Getting In Touch With Our Spirit Guides

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
have you ever wondered how some people feel so sure about the presence of spirit guides in their life and others are not? The answer could be as simple as a higher awareness for the most commun signes for spirit guides to be in the presence of human beings. Here are a couple of signes that have been reported by many people to be their experience in such situations. 

1.) You sense changes in the air:
Sometimes while we are engaged in a random everyday life activity, we suddenly feel with inner clarity – I am not alone in the room, even when you physically obviously are alone. This other presence could trigger feelings of anticipation, of excitement without knowing why, or an inner peace you had not felt just a minute ago! You might experience a sudden explosion of faith, safety and clarity that you are loved. Also a lot of people feel a change of temperature. When you are in a closed room, with no window open and no wind blowing and all of the sudden you feel a wall of warm & cozy, or fresh & chill air in the room – that is a Spirit Guide.
Now, if you are new to talking to forces from the other world, know that there is no reason to be afraid!!!! They are not coming to do anything to you, that you don’t want them to do!! You always have the right for free will!! Should it ever happen that you feel uncomfortable with an appearing being, simple shout out “Identify yourself or go”, do that 3 times and it will disappear, if it was an energy field with negative intention.
As for your Guides, treat them like any other friend at your door! Invite them in!! Ask for their name, share your day….

2.) Vivid Dreams
When we get attuned to higher energies, more and more doors in our subconscious open for bigger receptiveness. But as most people in the world today have a very full schedule and engage in far to many daily 3d activities, it sometimes is easier for your guides to make their way into your dreams – than to reach your awareness during the day.
So when our connection increases, often our dreams get far more vivid. You could see colors, where before there was only black and white. The storybook of your dreams may become much more complex. And sometimes you will have the same dream over and over again. This is because sometimes our subconscious needs several turns, to be able to tune into the deeper sense of their message. You can compare it to a real good movie that you watch for the 5th time and still see details, you did not notice in the viewings before.

3.) Repeating Lyrics
This is my personal favorite of all the ways I saw guides taking, to reach the human’s ear with their sound of guidance. It is a pleasure I experienced all my lifetime. I am talking about a song…. a random melody,… and its lyrics.. repeatedly being played in every radio you pass by, in the home of a friend – the moment you enter the door, its the background music of a shop – but most importantly – in your head. If this is happening to you, if you sound or sing a song in your head over and over again, maybe even find yourself repeating just one single phrase – pay attention to the lyrics!!!!
If you don’t know them – go on internet and find out. If you don’t like them – embrace them!! This lines have something profound to do with YOUR LIFE!!! They might tell you about a challenge you just overcame. They might tell you about a desire, still waiting in your soul to be released into the open. Or they might whisper to you about a future manifestation, jet to be dreamed about.. so it may come into materialization for you.. What ever it is, this lyrics have something important to tell you about yourself!!!4.) Synchronicity
I would probably call this my second favorite, because it involves interaction with others. Synchronicity is a feeling like everything clicking into gear and aligning in a way, you could never have predicted before. The outcome is bringing simplicity and ease into our life. Just yesterday we had the perfect little triangle Synchronicity on facebook. A friend commented on a post, requesting music. While I looked up a link to share, a second friend commented with the same request. I posted the music and the second answered laughing, that she just listened to exactly this piece. At the same moment she posted another link with music and… you can probably guess it by now… the first friend answered with LOL.. I just finished listening to this piece…
Three women.. three songs.. triangle closed.. perfect synchronicity..

5.) Crown Chakra Activity
Some Spirit Guides chose to get your attention with the creation of several physical sensations. You might experience a tingling on the top of your head, the point where your crown chakra is sitting. An itching of your head or even a strong pressure – only slightly different from a normal headache. But not only our crown is an interesting spot to connect with you, also our pineal gland (the third eye) is of biggest importance.
You see, the crown has the ability to receive downloads of energy frequencies to alter our awareness, but the pineal gland knows everything about dreaming your world into reality, about inspiration, visions, intuitive receptiveness and more. So make sure your body is clear of toxins, choose healthy salt versions and change your water and toothpaste to a FLUORIDE FREE brand!!!

6.) 333, 3333
Especially during this last Month of September, the amount of people who reported their increasing awareness of repeating number sequences, was mind blowing for me! Constantly people started noticing numbers in sets of three or four. All of the sudden it looked like for the whole human collective, everything turned into a number messenger of the divine forces. Every time looking at a clock, every license plate, the address you where send to – to get the job you so desired since a long time, being added to a brand new group on facebook – I was member 777,…..
The simple explanation is, the blueprint of the universe can be decoded by understanding their energy frequency true your sensory self. This is what we have to study. The Number 3 is representing the force of the divine feminine energy and it is the number of the Ascended Masters. If you repeatedly see number sequences of 3s, the Masters are trying to invite you into a more conscious relationship with them.

7.) Meeting a person over and over again
Have you ever experienced that you run into the same person in the most random places, in the weirdest of places, in a different city, on an airplane?? It can be that you notice again and again the same face of a stranger in the crowd, or that you meet someone you know but never really engaged with. If this is happening you are asked to be brave and walk up to this person and make contact. They just might have the most important message of the day for you!!!Dear Friends, I hope this list will help you identify a guidance, a spirit guide or a hint from the universe, when you are the next time in such a situation in daily life. May you feel safe and loved in the arms of so much divine presence!!
Lots of Love and Blessings!
Edith

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Supporting Our Children To Develop Faith For Their Life Path

sDear Friends,
over the last two days I shared in the posts “planting a seed of meditation and inner communion in our children” and “introducing our children to authentic spiritual expression“, steps how to talk to the next generation about prayer, meditation and developing an internal connection to the higher self. Today we are talking about purity to our path and acting on the guidelines we share.
I hope this trilogy of expects has provided lots of loving guidance, valuable insides and helpful tools for you. May they serve you well in your attempt to support your children on their path of developing a spiritual practice for themselves.
Love and Blessings!

Edith

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Teaching our children and teenagers to perform obligatory prayers, is a delicate and often stressful matter for families. What is the divine guidance on the matter? When and how is it best done? Parenting expert Hina Khan-Mukhtar sheds some light.

6) “Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.” – Rumi
For some kids, positive sensory associations are very important in creating an attachment to prayer. From a young age, my boys have taken great pride in dressing up for Jumah (Friday) prayers in their best clothes, wearing their best perfume and their best kufis (prayer hats). We always set out their most special clothes for the most special of days, and they feel noble and dignified as they wash and dress for going to the mosque on Friday afternoons. I know of one mom who created a magical “prayer corner” in her daughter’s bedroom, complete with a lace canopy that cascaded down over an intricately embroidered prayer mat and an ornate table that held a beautifully designed Quran and crystal prayer beads. Other parents regularly light sweetly scented incense or candles during prayer time in the home. One mother used to wear a silk prayer gown stamped with gold and silver block print for her night prayers; her children sometimes have compared her to a princess, other times to an angel. These are examples of kids who saw, heard, smelled, and tasted nothing but beauty and elegance when it came to prayer in their homes.l7) Aspire to be what you want them to be.
No one recognizes hypocrisy quicker than a child. The truth of the matter is that you can encourage and teach a child to pray all you want, but if you’re not going to pray, the chances are highly likely that he/she’s not going to pray either. And letting a child witness that you pray isn’t always enough either. What about how you pray? Are you rushed and distracted? Are you nonchalant if you miss the prayer? I know of an adult who remembers his own father weeping when he once missed a prayer, and that reaction made more of an impression on him about the importance of prayer than all the lectures in the world ever could.

In conclusion, I feel it’s important to confess how emotionally difficult it was for me to actually write this article. I’ve been analyzing what my hesitation was, and I realize that it was rooted in the fear that my words will come across as preachy and imbued with a sense of self-satisfaction when nothing could be farther from the truth. Another part of me worries that I will somehow jinx my family by admitting to the world that my husband and kids are regular with their prayers. I remember when I had my first son in 1997, how desperate I was to find any kind of reading material that would help motivate and guide me in teaching him the fundamentals of this beautiful tradition.

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Introducing Our Children To Authentic Spiritual Expression

aDear Friends,
in yesterdays post about “planting a seed of meditation and inner communion in our children“, we received first insides how to help our children cultivate an inner relationship with their higher self. Today we learn how to put meaning and mindfulness into the process of daily practice. And please remember how easy it is to turn everyday life activities into meditation by adding mindful awareness to them!! Enjoy the insides and tips!
Blessings and lots of success!
Edith

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Teaching our children and teenagers to perform obligatory prayers, is a delicate and often stressful matter for families. What is the divine guidance on the matter? When and how is it best done? Parenting expert Hina Khan-Mukhtar sheds some light.

3) “If it was good enough for the Prophet, it’s good enough for me.”
When I asked Shaan why he is committed to his prayers, he said, “It was the last thing the Prophet (salallaahu alaihi wasallam) told us to hold onto; he was talking about it right up until the point he passed away. How can we ignore that? How important must prayer be if he (peace be upon him) was reminding us about it even with his last breaths?” They learned that missing a prayer just isn’t an option for anyone who has taqwa (God-consciousness).

4) Teach them what they’re saying, what they’re doing, and why.
Prayer should not be allowed to become a series of robotic yoga-like motions devoid of meaning or purpose. Zeeshan and I have been forthright with our kids and confessed to them that there will be times when prayer might feel like an inconvenient, rote duty that just needs to be discharged — and they may find themselves feeling disillusioned and disheartened when those thoughts come to them — but, nevertheless, the prayer is never to be abandoned.
We have made sure to make it clear to the kids, however, that God is not in any need of our prayers or our praise or our prostrations; on the contrary, it is we who are in need of Him. We have also emphasized that none of us should ever feel self-righteous or holier-than-thou about the fact that we are choosing to pray when others are not. “We need prayer; it’s like taking medicine that the Doctor prescribes,” I tell the boys. “Would any of us go around bragging about taking meds or look down on others because they aren’t taking the prescription that we’ve chosen to take for our own health?”Ados-pour-HAWe all know that you are only as good as the company you keep, and being in an environment where prayer is as natural as eating or drinking just helps create a new type of “normal” for the kids. My boys have grown up seeing not only their parents and their friends praying in congregation but seeing their parents’ friends and friends’ parents giving significance to prayer.

Teaching our children about the Isra and Mi’raj (Night Journey and Ascension) has been instrumental in getting them to understand how the prayer was revealed and what the different parts of the prayer mean to us on a spiritual level. The position of ruku (bowing) is compared to the way one would bow in front of a king. In the humbling position of sajdah (prostration), we point out how that is the only position in which the human heart is elevated over the human brain. It is the heart that truly knows God; it is the heart that truly recognizes Him.” The prayer will suddenly have relevance for them.

Finally, it’s really important to talk to the kids about intention. One of my favorite quotes that I like to share with the boys is a comparison of worshipers of three types — the first is the worshiper who worships out of desire for Heaven (he is like the businessman looking only for a profit); the second is the worshiper who worships out of fear of the Hell-fire (he is like the slave who wants only to avoid punishment); and the third is the worshiper who worships out of gratitude because he recognizes that Allah is worthy of worship (he is the truly free man).
“Which one are you?” we ask our sons…and then we leave them to reflect.
And we reflect on ourselves as well.

5) Set them up for success.
We recently invested quite a bit of money in some high quality khuffs (waterproof socks) for him so that he wouldn’t have to deal with the inconvenience of having to stick his foot in the sink while making wudu in the boys’ restroom at his high school. He can just wipe over his khuffs during school hours now. On Shaan’s first day as a freshman, his father and I helped him come up with talking points so that he could approach the principal with confidence when he requested a private space for prayer; we promised to have his back if he ran into any resistance.
Our “support” turned out to be unnecessary however. It’s been three years now, alhamdulillah, and the high school front office staff knows Shaan really well — he’s the kid who comes in every day during lunch to go to the conference room to pray.imagesWhile all of these gadgets and gizmos may be great to have around for convenience’s sake, the kids understand that they will have to make do for prayer — one way or the other — whether they have their prayer packs on hand or not. “Guard your prayer” is the mantra in our home.

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Planting A Seeds Of Meditation And Inner Communion In Our Children

eliminate-violenceDear Friends,
in my post of the last year, I have mentioned again and again the importance of the practice of prayer and meditation, as tools to enter a space of inner communion with the higher self. I shared how easy it is to turn everyday life activities into meditation by adding mindful awareness to them; posted a study from the University of Harvard on the impact of meditation on the brain; let you know about the success Schools in San Francisco have by adding meditation to their curriculum; and most importantly, I shared how it is even scientifically proofed that group meditation can change the energetic field of the entire world. And of course in many of my pieces I mentioned the effectiveness of prayer to the energies of the Ascended Master Realms.
Nearly a year ago I ran into this wonderful article describing how to pass on a sense for cultivating commitment and bliss in our daily practice of prayer. While reading the piece I realized, that the author speaks with such a beautifully open heart and from such deep insides into human nature, that sharing her piece is of big value for many. The article is a very long one, that is why I choose to only use excepts and share the knowledge in a trilogy starting today! The guidance was originally written for Muslim parents looking for a way to introduce their kids to the intense commitment of five prayers the day, but they are just as valuable for every parent looking to give their children a feeling for meditation and a mindful lifestyle. I hope you enjoy her wonderful insides just as much as I did, and find profound guidance in her words.
Tomorrows post will be the second part, watch out for it!!
Love and Blessed Communions!
Edith

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Teaching our children and teenagers to perform obligatory prayers, is a delicate and often stressful matter for families. What is the divine guidance on the matter? When and how is it best done? Parenting expert Hina Khan-Mukhtar sheds some light.

“How the heck do you get a teenage boy in public high school to care about not missing his prayer?”
It is a question that I’ve been asked more than once, and there has never been a simple, easy answer to give. The quickest and most honest one is to frankly admit that all guidance is a blessing and a mercy from God and none of us are in any real control of what our children choose to take — and not take — from our teachings.
But let’s face it — we all know that’s not what parents want to hear (even if they know it’s the truth). Parents are looking for tips and advice, some kind of handbook to follow, a checklist of do’s and don’ts. For the purposes of this article, I did sit down and reflect on what has brought us to where we are now after almost 18 years of raising sons, alhamdulillah (praise be to God). I write this article with the full knowledge that we are no experts; we are no authority figures; we are no success stories. We just happen to be parents who for whatever reason are blessed with children who choose to pray…for now.MeditatingI asked my kids what they think has helped make prayer a priority for them in their lives, and I informally interviewed some friends to get their insights as well. Here’s what has worked for our families so far, and we hope that our experiences may help others in turn, insha’Allah (God willing)…

1) For God’s sake (literally), leave those kids alone for the first 7 years!
You shouldn’t have any real expectations of them until after they are 7 years old. I still remember how I cringed when I once saw a well-meaning father pretty much forcing his 6-year-old daughter to join the congregational prayer. She kept running off, and he kept bringing her back, insisting that she fold her hands and stand silently by his side as he recited the Quranic verses aloud. His intentions were noble and sincere, no doubt, but the execution left much to be desired. It was painful to watch, and I remember hoping that his plans weren’t going to backfire on him one day. Another time, I heard a mother tell her son that “Allah will be mad at you if you don’t pray; the angels are writing down that you’re being a bad boy”, and it took all my willpower not to cry out loud, “Stop! Please don’t say that to your 5-year-old!”
What baffles most adults is trying to figure out how they are supposed to take the spiritual souls that have been placed under their care and then successfully prepare them for the lifelong duty of praying five times a day once their physical bodies have attained puberty.

In the early years, children should be allowed to join and leave the prayer at will, letting themselves get acclimated to the motions and the sensations of the ritual prayer at their own pace. Praying with the family should be an enjoyable experience — one that kids can partake in (or not) as much as they desire. Their association with prayer should be one of sweetness. I know one father who has all of his children share their duas (supplications) aloud one by one after the prayer is over so that everyone can join together in asking Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) to grant their siblings’ wishes. Once the duas are over, the kids often dissolve into tickling and wrestling matches while the father finishes up his supererogatory prayers on his own.

2) When the time for praying finally comes, go all out and make the initiation into prayer a celebration to remember! Treat it like an exciting honor, a real rite of passage.
When each of my boys turned 7 years old, I bought them beautiful journals which I gave to my friends and family to fill with inspiring messages about prayer. My parents and my in-laws each wrote messages to their grandsons, sharing their hopes and wishes for their futures with them. Older cousins wrote about how prayer helps them in good times and in bad; aunties and uncles gave advice on what helps them get through “prayer slumps” which — if we are truly honest — are bound to come in one’s life at some point or another. The general theme was one of encouragement and excitement. It’s been almost 10 years since I put together those gifts for my older two sons, and even now, I will sometimes catch them perusing their Prayer Books with smiles on their faces as they read the heartfelt messages to themselves.eZeeshan and I have found that slow and steady wins the race. When each of our sons turned 7 years old, we allowed them to choose one prayer that they wanted to take on as their daily commitment. The understanding was that — no matter what — the one prayer would never be neglected from that day (i.e. their 7th birthday) forward. If the boys wanted to pray any of the other prayers, that was all well and good, but it was their choice and we made it clear that we would not be monitoring them or holding them accountable.
Whether they were at a play date or in the middle of a shopping mall or at a swimming lesson, if the time for their prayer came in, they made sure to take a few minutes to complete it.We continued this routine for twelve months. When a year of praying one prayer on time had finally passed by successfully, we told the boys that they were now “qualified” to take on a second prayer. We treated it like an honor that only the most responsible could be trusted to handle! We told them that we were trying to teach them how to honor commitments, we knew that it took practice and discipline to do so, and we accepted that it was our job to slowly but surely teach them those tools for success. Using this method, all three of our boys were praying all five of their daily prayers by the time they were 9 1/2 years old, alhamdulillah. By age 10, prayer was an established routine.

During the course of writing this article, I asked my almost-16-year-old son Ameen why he prays all of his prayers on time, and he responded, “I don’t remember ever not praying, so I can’t imagine not doing it now. It’s a part of who I am.” My most fervent prayer is that he always feels that way. I am no fool; I know prayer is a gift and, if not treated with gratitude and humility, it can be lost at any moment. May Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) protect us from ever experiencing such a devastating void in our lives. Aameen. (Amen.)

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5 Of New Beginnings Last Years Best Reads (Non Seasonal)

aaaby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,

the last year was magical and has brought beautiful blessings of abundance and growth to me and my passion as a writer. Over time many of you resonated with me and the guidance I received for our collective path. So today allow me to share the 5 most enjoyed (not season related) articles, that my follower made the “Best Reads” in 2015. I hope they bring you insights, guidance and lots of inspiration for your personal creation of the Golden Age of Aquarius!!!
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ReadiBest Read Number 1:
Synchronicity, Number Sequences & Angel Messages
In this very special time of our transition into the Golden Age of Aquarius, synchronicity for the human collective is aligning with the universal number language. What does that mean? It means that timelines open, and for thousands of people the energetic understanding of number sequences (as 222,333,444,11:11,…), sacred geometries and even music (when composing music, you can choose to write it down either in a note or in a number and every musician can read it that way – it is the direct translation of “everything is vibration”) will grow. Read here the full article!!743
Best Read Number 2:
10 Signs you are called to be a Western Shaman
Trait Number 4.) Have you fallen deathly sick in early childhood, survived a deep coma, had a near death experience or spend your nights constantly in the state of lucid dreaming? This are all considered calls from the spirit world. In shamanic traditions especially being on the verge of drowning and survived a fire of some sort, are seen as signs of a calling to become a Shamanic Healer. Read here the full article!!
mastersBest Read Number 3:
What to Know about the Ascended Masters
Now is the time for all of us, to connect with the realm of the Ascended Masters! To start a co-creative relationship based on the feelings of equality, respect and joy, to cut all the old ties of negativity or limiting doctrines and to start feeling the presence of the other world in your everyday life as a supportive force. With some devotion and practice, this is possible for all of us. The Ascended Masters are basically humanity’s elder brothers and sisters, beings of light supporting the ascension process of the human collective as well as of the individual. Most of them walked the planet for many lifetimes, refining their light body through the practice of constant energetic awareness. Read here the full article!!lkhigh
Best Read Number 4:
6 Abilities an Awakened Man desires in a woman
1) An awakened man wants your true authentic self:
An man on the awakening path, needs a woman who knows herself. A woman who clearly is aware of her core values, strong and centered enough not to change – just to be with him. A woman who does not feel the need to prove herself to anyone. Not to him, not to the outside world. A woman who knows how to communicate, live and share her desires. He will be grateful to her, as long as she shares her true authentic self with him. The loving, inspiring and embracing parts of your true being, as much as the challenging and not so comforting parts. A woman willing to take full responsibility for her being, and her own feelings. Read here the full article!!s
Best Read Number 5:
7 Signs your Spirit Guides are Present
2.) Vivid Dreams
When we get attuned to higher energies, more and more doors in our subconscious open for bigger receptiveness. But as most people in the world today have a very full schedule and engage in far to many daily 3d activities, it sometimes is easier for your guides to make their way into your dreams – than to reach your awareness during the day. So when our connection increases, often our dreams get far more vivid. Read here the full article!!


Dear Ones, I hope you have fun with this “best reads” from the last year! I hope the insides help and bring inspiration for your personal development and awakening path!! May you be well guided always, and have fun discovering your own essence daily a bit more!
Love and Blessings!!!
Edith!

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Please forgive me! I was blind but now I see! A Spiritual Warrior’s apology to the women he loved…

abOh my God Beloved Friends,
now it is really happening. The Union between the Sacred Hearts of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine, as transmitted trough the frequency shifts in the universe since June this year, are coming into manifestation inside of us. While writing this, I find myself crying my heart out – physically shaking all over – while breathing in deeply and rhythmically till the last vibration of my toes and the last spike of my hair, the wonderful, magical, authentic vibrations, coming from this Self-master’s words.
I don’t know who this magical Warrior of Love is who blessed us with such a loving authentic message but I know, that I BLESS HIM from the bottom of my divine sacred feminine heart – with all the force and clarity of unconditional love I ever achieved inside me – for this letter to us, the seeker of a divinely guided, authentic and truthful love relationship. A union created by two souls, infinitely connected throughout time and space, both brave enough to be whole in their own masculinity and femininity!! With this I leave you to the actual sensation of the day…. this beautiful letter from a Divine Masculine Heart.

I used to think women were only afraid of aggression in men, in all its forms: anger, rage, physical violence, verbal abuse, sexual aggression, rape. I grew up with all kinds of conflicting social messages about the wrongs (and subtle rights) of violence against women. With three sisters and two mothers (married to my two fathers), I learned early there was something inherently special about women, that they were different from men not just in body parts, but in essence. I knew they should be protected and respected. In addition to the daily masculine aggression towards women I encountered outside my home, I also watched my alcoholic step-father terrorize my mother, me and two sisters with an explosive rage (he’s sober 21 years now, and a good man). Seeing these beautiful, brilliant women in my life routinely recoil in the face of a horrifying masculine aggression only reinforced my ideas about a woman’s singular fear. I learned to loathe the thought of making a woman feel unsafe in my presence. I wanted to make women feel good, to like me, and I had seen how aggression made them not feel good, how it made them hate a man.
So I did my best to never express aggression with a woman.

Even in my sexuality. I shut down sexually towards women for fear that my desire would be interpreted by them as aggression. Throughout my dating life and well into relationships, until I was 100% certain a woman welcomed a next step with me, I would not proceed with a next step. A woman had to practically stick her tongue down my throat before I understood that kissing her was welcome. I castrated myself in countless ways to protect women from any hint of masculine aggression in me. I often practiced what I believed was the most certain way to make a woman feel safe: I made myself invisible to her. Whether that meant backing down, staying out of her way, leaving the room, or simply pretending I didn’t want to ravage her when I so desperately did, I made myself as non-threatening in a woman’s presence as I could position myself to be. I taught myself how to disappear. To save her from what I thought was her primal fear of my aggression.c4f099dcf1717c7ede2519c2141d4ba4But here’s what was really happening:
In the last few years I’ve discovered something women fear even more in men than mere aggression. It’s something far more common in our everyday world. Something us men even fear in ourselves, though most aren’t even conscious we’re doing. A feminine woman is most afraid of her masculine man disappearing. She’s afraid of him failing to show up for her. Not stepping up. Walking out. Not staying strong and present, particularly when things get a little crazy and confusing. A woman’s deepest desire is to be cherished. When a man leaves, even just emotionally if not physically, she is left completely un-cherished.
Aggression is simply the extreme expression of a man not cherishing a woman.
I checked out for years when my women got too emotional for me, especially when they were angry. I thought if they just saw things differently – if they saw things like I see them – everything would be fine. So I tried like mad to convince their minds to shift. Which rarely worked. They weren’t waiting to have their intellects adjusted. So I would constantly give up and run, even when I stayed in the room. If she fought me long enough, eventually I fought back. A feminine woman can’t out-masculine me. I will win that battle. And I did. Every time. But I really only ever lost. So did she. Heartbreaking how blind I was to what was actually going on. I realize now she was simply screaming out her fear, desperate for me to step up strong and claim her heart, to let her know without a doubt that I’m here, not going anywhere, that she’s safe in my love, to simply reassure her deeply that I got her and won’t let anything bad happen to her … like only a healthy masculine man could reassure her.

Women weren’t just afraid of my aggression. They were afraid of my leaving, which ironically I was doing in countless ways often to avoid my own innate aggression which scared me, too.
Had I known this deeper truth, I likely would have married my last girlfriend. Instead, I labeled her immature and mean, and I ran in every direction. I couldn’t stand in the illusory fire of her pain – a pain largely caused by masculine abandonment in her past. I was so triggered by her pain, so caught up in my own, that I couldn’t reassure her that I loved her and would hold her safe as she learned to trust again. I lost the woman I loved most in my life because I couldn’t see what was really happening; what she was really asking of me. She was asking me to step up and fight for her heart.
Fight what? Fight myself. Fight my desire to run. To check out. To disappear. She was begging me to be aggressive with my own inner demons, and perhaps hers, too, in the battle for her sacred feminine heart. But I lost that battle. She’s married to another man now.
a-twinOh what fine messes of hearts I helped create over the years. I didn’t know. I’m so sorry. Please forgive me. I see now. I’m growing up. I’m a Man. Eager to share what I’ve learned through so much pain, with other men who don’t yet see, but who are ready to. I’m finally ready to step up and fight for a woman’s heart.

Have this words touched you as much as they have touched me? Than there is hope!! Hope that your desire for oneness between men and women is burning bright, and that you will do everything in your power to be part of creating a new paradigm for our love-relationships!!! United we can overcome what ever obstacle might still be on our way!!!
Love and Blessing
Edith

7 Signs your Spirit Guides are Present

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Dear Friends,
as the energies are settling in and we slowly get a feeling for the changes the intense September energies have created. The high energies attuned many to higher understanding and clearer direction, for our collective and personal soul path. As it looks like, lot’s of people have been newly connected to the guidance of their Spirit Guides. More and more people write to me with questions, how to identify the presence of a Spirit Guide, Angel or Ascended Master, Ancestor.
So here a short guide of occurrences, you can be sure are the actions of your Divine Helper. Hope you have lot’s of fun identifying situations of connection, and enjoy talking to the loving forces from above!!

1.) You sense changes in the air:
Sometimes while we are engaged in a random everyday life activity, we suddenly feel with inner clarity – I am not alone in the room, even when you physically obviously are alone. This other presence could trigger feelings of anticipation, of excitement without knowing why, or an inner peace you had not felt just a minute ago! You might experience a sudden explosion of faith, safety and clarity that you are loved. Also a lot of people feel a change of temperature. When you are in a closed room, with no window open and no wind blowing and all of the sudden you feel a wall of warm & cozy, or fresh & chill air in the room – that is a Spirit Guide.
Now, if you are new to talking to forces from the other world, know that there is no reason to be afraid!!!! They are not coming to do anything to you, that you don’t want them to do!! You always have the right for free will!! Should it ever happen that you feel uncomfortable with an appearing being, simple shout out “Identify yourself or go”, do that 3 times and it will disappear, if it was an energy field with negative intention.
As for your Guides, treat them like any other friend at your door! Invite them in!! Ask for their name, share your day….na2.) Vivid Dreams
When we get attuned to higher energies, more and more doors in our subconscious open for bigger receptiveness. But as most people in the world today have a very full schedule and engage in far to many daily 3d activities, it sometimes is easier for your guides to make their way into your dreams – than to reach your awareness during the day.
So when our connection increases, often our dreams get far more vivid. You could see colors, where before there was only black and white. The storybook of your dreams may become much more complex. And sometimes you will have the same dream again and again. This is because sometimes our subconscious needs several turns, to be able to tune into the deeper sense of their message. You can compare it to a real good movie that you watch for the 5th time and still see details, you did not notice in the viewings before.

3.) Repeating Lyrics
This is my personal favorite of all the ways I saw guides taking, to reach the human’s ear with their sound of guidance. It is a pleasure I experienced all my lifetime. I am talking about a song…. a random melody,… and its lyrics.. repeatedly being played in every radio you pass by, in the home of a friend – the moment you enter the door, its the background music of a shop – but most importantly – in your head. If this is happening to you, if you sound or sing a song in your head over and over again, maybe even find yourself repeating just one single phrase – pay attention to the lyrics!!!!
If you don’t know them – go on internet and find out. If you don’t like them – embrace them!! This lines have something profound to do with YOUR LIFE!!! They might tell you about a challenge you just overcame. They might tell you about a desire, still waiting in your soul to be released into the open. Or they might whisper to you about a future manifestation, jet to be dreamed about.. so it may come into materialization for you.. What ever it is, this lyrics have something important to tell you about yourself!!!aa4.) Synchronicity
I would probably call this my second favorite, because it involves interaction with others. Synchronicity is a feeling like everything clicking into gear and aligning in a way, you could never have predicted before. The outcome is bringing simplicity and ease into our life. Just yesterday we had the perfect little triangle Synchronicity on facebook. A friend commented on a post, requesting music. While I looked up a link to share, a second friend commented with the same request. I posted the music and the second answered laughing, that she just listened to exactly this piece. At the same moment she posted another link with music and… you can probably guess it by now… the first friend answered with LOL.. I just finished listening to this piece…
Three women.. three songs.. triangle closed.. perfect synchronicity.. 😉

5.) Crown Chakra Activity
Some Spirit Guides chose to get your attention with the creation of several physical sensations. You might experience a tingling on the top of your head, the point where your crown chakra is sitting. An itching of your head or even a strong pressure – only slightly different from a normal headache. But not only our crown is an interesting spot to connect with you, also our pineal gland (the third eye) is of biggest importance.
You see, the crown has the ability to receive downloads of energy frequencies to alter our awareness, but the pineal gland knows everything about dreaming your world into reality, about inspiration, visions, intuitive receptiveness and more. So make sure your body is clear of toxins, choose healthy salt versions and change your water and toothpaste to a FLUORIDE FREE brand!!!13887837926621_f6.) 333, 3333
Especially during this last Month of September, the amount of people who reported their increasing awareness of repeating number sequences, was mind blowing for me! Constantly people started noticing numbers in sets of three or four. All of the sudden it looked like for the whole human collective, everything turned into a number messenger of the divine forces. Every time looking at a clock, every license plate, the address you where send to – to get the job you so desired since a long time, being added to a brand new group on facebook – I was member 777,…..
The simple explanation is, the blueprint of the universe can be decoded by understanding their energy frequency true your sensory self. This is what we have to study. The Number 3 is representing the force of the divine feminine energy and it is the number of the Ascended Masters. If you repeatedly see number sequences of 3s, the Masters are trying to invite you into a more conscious relationship with them.

7.) Meeting a person over and over again
Have you ever experienced that? That you run into the same person in the most random places, in the most weird of places, in a different city, on an airplane?? It can be that you notice again and again the same face of a stranger in the crowd, or that you meet someone you know but never really engaged with. If this is happening you are asked to be brave and walk up to this person and make contact. They just might have the most important message of the day for you!!!

Hope my lines motivate you to be courageous and trust yourself, the next time your guides try to talk to you. There is no difference between this and the other realm, apart from the degree of density in appearance and purity in spirit. And don’t forget – in order to receive proper help from our spirit guides, we need to feel worthy to be guided!!
I wish you a wonderful day, blessed connections and maybe today is the day of your guides big breakthrough!!!
Love and Light
Edith

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Choose Her Everyday – Or Leave Her

x0Dear Friends,
as the last few weeks encouraged us to birth into Spiritual Warriors for love and to clear our core values around everything we truly desire, I thought this piece a nice invitation to both sexes for a personal relationship reality check. It is a beautiful and heart felt confession from a man who failed himself in love and mad his math – how not to repeat the pain. Written in honesty and clarity it deeply reminds us, that both sides are suffering when we can not really choose our partner.
After yesterdays share of A Spiritual Warriors Apology to the Feminine, I feel it a beautiful addition. Hope that all of you – who desire so, find the courage to manifest your most hidden, most loudly screaming, inner picture of new love relationships into this world!
AHO! And Blessings!
Edith
I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her:
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Everyday, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.coupleChoosing her would have meant focusing everyday on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more. Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her. I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.
Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years. She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her everyday, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her everyday for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her. Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.x2If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
“Why am I choosing my partner today?” If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them everyday.Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Everyday.
You do, too……   Choose wisely!!Source: Bryan Reeves

Choose Her Everyday (Or Leave Her)

Dear Friends,
this is a beautiful and heart felt article from a man who failed himself in love and mad his math – how not to repeat the pain. Written in honesty and clarity it gives a clear picture that both sides are suffering, when we can not really choose our partner. As since yesterday the star constellation Venus is retrograde, inviting us to clear our core values around everything we love and deeply desire in our life, I thought it a nice invitation to both sexes for a personal reality check. So close to the lion’s gate the energies are fiery, raw and deep!! 
Hope for all of you – who desire so, to find the courage and manifest your most hidden, most internally screaming, most satisfying picture of new love relationships into this world!
AHO! And Blessings! Edith

I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her.
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Everyday, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.

Choosing her would have meant focusing everyday on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more.

Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her.

Emotional SpiralI was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.

Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years.
She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.
To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her everyday, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her everyday for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her.
Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.
If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
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“Why am I choosing my partner today?”
If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”
If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them everyday.
Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Everyday.
You do, too.

Choose wisely.

Source: https://bryanreeves.com/choose-her-everyday-or-leave-her/

Mohammad’s awakening Part II

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Dear Friends,
this is a second part to yesterdays article… the journey thru the manifold continues and human consciousness manifests into materia: 
The first Part you find here: https://edithboyertelmer.wordpress.com/2015/06/27/mohammads-awakening-an-inspiration-for-all-truth-seeker/
Love and Blessings
Edith

The manifold itself is not the end, nor the significant reality of all existence, beyond this and yet still further beyond, Allah (spirit world, spirit, higher self) is without limits and this is why we can not comprehend Allah’s being, Allah’s imagination, Allah’s manifestation, Allah’s absolute reality. People puzzle over the question, if Allah created all reality, what created Allah, but we do not possess the frame of reference to comprehend the answer to this question.
We exist within an ocean of energy, like a fish in the deep ocean, we cannot grasp the further realities awaiting us, just as the fish that exists in total darkness, in freezing temperatures, and at enormous pressure, cannot grasp the reality of a man walking in a sunny wood, a reality completely alien to its frame of reference.
At the fringes, entering the manifold the ordinary world is revealed as a slowly but constantly convecting fluid, ordinary matter in its true state, continually reinventing itself, crystallizing from the inside out in all directions at once and melting away at the surface. It’s in constant flux, pushing against space-time and continually interacting with waves and particles of energy.
Since this physical world is a world of experience, it belongs more to experience than to being. The being, or ontological nature, of this world is quite different from what we perceive and experience as reality. The experience that engulfs a persons entire being as they slip beneath the surface feels like the penetration of a membrane, a significant occurrence. The mind and the self literally unfold before one’s eyes. There is a sense that one is made new, yet unchanged.
hqdefaultThis world is teeming with life, it exists in every nook and cranny, in every environmental condition, and I suspect this state is not in isolation. This physical universe I am confident is likewise teeming with life, in every possible location conducive to life. This teeming life filled universe emanates from the manifold, animate or inanimate, searing or frozen, blinding or black, all that exists within the physical universe is sustained and manifest through the conscious energy within the manifold.
The human consciousness enters the manifold at its surface, it depths are unlimited; at the surface, like the surface of a mirror, it reflects back your consciousness, the thought becomes reality, the reality becomes the thought, in this multi-sensory coordination of perception.
The manifold generating this reality is complimentary, and more active in our perceived physical reality than that perception, being the sustaining reality, which is consciousness, a pure conscious life energy, the conscious energy of creation in its extraordinarily intensely concentrated medium, it manifests to our consciousness only as the gift of a new language, the conscious energy sings in pearly voices that rain down as coloured petals and flow through the air like hot metal to become toys of such wonder and imagination they defy description. The sense of emotional connection is terrifying and intense, the contact is unquestionably with something very interactive, attentive, hyper intelligent and ostensibly alien to one’s whole existence.
DownloadThis visible language, the music of Allah expressed in all five senses and all other unknown senses simultaneously, sings knowledge, sings imagination, sings emotions, sings creation, sings vision, sings sensation, sings endless possibilities; the ascension of Mohammad was the deepest communication and communion a human being has ever experienced within this medium of consciousness, the information articulated within this divine language took Mohammad to a level of consciousness we can not comprehend. A multi dimensional expression of communication, articulation of an order beyond the limits of this physical universe.
This language of reality is not a realm of little creatures as people describe superficially, but the ocean of consciousness, expression and imagination the manifold holds. The people who delve into this manifold using external drugs are in the main thrill seekers, they describe amazing events, but when viewed clearly they describe a deeper, richer and spectacular form of communication.
So every time you enter REM sleep, if your pineal gland is functioning correctly, Allah takes you into the manifold, and communicates with your emotional consciousness, such a gift should be treasured; for a lucky few, such as Muhammad, they can achieve this communion in a waking state, so with their conscious mind can not only communicate but explore this magnificent reality.
When people using DMT have experienced this underlying reality they return with a certainty that their consciousness continues after death, they harbour the idea of an existence beyond the physical body, as they realise, at a superficial level, they themselves are woven into the fabric of the manifold. They have a sense of enchantment, of sanctity, of profound beauty, they feel a sense of privilege to access the knowledge, and they feel that their intelligence and connection is increased.
The Mysteries revealed are real and if this deeper reality is ever fully, commonly understood, will strip away much of the confusion, and ignorance surrounding the purpose, and personal obligations of each person upon themselves, so transforming all this world, a world of enslavement, a prison planet for ourselves and our collaborators. A misery, if unchecked, that will lead the traveller ever deeper into despair, until the realisation that you have imprisoned yourself within yourself, from this life into the next.

Foot Note:

Now a strange conspiracy of corruption, intentional immorality through knowledge or ignorance I can not judge, has disconnected people from this natural physical process, the human pineal gland has been destroyed within the majority of people, through the deception of sodium fluoride, a poison they intentionally peddle and market through dentistry.
The toxicity of fluoride is no secret in scientific circles. According to the Clinical Toxicology of Commercial Products, fluoride is more toxic than lead and just slightly less toxic than arsenic which is one of the most toxic substances known.
fluoride-docile_dFluoride has long enjoyed a sterling public image as a “proven cavity fighter,” bone builder and essential nutrient. The fact of the matter is that it is none of these things, but rather one of the most toxic elements on earth, capable of causing the very problems it is touted to solve, in addition it causes depression, and accelerates the onset of puberty in children, but its most insidious effect is it accumulates in the pineal gland, causing calcification; it disconnects you from your source, without your pineal gland to release your emotional force it weakens your energies. The hardening of the pineal gland is likely to be responsible for much of the now common restriction in our conscious awareness as humans.
People must refuse to use sodium fluoride, giving your body time to repair itself, change to toothpaste free of sodium fluoride and sodium laurel sulphate, products like mouth wash, dental floss, also contain fluoride, if they pollute your drinking water with fluoride, you must filter your drinking water, or use bottled water.
Gotu Kola nourishes the gland, Alfalfa sprouts and Parsley energise the gland, Wheat germ, olive oil, melons and pineapple juice also energise the gland, Lecithin and L-Arginine help to rebuild your gland.
Violet is the primary colour and is the highest vibration which effects the pineal gland. The bare eye (without glasses of any kind) should be exposed to indirect sunlight on a regular basis. Light reflected by the retina stimulates the pineal gland.
CAUTION: Looking directly into the Sun can damage the retina, so do not look into the Sun.
Source: http://servantofthelight.com/content/view/47/76/