of powerful events that will determine the next phase of your personal and planetary evolution. In July, on the 26th, you will enter into the Planetary New Year, when incoming waves of Transformative Energy precede the Grand Cosmic Wave of the Lion’s Gate Portal on the 8th of August (8/8/1). At this time, new Light Code templates for the coming year are integrated into the Earth’s crystalline New Earth grids.

At this time, Beloved Ones, there will be powerful waves of Diamond Light originating from the Galactic Center. Then also, you will be receiving powerful transmissions of the Magenta and Turquoise Light Codes to balance the Divine Feminine and Masculine energies. And finally, the brilliant Emerald Codes will be transmitted from the Cosmic Heart, to allow you to fully integrate and experience your blessed gift of life on a biological world where you create and co-create in the material realms.CThe Emerald Codes and Re-Connecting with Soul and Nature : The Dance of Magic and Sensuality
Beloved Ones, the purpose of the Diamond Light and the Diamond Codes is to assist you to reconnect with your Galactic Self and to understand your origins in the Galaxy and your connections to the Star Nations. The purpose of the Emerald Codes is to assist you to reconnect to the Earth, to your physical being and to your heritage and power as a Light Being in Physical Form.
We ask you to feel the radiant Emerald Green Light Codes entering into your Light Body and your Physical Body to reawaken your deep cellular memories of living in a Paradise Garden of Love, Harmony and Creativity. This was always the plan for human life, to live in harmony with Nature in a Planetary Garden of Sensual Joy and Enjoyment.You might ask, well why is that no so today? Why are we so far from this idea? As you look around you, you see chaos, violence and unhappiness that seems so far from the original plan.

Beloved Ones, there came a time when you, as Humanity, decided to focus your Collective Evolution into an exploration of lower density and duality. This involved an experience of the nature of “good and evil” in material form. This “experiment” in collective consciousness, described in Biblical stories as the “Fall”, is now just about completed, and you, as Family of Light, are ready to return “home” to the Garden and to Higher Consciousness beyond the limitations of duality.
This is achieved by means of the process called Ascension. The first phase of this process was to activate the Diamond Light Body, which was disconnected at the time of the “fall”. This reconnection is the work of the Diamond Light Codes. The first phase is the re-wiring of the Physical Body and the Light Body and the healing of the separation from your Inner Divinity and from Nature that was the consequence of the fall into lower frequencies and into duality.

As you rise in consciousness, you return to the state of Unity Consciousness and “Oneness” that allows you to be in the Fifth Dimensional New Earth. But, to complete the process, you need to also allow the Emerald Light Codes to do their work of opening your Heart and Soul to the Divine Light flows that create Magic and Abundance on the New Earth.
When you began to live in the denser dimensions of the Third Dimension and to explore duality, you found it more useful to work with the mind and ego, and with the left brain faculties of linear thought and logic. Over time, this “bypass” of the right brain ,with its intuitive wisdom, and the heart with its ancient wisdom, became a way of being for you. You were truly “disconnected” and your physical body was re-wired over time to accommodate these new experiences and these new flows of energy.

As a result, the Soul shifted upwards and anchored above the physical body in the energy center known as the “Soul Star Chakra”. The Soul was still able to guide the body, but from a “distance” that could only be bridged by meditation and prayer. The chakras created new pathways of energy where the Left Brain mind and Solar Plexus were dominant, and the Right Brain and Heart were largely bypassed. This “wiring” of the Body and Soul/Spirit has produced the kind of destructive and fearful society that you see today. You have a culture that cannot solve its problems or see a way out, because it is unable to function together with the Heart, Soul and the Creative essence.BMSo, Beloved Ones, the Ascension process, guided first by the Christ Consciousness, opened the Hearts of those who were ready, to begin to experience the energy of Love and Oneness and to reconnect with the Right Brain and the Divine Feminine intuitive wisdom. This was followed by the Diamond Codes, that reactivated the Light Body and allowed the Soul to descend and anchor into the Heart, which became the center of the New Earth being.Now, Beloved Ones, the Emerald Codes are allowing you to complete the process.
To reconnect the Heart and Soul with the Earth and to “re-wire” the flow of Divine Creative energy from the Crown Chakra through the left and right brain equally, creating a new and balanced Flow of the Magical Creative Energy that can be expressed on Earth through your Creativity. As you allow this “rewiring” process, you will reconnect with the Creative Dance of your Soul, and also with the flow of Magic and Synchronicity that occurs when your Soul creates and dances with Divine Light on the Earth and with Nature. You will feel, once again, the sensual and creative joy as your Soul experiences Earth existence in a state of Fifth Dimensional consciousness and “Oneness”, and from a state of balanced Flow and Creativity.

Your Diamond/Emerald Heart and your Creative Essence:
So, Beloved Ones, in this final phase of the Ascension and Transformative process, you are invited to fully activate your Diamond/Emerald Heart Light and return to the Essence of Who You Are – a Creative and Balanced Being living in Inner Harmony with Self and Soul. Now is the time to begin to really activate the balance of Right Brain/Left Brain.
Heal the “separation” by reconnecting with your creative abilities and surrounding yourself with Beauty and the High Frequencies of Harmonic Creation. When you activate your Sacred Heart and allow it to be a part of the Flow of Divine Light within the Four Phase energies of Diamond, Emerald, Magenta and Turquoise, then the Right Brain will activate and the Soul will begin to express itself through Sensuality, Playfulness and Magical Creation.

Beloved Ones, when you allow this balanced flow of Divine Energies in your Being, you will feel yourself aligning with different frequencies, and living at a different pace and rhythm! You will feel Calm, Peaceful and focused on your Higher Purpose in life and achieving the Work of your Soul in the New Earth that is birthing. So, we ask you to enjoy these powerful waves of energy and allow them to activate your Creative and Intuitive Self along with your Heart energies. It is time to return to the Garden of Creativity!B

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Higher Frequencies – Clearer Vision – Watch Out For The Side Effects

uby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
these days it looks like we are truly in a race for the next and the next step of consciousness in our collective awakening process to the Golden Ago of Aquarius. The earth is moving and shaking with us, and the universe with its stars are constantly topping up the frequency level, with their loving influence and guiding directions. In less than a week the themes will shift again, so it is the right moment to take a look at what such high vibrating levels collectively have on us.

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Over the last few month we frequently heard about the electromagnetic changes in the earth field. Changes that allow our physical body to adapt to the divine energies that are constantly transmitted to us, and create space from within for their integration. An impact that also repeated more often now than ever before, are the high amount of  third eye openings or pineal gland awakenings, as they are also called. The Scorpio Full Moon in April has unveiled all our deepest soul desire to us, made us feel again what we believe deep in our soul, and showed us how we so far have avoided actually reaching our divine goals.
We have also learned about new perspectives for a Golden Age fit future of leadership, personal creative divine expression, how we share our unconditional love and how we take care of the planet we live on. All of this changes and directions are now available to us in inner pictures during our sleep, in our meditations and even day dreaming states. The more pineal glands open up to the bigger picture worldwide, the more people will be able to truly imagine the details of manifesting the Golden Age. Don’t forget, “What we can imagine – we can achieve”!!
dFurther side effects we might experience during the impact of High Frequencies are:
*) An important physical part of our collective thrive for awakening is, that our DNA is transforming to 12Strands, as the elements in our physical bodies are downloading new vibrations of the divine blueprint for humanity on to planet earth. That takes a bit of time and can create one or the other confusion on the way. Physical trouble as: Headaches, backaches, neck pains, kidney pains, having a cold, flu symptoms, digestive problems, muscular spasms or cramps, chest pains and an sometimes also increased tendency to accidents.

*) Also waves of intense emotions might come up. Before we human beings are capable of releasing the pain and hurt we are holding on to over our lifetime, we often have to feel them one more time. So if in your past you have been very aggressive, deeply jealous, massively fearful or spiteful, than you might have to feel all of this again now. A spiritual journey involves to constantly transform karmic energies. That is what we got the violet flame for. Sudden waves of nearly overwhelming feelings, outbursts of anger or intense sadness, increased sensitivity on emotional, mental and physical level, all can come up so it can be changed and evolved in vibration – by the violet fire. Find guidance steps and simple tools here!!

*) Just as the divine Law of Correspondence (Above as Below) states, when we reach a higher realm of spirituality and self-love, we also start loving the Earth more. We might feel drown to spend more time than usually in nature. Our ability to feel a communication with plants and trees can increase, our sense of communion with nature can be stronger and we might even meet one or the other elf or gnome on our walks ;-)!

*) Really important now is to allow our senses to extend and ourselves to enjoy, the magical beauty of the physical pleasures that our body provides. So if we want to love humanity and live as one, its time for us to start with loving our own physical appearance. This vessel of our own making, that allows spirit to flow and express itself in this world. Listen to the changes in diet your body might request now and keep doing that until it feels like a new balanced has settled in again.
TIP: Before you eat, bless your food and take a moment for earth awareness. Tell your body that you are going to use the food, to fill and nourish your whole being – body mind and soul. That way the food will also fulfill your emotional hunger, and old abuse pattern can fall away!!!

*) Vivid dreams can turn into a strong connection with our spirit guides. Our dreams can now be more mystical and bringing symbols or signs from indigenous lifetimes, the animal kingdom can make itself more present to us and sacred geometric shapes can appear. If you watch a change there, start a dream journal to get all the details of your messages!!!b7Dear Ones, I hope being aware of this impacts will help you feel more at ease in case you are caught up in overwhelming emotions, have physical trouble or meet people who show extreme behavior. Keep your mind focused on the many blessing the uncomfortable side effects will follow and surrender to the process!! Help yourself by working with the energetic support system of the Ascended Masters and the Angelic Realms!
Blessings an High Vibrations!
Edith

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Native American Wisdom For The Collective Awakening Process

aby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the last few weeks we have been invited to take a deep look at the meaning of our sexual relationships in the past, and the changes we are facing to create the new relationship paradigm. At the same time the collective awakening energies have together with the higher amount of pineal gland awakenings, brought the chance to create a deeper sensory relationship with the elements. Now it is time to make ourselves familiar with some guidelines and rules of Native American wisdom, that can lead the human collective into integrating the new born abilities.

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We have been invited to nourish and protect our childlike innocence, to be curious about life and be in the heart, and this are the qualities that are bringing forward our new ability to live aligned with this divine guidelines for the Golden Age of Humanity, that we are manifesting right now!! Finally the first pioneers on this wonderful planet are truly ready to go beyond race, gender, age, religion, tradition, language and patriotism, and create the communities of the future we collectively desire!! The first soul tribes are forming, THE FUTURE HAS BEGONE…

We are the Ones We Have Been Waiting For
You have been telling the people,
That is the eleventh hour.
Now, you must go and tell the people,
That This is the hour;

And there are things to be considered.
Where are you living? What are you doing?
What are your relationships?
Are you in the right relationship?eWhere is your water?
Know your garden…
It is time to speak the truth.
Create your community.
Be good to each other.

There is a river flowing now very fast,
It is so great and swift.
That there are those who will be afraid,
They will try to hold onto the shore.

They will feel they are being pulled apart,
And they will suffer greatly.
Understand that the river knows its divine destination.

The elders say we must let go of the shore.
Push off into the middle of the river,
Keep our eyes open and our heads above water.
And I say: see who is in there with you,
Hold fast to them and celebrate!

At this time in history,
We are to take nothing personally.
Least of all, ourselves!
For the moment we do,
Our spiritual growth and journey comes to an end.

The time of the Lone Wolf is over! Gather ourselves!
Banish the word “struggle” from your attitude and vocabulary.
All that we do now must be done,
In a sacred manner and in celebration.

We are all about to go on a sacred journey,
We are the ones we have been waiting for!
Speaker of the Wolf – Fox and Coyote Elder of the Hopi NationbThis is how the Native American Code of Ethics states it:

Rise with the sun to pray. Pray alone. Pray often.
The Great Spirit will listen, if you only speak.
Be tolerant of those who are lost on their path.
Ignorance, conceit, anger, jealousy and greed stem from a lost soul.

Pray that they will find guidance.
Search for yourself, by yourself.
Do not allow others to make your path for you.
It is your road, and yours alone.

Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.
Treat the guests in your home with much consideration.
Serve them the best food, give them the best bed
and treat them with respect and honor.

Do not take what is not yours whether from a person,
a community, the wilderness or from a culture.
It was not earned nor given. It is not yours.Respect all things that are placed upon this earth,
whether it be people or plant.
Honor other people’s thoughts, wishes, and words.

Never interrupt another or mock or rudely mimic them.
Allow each person the right to personal expression.
Never speak of others in a bad way.
The negative energy that you put out into the universe,
will multiply when it returns to you.dAll persons make mistakes.
And all mistakes can be forgiven.
Bad thoughts cause illness of the mind, body and spirit.
Practice optimism.

Nature is not FOR us, it is a PART of us.
They are part of your worldly family. Whispers
Children are the seeds of our future.
Plant love in their hearts.
Water them with wisdom and life’s lessons.
When they are grown, give them space to grow.

Avoid hurting the hearts of others.
The poison of your pain will return to you.
Be truthful at all times.
Honesty is the test of one’s will within this universe.

Keep yourself balanced.
Your Mental self, Spiritual self, Emotional self, and Physical self.
All need to be strong, pure and healthy.

Work out the body to strengthen the mind.
Grow rich in spirit to cure emotional ails.
Make conscious decisions as to who you will be
and how you will react.

Be responsible for your own actions.
Respect the privacy and personal space of others.
Do not touch the personal property of others,
especially sacred and religious objects.
This is forbidden.fBe true to yourself first.
You cannot nurture and help others if you cannot
nurture and help yourself first.
Respect others religious beliefs.
Do not force your belief on others.

Share your good fortune with others.
Participate in giving.

Dear Ones, I hope you feel interested and motivated now to study, explore and integrate the awareness of our chances and responsibilities, for manifesting the Native American Code of Ethic in everyday life. Lets be strong all together, hold hands and trust that we truly are the ones we have been waiting for. The ones who will bring the Golden Age of Aquarius. Always remember you are enough and you deserve to make all your deepest dreams come true!!
Light an Love ;-)!

Edith

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Clearing The Influences Of Our Sexual Past & The Twin Flame Reunion

jby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
some of you might remember that over the last few month there where a lot of energy waves, triggering us collectively to allow a transformation in our human sexuality. For month now we have been aware, that within the collective human awakening process the sexual paradigm has to change. Over time it will show, what a role ancient teachings like tantra and the tantric principles will play in this transformation, and how the Native American Code of Ethics fits into the picture of our newly developing sexuality. In December last year
the collective cleansing of the first chakra has changed human kind, and now every individual has the chance to catch up for their personal process too.
At the end of February, the Mars retrograde phase has pushed us to face a collective healing of the divine masculine energy within, which was followed by the Twin Flame energy field of God and Goddess Meru and the threefold flame in our hearts. For many of us the time has come to step us and become goddamn warriors for authentic love. And many who feel called to bring this kind of love relationship into the world, can sense that there might be something missing. Many feel that they are ready by heart, but also seam to be held back by some invisible cords. And that might just be what truly happens. But this feeling is not there in order to hold us back forever, it is there to make us aware. Where we feel trapped, there can be old and maybe long outdated sexual connections active; are maybe past entanglements at work; or our ultimate survival pattern can be on.

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And some relationships, that far extend in connection beyond the material level, can have an influence on our sexual reality in the hear and now, much longer that the 7 year phase of the physical body. So if we desire to be free and cleansed from the past, and maybe even wanna call our Twin Flame connection home, than it is recommended to do so in some conscious acts of transformation and separation.

Here are some steps that help the alchemy of your heart, to transform your past:
1.) Inform yourself in this article about the alchemy of conscious breathing, how the elements within us are working for our shifts like a kubic’s cube.
2.) Make yourself familiar with the power of the violet flame. This flame is part of the crown chakra, which is the physically opposite point to the root chakra and the perfect place to start our experience (above as below). Memorize the simple prayer!!
3.) If you first up want to steer your passion for the process or increase the strength of you inner fire, repeatedly listen to this sacred song to the fire element, before you continue.
4.) Put yourself some healing music on first. Lay down on your back, seek a deep inner connection and regular breathing rhythm and bring yourself to a meditative state. Allow the parts of your physical body, that still hold memories or entanglements to teach you about the leaks in your energy field. Where ever you feel a loss of strength, energy or clarity, direct the passionate fire of your will to leave free from the past to it, and keep repeating the mantra until you can feel the energy shifting. From there on move on to the next and next spot, until your body feels light, liberated and yours.
TIP: Don’t bother wanting to know which encounter had which impact, or even what person of your life left that fingerprint in you!! Simply know that if you need the information in order to heal, it will come to you.. if not, not!
This process can get quite intense in times, so take good care of yourself by preparing well…. have a placket and some water with you.. and reserve time so the flow is not limited by the clock!!
5.) When you feel that your vessel is empty for that moment, cuddle up and keep resting for as long as it feels right for you. Resist the need to understand what happened and rather allow the energy to work a bit for you.
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Dear Ones, I hope this insides and steps will help you on your way to freedom from your sexual past!! I hope you can let go with ease and grace, from the dynamics and pain that still might have a hold on you. I wish you all a wonderful time with the integration of this intense process, and may there be endless blessings for you to come!! And if you desire to meet your soul partner, don’t forget it is your inner clarity that attracts!
Blessings an Love ;-)!
Edith

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Guidelines To Awakening Into The Golden Age of Aquarius

animation-BUDDHA_UNION_by_VISHNU108by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
in December last year I shared how the collective cleansing of the first chakra, that took place for the human race at that moment allows us now, to sense on deeper levels how we need to create our collective future as oneness race on planet earth. During this March, three month later, with the collective healing of the divine masculine, the resulting possibility to unite the Twin Flame Fire, the incoming Ascended Master support to renew our life energy and the powerful impact of the Pisces New Moon with the Total Solar Eclipse; this healing circle is closing for us. In another post, I shared what role the Native American Code of Ethics is playing in the collective development of emotional intelligence for our society and relationship development. And today allow me to bring you a collection of quotes from the Buddha that, when brought into context with another, give us a clear picture how we need to behave, to bring this ethics codes into reality. See for yourself and feel how his words of wisdom vibrate for you!

1.) The virtues, like the Muses, are always seen in groups. A good principle was never found solitary in any breast.

2.) You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.

3.) I do not believe in a fate that falls on men however they act; but I do believe in a fate that falls on them unless they act.

4.) We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.

5.) We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.

6.) Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.

7.) Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

8.) Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.

9.) The foolish man conceives the idea of ‘self.’ The wise man sees there is no ground on which to build the idea of ‘self;’ thus, he has a right conception of the world and well concludes that all compounds amassed by sorrow will be dissolved again, but the truth will remain.

z10.) Just as treasures are uncovered from the earth, so virtue appears from good deeds, and wisdom appears from a pure and peaceful mind. To walk safely through the maze of human life, one needs the light of wisdom and the guidance of virtue.

11.) To keep the body in good health is a duty… otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear.

12.) To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one’s family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one’s own mind. If a man can control his mind he can find the way to Enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him.

13.) Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.

14.) With fools, there is no companionship. Rather than to live with men who are selfish, vain, quarrelsome, and obstinate, let a man walk alone.

15.) No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.

16.) He who gives away shall have real gain. He who subdues himself shall be free; he shall cease to be a slave of passions. The righteous man casts off evil, and by rooting out lust, bitterness, and illusion do we reach Nirvana.

17.) Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.

18.) I am not the first Buddha who came upon Earth, nor shall I be the last. In due time, another Buddha will arise in the world – a Holy One, a supremely enlightened One, endowed with wisdom in conduct, auspicious, knowing the universe, an incomparable leader of men, a master of angels and mortals.

19.) However many holy words you read, however many you speak, what good will they do you if you do not act on upon them?

20.) Charity bestowed upon those who are worthy of it is like good seed sown on a good soil that yields an abundance of fruits. But alms given to those who are yet under the tyrannical yoke of the passions are like seed deposited in a bad soil. The passions of the receiver of the alms choke, as it were, the growth of merits.ijkDear Ones, I hope this loving guidelines from the Ascended Master Realms are flaming your inner fire of passion for life, and provides some direction how to act divine in this amazing time of change. May you be supported and guided in every moment, and may you feel strong to manifest your true soul desires for the Golden Age of Aquarius on planet earth!! Shine bright beloved friends, be a beam of light for all of us, in this incredible collective awakening process.
Love and Blessings!!!
Edith

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What A Bi-Sexual Woman Learned From Dating Women Who Have Been Raped

1Dear Friends,
I am sure you are all aware and feel yourself being in the middle of the quickly shifting paradigms in our human sexuality and collective society. About the roles man and women have played so far in society, and how they are changing profoundly right now. Thru the new born clarity, coming from the collective clearing of the first chakra in
December 15, many have already started to change their sexual behavior and understand what type of influence their former actions had on their life. And than just recently I shared the article called “Does it really matter if God is male or female“, where mainly the discussion was raised, what kind of damaging impact organized religion and social traditions had on the roe of the divine feminine in our world today. In this impressively honest report by Emma Lindsay, the author shares with us her experience of sexual assault and how long it took her to realize, that that is what actually happened. Why you might ask – because for women in our society it has become a state of “normality” to be harassed, depressed or insulted on a sexual level. And that is a fact that truly should make us think, as it can never be the base of a healthy world and a Golden Age of Humanity for us. As the author states in her piece – every woman has her own story – unfortunately there are not a lot of women, who’s story is without a nuance of sexual violence!!
Love and Healthy Relationships!!!
Edith
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This is an excerpt of what she shared with us in her full article:
I don’t know how I expected a rape victim to act, but I didn’t expect her to be so funny. Or to be punk, in this kinda sexy bleached blonde but kind of too lazy to really care sort of way. Or to be so up front. “I may be a lesbian because of what happened to me, I don’t know. It doesn’t really matter at this point.” I guess, maybe in some way, I didn’t expect her to be so over it. Part of me, unconsciously, believed people who had been raped were irrecoverably broken, and she wasn’t. Just my belief that once a woman has been raped, she has been destroyed. People aren’t destroyed through being raped though. They suffer immensely, but they are just as much themselves after the rape as before. I realized how I think of women who have been raped contrasts greatly with how I think of men who have experienced non sexual violence.
One of my male friends was standing outside a club when he was hit from behind. He fell down, and two guys came up and kicked the shit out of him before running away. I think that event changed him in some ways. Yet, when men get beat up, I don’t ever entertain the impression that some part of them may have been destroyed. (I actually think there may be an opposite problem, namely men not getting emotional support because we don’t take their trauma seriously. If a man’s behavior changes after an attack, we don’t use this as evidence to support an unconscious belief that he is broken. If you told someone that a man had learned jiu jitsu after being attacked, I think the vibe would be “well, that’s pretty reasonable.” If a bisexual woman decided to date only women after being raped, the vibe would be “oh, she’s broken.”

This belief in the “brokenness” of those who have experienced sexual trauma is highly damaging. None of us want to be broken. I don’t want to be broken. And, at least for me personally, this belief in the uniquely destructive power of sexual trauma prevented me from honestly confronting some of my more difficult sexual experiences.lA few years ago, I was out getting drunk with a bunch of male friends, and one of them offered to let me crash at his place. He was someone I trusted, someone I’d been friends with for years. When we got back to his place, suddenly he was all over me, and he’d managed to get his fingers into my vagina before I was able to physically restrain him. I remember confusion, and then shock at realizing his fingers were inside of me. And, I remember how he wilted when I stopped him. He shrank with shame, and I felt so guilty. I spent the night, but I couldn’t sleep, and slipped out at 6am after giving him a kiss on the head. Then, I brushed it off. I had years of therapy after that, and never brought it up because I didn’t think it was significant. Yet, there were a few differences. I didn’t like being touched anymore. I stopped dating men, and then stopped dating anyone. I lost all sexual desire, and have been single now for about a year and a half.

I also started meditating. “Crying” has been a big part of my meditation practice. Just, nameless, faceless crying with no discernible reason. I sat a meditation retreat for 7 days, and the first 5 days were spent crying. It was just like — this nameless sadness that seemed to have no bottom ran out, and where it had been there was nothing. Shortly after my retreat, I was reading a Savage Love where a woman talked about a male friend of hers trying to finger her when he was drunk. Dan Savage told her she’d been the victim of sexual assault or attempted sexual assault. And, when I read that, I was like “how can she have been sexually assaulted? That’s exactly like what happened to me, but I wasn’t…” So, I looked up sexual assault. Apparently if someone touches your vagina against your will, that’s sexual assault.
I pondered over that. I read about what happened emotionally to people who had been sexually assaulted, and a lot of it fit with my experience. The blocking it out. The justifying. The guilt, the aversion to touch, and hyposexual desire. They were all common responses from people who had been sexually assaulted. And, when I read about that, I felt relief. These mysterious things that I had been feeling had a source. Without that understanding, I think admitting to yourself that you have experienced sexual violence is harder, because you also have to think of yourself as “broken.”hStill, between the ages of about 12–14 already, I had been bombarded with so much sexual harassment that I had normalized the feeling of it. I knew I didn’t like it, but it didn’t feel strange. It felt familiar. In retrospect, I think I may have had an especially bad run because I am a bisexual woman. Bisexual women experience a disproportionately high amount of sexual violence compared to straight and lesbian women, and that innately makes sense to me. I was repeatedly singled out for sexual attention because I was bisexual and, as the only out bisexual woman in the grade, I was a single target for the many boys who were fascinated by female bisexuality. The idea that, if someone knew I didn’t want to do something sexual that they shouldn’t do it, was completely alien to me, and yet made total sense.

I always believed that because I was able to defend myself physically, I would be able to defend myself sexually, but that turned out not to be true. The night I was assaulted, after pulling his fingers out of my vagina, I saw how miserable my (I don’t even know what to call him? assaulter? friend?) my assaulter-friend looked, and I felt guilty. I was ashamed that I had caused him pain by denying him access to my body. I felt like there was something wrong with me for not wanting sex with him. I can see in different circumstances, another woman might have had sex with him out of guilt and the whole thing would have been deemed “consensual.” But, it happened so quickly, and I didn’t have to fight that hard to make it stop, that even now I find myself questioning was it actually assault?

What’s so sad about what I see is that it’s so normal. I don’t see myself as a victim in an otherwise safe society, I see myself as a completely normal and unremarkable member of the female gender. I see women who have experienced more violence than me, and women who have experienced less violence than me, but I don’t see women who don’t experience violence. The fact that some women have experienced more, worse sexual violence only means that they need more help not that I need less help or that my emotional response to a traumatic event is invalid. As I tell my female friends about my experience, basically all of them remember experiences when they felt similarly and just absorbed it. When I told my ex girlfriend (a lesbian who has only had sex with a man once) she was confused, and asked me why I hadn’t told her all this while we were dating. I said “it didn’t occur to me, it just didn’t seem unusual.” Because it’s not unusual.m

But, the fact that it’s not unusual doesn’t mean it’s not wrong.

This last one is, for me, the crux of the pain I have felt over the years. I have been expected to care for the feelings of men, who don’t care for my feelings. More than any explicit action, this societal expectation for me to provide nutrition to the very people who resent me has poisoned me. It requires my complete effacement, for me to deny the value of my own experience. It has required a betrayal of the most personal kind, and to recover from it necessitates re-learning one of the most basic human instincts.

My own suffering matters.

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Discovering Shamanic Spiritual Sexuality

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by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
many times by now I have talked about our human sexuality and how the paradigm we have been living so far, is clearly changing right now. More and more people experience a new connection to their own body and the truth of their own personal authentic sexual expression. At the same time more and more people are awakening to their inner truth of spiritual guidance, and get in touch with the other world behind the veil. What that means is that collectively we are creating inner harmony between our spiritual essence and the root of our human existence, our sexuality.
Around the Sagittarius New Moon on December 11th last year, our collective spiral dance of creation, the memory field of all human beings ever incarnated on the planet, has been cleared from a deeply low vibrating frequency field. The collection of former misuse of our divine, human, masculine and feminine energetic powers. And this transformation effected our natural expression in sexuality, our deep personal commitment to the creation of a peaceful world for the collective human family; our ideas, concepts and traditions around family building including our definition of that term; co-operation between equals, and our conscious relationship with or confusion around money.
By now these energies have settled in and we are invited to keep an open mind, for we are about to combine and transcend two of the most controversial topics in this world, “Enlightenment” and “Sexuality”. This melting and merging of the seemingly opposite contradictory subjects, will open us collectively to discovering the vast free spirit dwelling inside our true being.mAnd this is why today we are looking into the world of Shamanic Tantra.. into the spiritual, sexual practice of Quodoushka. Based on ancient Mayan, Olmec, and Toltec teachings passed down through the generations by the Twisted Hair Nagual Elders of the Sweet Medicine Path, the practice of Quodoushka offers practical guidance on human sexuality, intimacy, and sacred relationships as well as how to reach higher levels of orgasm and sexual ecstasy. At times throughout history the magical mystery schools all over the world were forced to take their teachings and knowledge into the underground for safekeeping, as they were being misused by outsiders for personal power and domination, or perverted by religious hierarchies.
Working with the healing power of sexual union and orgasm, the practice of Quodoushka offers a path to repair emotional wounds and sexual insecurities, revive monotonous relationships, and discover the true medicine that our human sexuality can be. The insightful teachings give practical directions on how to heal the past and move forward as a sexual, spiritual being. The technique of Quodoushka fire breath is a way of clearing, cleaning and heating the body to transformation, which over time leads to the experience of full-body orgasms. This full-body orgasms confirm, that the practitioner reached a union with the universal field of oneness, which allows him/her to feel the orgasm as a physical experience as well as a universal event within the energetic body. Therefor it is a powerful way of connecting to our inherent sexual potential, and to activate our natural ability to experience deep pleasure. According to Quodoushka teachings it is the lack of healthy sexual expression in human society today, that is the root cause of abusive, addictive, and violent behaviors.
When we collectively transform our sex life into the sacred and healing practice it is meant to be, harmony and world peace will naturally emerge in the world. In order to be capable of such a change in behavior, we need to free blocked energies of the first chakra, and live in alignment with our authentic human aspects, authentic animal aspects, and guiding spiritual aspects.  Sensual-202-300x225So if you are in general rather attracted to shamanic ways of transformation and healing, and you sense since a little while that its time to raise your consciousness around the theme of sexuality within and out, the practice of Quodoushka might just be the right tool to make a quantum shift in the way how you feel about intimacy and sexuality. But what ever tools we choose, collectively it is our time to understand the magic in human sexuality, to dive deeper into the release of our survival pattern, and create space and freedom for our authentic sexual inner being.

Dear Ones, have you ever heard the phrase one and one makes three? It is expressing the fact that two energies merging with another, are creating a field that is more than the sum of the two individual parts. And that is what its all about. When we detach from our physical bodies during the sacred act of sexual unification, our divine essence can step forward and show us the whole universe in one single, magical moment of absolute union. I hope you feel motivated now to go beyond the limits of the physical body, when you feel the magical fire of desire rising in you the next time!
Love and Sacred Sexuality!!!
Edith

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The Higher Frequencies transmit to us Higher Perspectives and the Power to Act

higherby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
there has been much movement in the stellar games over the last few days. We passed the challenging impact of Mercury coupling with Pluto on January 29 and now we are under the influence of a prominence of gigantic proportions, that is hovering over the sun’s southeastern limb. The high frequencies and energetic information this stellar event is bringing, will go on until February 3rd, with sidearms until the 5th, when we are going into the feeling field of what the Aquarius New Moon will bring. So one more time the galactic influences give us just enough time and space to take a deep breath, and off we go into the next intensive moment.

So what does that mean for the collective awakening process of humanity you might ask. What kind of impact does that bring. Well on one hand i mentioned in yesterdays blog already that the electromagnetic changes in the frequencies will be a chance for many to experience a third eye opening or pineal gland awakening, as it is also called. But there is much more to it. The Leo Full Moon in January has asked us to detect our true for us, what we believe in deep in our soul, and how we see the future of leadership, creative expression and unconditional love on the planet.
The Aquarius New Moon (report coming up tomorrow!) is challenging us to be the revolution we desire and to make courageous even bold moves in the direction of our desires. And here we are in the middle of this two forces. Not quite on the first step of the rainbow anymore, but also not quite at the gold on the other side of the challenge jet. So collectively we will feel the influence of all our true desires, that we touched already over the last few month. The emotions can go wild in times and leave again from one second to the other. Just stay calm and breath.aaaaHere are further side effects we might experience during the impact of High Frequencies:
*) Collectively our DNA is transforming to 12Strands, as the elements in our physical bodies are downloading new vibrations of the divine blueprint for humanity on to planet earth. That takes a bit of time and can create one or the other confusion on the way. Physical trouble as: Headaches, backaches, neck pains, having a cold, flu symptoms, digestive problems, muscular spasms or cramps, chest pains and an increased tendency to accidents. *) Waves of intense emotions might come up. Before human beings are capable of releasing the pain and hurts we are holding on to over our lifetime, we often have to feel them one more time.
So if in your past you have been very aggressive, deeply jealous, massively fearful or spiteful, than you might have to feel all of this again now. A spiritual journey involves to constantly transform karmic energies. That is what we got the violet flame for. Sudden waves of emotions, outbursts of anger or intense sadness, increased sensitivity on emotional, mental and physical level, a tendency to physical violence, all can be changed and evolved in vibration – by the violet fire. Find guidance steps and simple tools here!!

*) Just as the divine Law of Correspondence (Above as Below) states, when we reach a higher realm of spirituality and self-love, we also start loving the Earth more. You might feel drown to spend more time than usually in nature. Your ability to feel a communication with plants and trees can increase, your sense of communion with nature can be stronger and you might even meet one or the other elf or gnome on your walks ;-)! And while you get re-connected to the loving heart and giving nature of planet earth, you might have to feel every pain – your own actions have cost to the planet so far.003*) And not to forget, the first personal union we build with Earth, is our physical body. Also there you might now feel the emotional effect all your self-abuses have created. So if you want to love humanity and live as one, start with loving your own physical appearance. This vessel of your own making, that allows spirit to flow and express itself in this world. Listen to the changes in diet your body might request now and keep doing that until it feels like a new balanced has settled in again.
TIP: Before you eat, bless your food and take a moment for earth awareness. Tell your body that you are going to use the food, to fill and nourish your whole being – body mind and soul. That way the food will not fulfill your emotional hunger, and old abuse pattern can fall away!!! *) Vivid dreams can turn into a strong connection with your spirit guides. Your dreams may be more mystical and bringing symbols or signs from indigenous lifetimes, the animal kingdom can make itself more accessible to you or sacred geometric shapes might appear. If you watch a change there, start a dream journal to get all the details of your messages!!!

Dear Ones, I hope being aware of this impacts will help you feel more at ease in case you are caught up in overwhelming emotions, have physical trouble or meet people who show extreme behavior. Keep your mind focused on the many blessing the uncomfortable side effects will follow and surrender to the process!! Help yourself by working with the energetic support system of the Ascended Masters and the Angelic Guides! Surround yourself with the divine influence of the color blue if you feel irritated or overwhelmed in times!
Blessings an High Vibrations!
Edith

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What Differentiates Being Sexually Dominated From Being Abused

17lu7bfxzx0btjpgby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the last few month I shared a lot of posts about human sexuality; the changing sexual paradigm within the collective human awakening process; the role of tantra and tantric principles in this collective transformation; what impact it has on men when they watch porn on a regular level; the brave sharing of a brother who decided “no longer procrasturbating his life away“; the passionate call of a beautiful soul to become goddamn warriors for authentic love again, and how the collective cleansing of the first chakra has changed human kind on a sexual level forever; and even what to be aware of to identify a spiritual sexual predator.
And now this article was send to me, unfortunately I don’t know the author, bringing up the important question in differentiation between a chosen, sexually dominating encounter and an abusive situation. It can be hard to know if you’re being abused or if your own behavior is abusive. One may think that a ruff way to approach sexuality is “just natural” and the other might experience it as abusive. For some a little physical pain or sexually threatening words are not abuse, for others it might scare the living daylight out of them.
Also sexual abuse does not always start in the bedroom. For example monitoring the partner in what ever he/she is doing, consciously limiting the partners time or possibilities to talk to members of the other sex and even, overly strong control of how the other spends his/her money, can be part of a sexual abusive, dominant behavior. Sometimes a relationship might not be abusive, but it might have serious problems that in the moment make it unhealthy to sexually interact with another. Who ever you are with, in a health relationship you should be to be yourself, to take care of yourself and feeling like your partner supports you as you are.fightbackRead here what the conscious brother has to share about his personal discoveries:
Much discussion, and with it a lot of disagreement on the matter, is whether women enjoy being “taken”. The fantasy of a man coming into their room and grabbing them, throwing them against a wall, and fucking them senseless is a common fantasy. Other women with past trauma of various kinds react to the above paragraph and call it abuse.
So what is a man to do? On one hand we are told women wants a “bad boy” with confidence bordering on arrogance. In the same breath, we hear we are to be the sensitive man in tune with his feelings, understanding the needs of women. It isn’t that complicated; I am discovering. (I didn’t say women aren’t complicated, the study of this fairer sex is never ending and a life-long pursuit which shall never be fully completed). However, knowing what a woman wants is not something that we should EVER cross over into being abusive. Confident, sexy, strong, and aggressive may, depending on the woman you are with, be a huge part of your relationship, but crossing over to where the woman doesn’t feel safe is never something any man should ever do, and in so doing claim ignorance.
You know. Period. It’s in her eyes.You can read trust in a woman’s eyes like a grade three book. It’s there in black and white, written for you to see. She will project it to you even in the most erotic situations. Look deep in her eyes, and read what she is writing for you. Sometimes, she will want you to man up and grab her; some want it rough and with a sense of you proclaiming your dominance over her at that moment. Other times, she wants you to look into her eyes, and just caress her cheek, nothing more. Kisses, love and tenderness. For some women, other times it’s begging to be slapped on the ass. How do you read the signs? If you are new to this and have never played a more dominant role, have an honest discussion.aAsk her!
And not when you are both wound up like a top sexually and ready to fuck each other, but when you are sitting over a cup of coffee. Ask her what her fantasies are. Ask her specifically if she has ever imagined being taken. Blindfolded or dominated in any way. You may be surprised. It’s not every woman’s fantasy, but it is for more women than you may think. Woman want to be desired, deeply wanted for their body, their mind, their soul. They want a warrior to conquer them. They want a real man to “want” them so bad they see lust and desire in your eyes. And in the midst of all of this, they must feel safe and loved. Why is the rape fantasy still one of the highest ranking fantasies for a woman? I believe it is precisely this. A woman wants to be wanted.
They desire a strong man who owns his masculinity unashamedly, yet with a deep respect for her femininity. She wants to feel that your eyes are staring at her body with lust; that when you are caressing her it means something so much deeper. That if they trust you enough to tie them up and spank their ass, it is not because they love to feel pain necessarily, but because it speaks to the desire you have to dominate them in a way that, in a circular way, has them really in charge of your desire. Focused completely and un-distracted on them and their sexuality. Where the line must never, ever, be crossed is going to a point where she doesn’t feel safe or has crossed into the world that makes her feel you are taking, and she has not given permission. There is no excuse for abuse. Ever.

Ever.
Tricky, yes. A scene in lovemaking might look the same between two people on two different days, and one day it is true loving sex, and the same scene a day later may be abuse. The difference? Permission and trust. And both of these are in her eyes. Look deeply. You will know. So to myself and all men: man up and consume your lady. That might mean chains and leather, or it might mean a hot tub with wine. Ask the hard questions, and be ready to explore a little outside of your comfort zone. You might be surprised to what levels your sexual enjoyment might reach.h

Dear Ones, I have to say I really like this piece. I enjoy the way how honest the author is and also many of his details are close to my personal and professional experience. One thing is for sure, female sexuality can only unfold in its true beauty and depths, when we feel desired, safe and truly seen as who we are… but than, maybe man actually feel that way too?? I would love to hear about your ecperience!!!
Deep Love, Blessings & Safe Sex ;-)!!
Edith

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