Is What We Perceive As Beautiful An Individual Decision Of The Mind?

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
I am sure you all have heard before the expression “beauty lies in the eye of the beholder”. It is an often used quote when people are talking about falling in love with somebody, who for others is hard to imagine as a match. In this particular context it refers to the fact that relationship love is an irrational thing and that falling for somebody is rather a colorful mix of reasons, than what can be seen on the surface alone.
In most mythologies on this planet, we find the representative of love, beauty, music, joy and color to be the same figure, for example in Egyptian tradition the goddess Hathor. This is helpful for us to know when we desire to develop a deeper understanding of the divine feminine energy, or a profounder connection to the vibrations that inspire our creativity.

But that is not all that a study of beauty can do. It can serve for each of us, as well as for the collective awakening process into the Golden Age of Aquarius, as there is also a spiritual aspect to beauty. Imagine you are training your mind to evaluate all experiences you make from the same space of recognizing its beauty. Imagine whatever weather the day brings, you decide that it is beautiful. In order to do so we need to be capable of detecting the seductive side of beauty, and separating it from the nurturing side, which for some of us is a long term project on our personal path of growth :-).

Prayer to Hathor as Goddess of Love:
Let me worship the Golden One to honor her Majesty,
and exalt the Lady of Heaven;
Let me give adoration to Hathor
and songs of joy to my heavenly Mistress!

I beg her to hear my petitions
that she send me my mistress now!
And she came herself to see me!
What a great thing that was when it happened!

I rejoiced, I was glad, I was exalted,
from the moment they said, “Oh, look at her!
See, here she comes!” – and the young men bowing
trough their enormous passion for her.

Let me consecrate breath to my Goddess
that she give me my Love as a gift!
It is four days now I have prayed in her name;
let her be with me today!
John L.Foster
It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness.
Leo Tolstoy

That’s always seemed so ridiculous to me, that people want to be around someone because they’re pretty. It’s like picking your breakfast cereals based on color instead of taste.
John Green

The human soul is hungry for beauty; we seek it everywhere – in landscape, music, art, clothes, furniture, gardening, companionship, love, religion and in ourselves. No-one would desire not to be beautiful. When we experience the Beautiful, there is a sense of homecoming. Some of our most wonderful memories are of beautiful places where we felt immediately at home. We feel most alive in the presence of the Beautiful for it meets the needs of our soul.
John O’Donohue

When we contemplate the whole globe as one great dewdrop, striped and dotted with continents and islands, flying through space with other stars all singing and shining together as one, the whole universe appears as an infinite storm of beauty.
John Muir

Don’t get me wrong, I admire elegance and have an appreciation of the finer things in life. But to me, beauty lies in simplicity.
Mark Hyman

There is a beauty and clarity that comes from simplicity that we sometimes do not appreciate in our thirst for intricate solutions.
Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Our task must be to free ourselves by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature and its beauty.
Albert Einstein

My belief is that we were put into this world of wonders and beauty with a special ability to appreciate them, in some cases to have the fun of taking a hand in developing them, and also in being able to help other people instead of overreaching them and, through it all, to enjoy life – that is, to be happy.
Robert Baden-PowellDear Ones, I hope you are feeling inspired by this little collection of information, and that you can see the amazing beauty you can add to the creation of the Golden Age of Aquarius on planet earth right now. Allow me to close this piece with an advice by Marcus Aurelius “Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.”.
Love and Blessings!
Edith

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Bringing The Spiritual Powers Of The Virgo New Moon Into Grounding

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
in my last three posts I spoke about the influence this years Virgo New Moon, which was peaking on September 19th/20th, had on us and how the angelic realms are helping us understand the path we are riding right now. The intensive earthy energies the Moon was caring, were designed to help us reconnect with all the powers and blessings of mother earth. The strong water influence was there to help us shift and get into a better flow with life. The challenge is that a lot of water can also make the ground unstable and our energy field a bit flaky. So if you want to consciously ground the field received, or if it should happen that you get a little lost in the crowd, there are steps you can do to help yourself!

Here are some simple techniques helpful to get your spiritual energy into manifestation in your body. Practicing them regularly helps in case you feel like you got lost in the energies of the collective:
1.) Our breath allows us the feeling of being “The One”, within the “Oneness”.  As the veil between us all is crumbling more and more, and we are extending into recognizing ourselves again, it’s our breath that always can carry  us home. So put your hands on your body. You can embrace yourself or you put one hand on the belly and one on the chest. Give your arms some pressure, so you can really feel your physical body with every breath you take. Breath with an open mouth – deep into the belly, make sure you feel your feet on the ground, increase the pressure on your body if needed and repeat in you mind: With every breath I take, I am bringing my full awareness into my physical body

2.) A super effective, practical and always available tool to gain control over your energy body and bring in awareness for your self, is “humming”. Take some deep breath and start humming one note over and over again. Try not to make it a melody, just a note. It is not for the others, only for your recognition of your body – as sound. Try not to think about what the people might think of you! There is nothing embarrassing about it! It is easily done and  nobody will care. You can be as gentle and calm with this as you want, indeed the more internal the humming, the more intense the energy will flow. In case your are at a business meeting or in a too public space, try and make it to the next toilet!! Lock yourself in a cubicle and hum! Be patient and kind! Take your time and give yourself the luxury of listening to your inner music :-).

3.) If your are in a friendly surrounding and you feel free to seek the help of others, ask somebody for a hug! Be very clear in communicating your current need. Explain that you need to be held very tide and that you need to breath in their arms, until you feel your senses all coming back into your body. Make sure you are well understood and that there is no further desire or sexual tension involved (if there is any second agenda in the mind of your helper – this energy can have an even more irritating effect on you, in a moment of vulnerability and need. Make sure you choose wisely!!).4.) In case you get lost in the middle of an outdoor concert, a big festival or anywhere else in nature, look around and scan your surrounding for hand size stones or bigger rocks. Rocks are a very tense manifestations of mother earth, which gives them the power to ground us. Pick up some heavy stones and hold them. Make sure your feet are both on the ground and your legs are strait. Breath deeply and concentrate on the weight in your hands. After some minutes you will feel the smoothing, grounding and centering effect they have.
You can also sit down, take two rocks of the size of your feet and step on them. At the same time put a big rock in your lap and allow yourself to feel its weight. Now concentrate on the rocks under your feet, start moving your feet a very little bit and feel the different parts on the surface of the rock. This brings your awareness to the ground and therefor your energy into the earth. The weight in your lap will work with you on this!

5.) All of the above mentioned techniques are much more effective, if you take your shoes of. The rougher the underground, the better! If you have the choice between soft grass and little, spiky rocks – choose the rocks! The very minimal pain will remind your brain that you are a physical being, and set your energy in motion to call all your senses back into body awareness. To make the impact more powerful, remind yourself that it is you challenging yourself! The feeling of “loosing yourself” often triggers the idea of being a victim in the situation. By reminding yourself of your co-creator role, you immediately delete the energetic impact of your thoughts, feelings and expressions of victim-hood,  from your karmic records!!

This is the very powerful “Invocation of the elements”, belonging to the Ascended Master Lemuel and his team of earth spirits. Read more about his divine powers in this post called “Introducing the Energy of Master Lemuel“.
Beloved beings in heaven, holy messengers of the divine realms,
send me the rays of truth and the divine protection on my way.

My beloved beings of the earth, you loving guardians of the world,
preserver of the sacred areas and the unspeakable treasures,
send me the refinement of my energies on the way.

Beloved beings of the waters, you powers of all water bodies,
bring me the chalice of flowing love and deep inner calm.

You mighty beings of the air, you riders of the four winds,
send me the sword of clear discrimination.
You loving beings of the fire, you powers of the sacred life energies,
send me the courage and the power,
to manifest the light of eternal life in this world.

You mighty forces of nature, you builder of all matter,
you sacred geometries of the elements,
please work with me.Dear Ones, I hope this insides for grounding and the energy field of the Ascended Master Lemuel will support you in your attempt to create a deeper connection with the elemental forces within you, and  in the outside world. We need to be one with the earth as much as with the spiritual realms, in order to manifest the Golden Age of Aquarius on planet earth. Lets touch ground and collectively make a big leap right now!
Love and Earthly Beauty!!

Edith

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Trees, Poems And The Collective Human Awakening Process

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
over the last one and a half years I shared with you several articles about the relationship between humanity and the nature that seams to surrounds us – in particularly trees, as well as pieces about the role that trees are playing in rising the vibration for the collective awakening process into the Golden Age of Aquarius.
Many different ways how to connect with the healing energies of trees, and much information on the union of humanity with nature, have been collected in the articles Our Psychic Abilities Have Increased – Creating A Healing Friendship With Trees“, “When Nature Heals – Trees That Transform Us In Exchange For A Hug” and
How Trees Communicate With Each Other And Help Humanity Grow“.

In March this year, the question came up “What Is An Artists Role In Collectively Troubled Times“, which also lead to a “second part of What Is An Artists Role In Collectively Troubled Times“, in which the understanding was shared, that partly it is an artists role to feel the pain and the discomfort in our transitions, that the collective human race usually does not allow themselves to feel on a daily basis; and to put this feelings into a language of art that moves other human beings.
So lets take all of this layers of understanding about the artist’s soul and sensing our relationship with the nature kingdom to another level. This are two beautiful poems talking to us about the sacredness of life and about safety for the divine child in this world, examples of how relaxed, creative and at ease also we humans are invited to exist in this world.

A tree says by Hermann Hesse
A tree says:
A kernel is hidden in me, a spark, a thought, I am life from eternal life.
The attempt and the risk that the eternal mother took with me is unique,
unique the form and veins of my skin,
unique the smallest play of leaves in my branches and the smallest scar on my bark.
I was made to form and reveal the eternal in my smallest special detail.

A tree says:
My strength is trust.
I know nothing about my fathers, I know nothing about the thousand children that every year spring out of me.
I live out the secret of my seed to the very end, and I care for nothing else.
I trust that God is in me. I trust that my labor is holy.
Out of this trust I live.

When we are stricken and cannot bear our lives any longer, then a tree has something to say to us:
Be still! Be still! Look at me! Life is not easy, life is not difficult.
Those are childish thoughts.
Let God speak within you, and your thoughts will grow silent.

You are anxious because your path leads away from mother and home.
But every step and every day lead you back again to the mother.
Home is neither here nor there.
Home is within you,
or home is nowhere at all.
Trees Need Not Walk the Earth by David Rosenthal
Trees need not walk the earth
For beauty or for bread;
Beauty will come to them
Where they stand.

Here among the children of the sap
Is no pride of ancestry:
A birch may wear no less the morning
Than an oak.

Here are no heirlooms
Save those of loveliness,
In which each tree
Is kingly in its heritage of grace.

Here is but beauty’s wisdom
In which all trees are wise.

Trees need not walk the earth
For beauty or for bread;
Beauty will come to them

In the rainbow—
The sunlight—
And the lilac-haunted rain;

And bread will come to them
As beauty came:

In the rainbow—
In the sunlight—
In the rain.Dear Ones, I hope you deeply enjoyed the gentle wisdom of this beautiful poems, and the profound teachings shared in the poets words. I hope you feel safe like a tree in this world and know, that you are worthy to let all the beauty of life come to you at the right time and in the right place. May the leaves in the wind whisper to you of the Golden Age of Aquarius and your place in this world in the future.
Love and Blessings!
Edith

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Introducing The Energy Of Master Lemuel For Grounding and Root Connections

by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
in my last post called “Helping Ourselves To More “I AM Light” With Ascended Master Support”, I spoke about the massive planetary energy downloads that have been transmitted to us since the Planetary New Year in July, and that slowly faded out with the closing of the Lion’s Gate on August 12th 2017. The Leo’s characteristic vibrations, that we collectively could feel moving our world over this last few month; are also not over yet, as we are again experiencing another Leo New Moon by the end of this month.
For now it is mainly important for us to focus on grounding the insides we received over all this time, and to prepare ourselves in growing clear and strong roots that can bring the collective dream of the Golden Age of Aquarius into the world.

This prayer is particularly effective when you combine it with a stroll in nature, and when you concentrate on the sensations of the elements within you, that comes with repeating the lines while consciously breathing fresh air and earthly smells.

Claiming the strength of the Ascended Master Lemuel
I recognize myself today as the power of heaven
I recognize myself today as the light of the sun
I recognize myself today in the white snow
I recognize myself today as the force of fire
I recognize myself today in the light of the lightning
I find myself today in the speed of the wind
I feel myself today in the depths of the sea
I awaken today in the safety of the earth

When ever you use this prayer your energetic body will automatically create a closer relationship with the elemental forces, make it your regular practice and over time you will also feel a stronger clarity about the flow of the elements in your own physical body and emotions.

Invocation of the elements:
Beloved beings in heaven, holy messengers of the divine realms,
send me the rays of truth and the divine protection on my way.

My beloved beings of the earth, you loving guardians of the world,
preserver of the sacred areas and the unspeakable treasures,
send me the refinement of my energies on the way.fireBeloved beings of the waters, you powers of all water bodies,
bring me the chalice of flowing love and deep inner calm.

You mighty beings of the air, you riders of the four winds,
send me the sword of clear discrimination.
You loving beings of the fire, you powers of the sacred life energies,
send me the courage and the power,
to manifest the light of eternal life in this world.

You mighty forces of nature, you builder of all matter,
sacred geometries of the elements,
please work with me.

If you are already working with the source of the violet flame, keep combining the awareness you carry about the Ascended Master Lemuel and the transforming strength of the violet fire, while repeating this:

Violet Flame Prayer for the Earth
I AM a being of violet fire
I AM the purity God desires.
Earth is a planet of violet fire
Earth is the purity God desires.

If you feel like your time has come to use the high powered energies you have developed from inside, for the good of all beings on this planet, and you feel ready to be of service to the blueprint for the Golden Age of Aquarius, you can do so with this:

Apache Blessing
May the sun bring you new energy by day,
may the moon softly restore you by night,
may the rain wash away your worries,
may the breeze blow new strength into your being,
may you walk gently through the world and
know it’s beauty all the days of your life.Dear Ones, I hope this insides and prayers about the energy field Master Lemuel is providing to connect us with the elemental forces within us, will lead you to deeper clarity and a reinforcement for your work with the elements. May your pure passion lead you to manifest all that your soul desires for the Golden Age of Aquarius.
Love and Powerful New Roots!!
Edith

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Burning For Life With Conscious Breathing And The Violet Flame

bby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
the last four month, since this incredible year 2017 has began, we have truly been challenged on daily basis, to bring our highest aspirations and most divine visions on the ground – thru our constant aware actions. The Moon Energies have triggered us into the powerless state of victim-hood, and so gave us the incredible chance to leave the past behind and move into self-leadership.
For those who had been preparing well for this shift, it was a relatively soft transition – walking thru this portal to higher frequency levels; and for all of you who have been surprised by the power to transform and manifest anew – that the last month have demonstrated to us – here are some prayers and a breathing technique to get yourself ready for the next big leap!!

When we practicing conscious breathing it helps improve our well being on a physical level that is the most basic thing it can do for us. The releases noticed include pain and symptom from high blood pressure, migraines, headaches, anxiety, stress, chronic pain, depression, asthma, insomnia, nervousness, self-doubt, concentration loss, muscular tension, bad sleep, and its a boost for the immune system. But that is by far not all we can gain from a regular practice. On a spiritual level we can boost our evolution, by connecting the dots in our mind – when we are in a mindful breathing exercise. Our energy body is extending in size and intensifying in radiation of light.
Also becoming aware of the way we are breathing helps us reconnect to our inner place of peace, even in the most challenging situations of everyday life!! Imagine – such a simple, build in tool, and such a divine abundance of use for the collective awakening process of humanity! To make the impact of this tool even stronger, we can also call on the Ascended Master Saint Germain and the violet flame of transformation! And try deep breathing the next time you find yourself reaching for a pain reliever, you are feeling stressed out, are depressed, have problems with your sleep or need a momentary extra boost of physical power!

Without full awareness of breathing, there can be no development of meditative stability and understanding.
Thich Nhat Hanh

Only those who know how to breathe will survive.
Pundit Acharya

Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.
Thich Nhat HanhaIn general there is not “one correct way” of breathing. There are particular breathing techniques for yoga, for power walking, for swimming, a proper breathing for martial arts, a technique for tai-chi, playing the trumpet requires different breathing than singing does, and so on. I am sure, you get the point! Anyway, here is a techniques you can give a try – in case you don’t have a favorite version jet!

How to practice in a private environment:
a) Sit cross-legged in a dark, quiet room.
b) Close your eyes.
c) Using your thumb, cover up your right nostril, and breathe deeply through your left nostril for a count of 6.
d) Pause for a count of 2.
e) Remove your thumb, and cover your left nostril with your forefinger, and exhale completely through your right nostril for a count of 6.
f) Repeat 10 to 15 times.

As soon as you are familiar with the breathing technique as mentioned above, or any other breathing system that allows you to feel the observer that you are – in the presence of your own spirit – you can also add the prayers below while practicing.
If you simply wanna use them as Mantra, you can make it as easy as repeating the prayers below daily, for a 21 day period at least (make it 3, 7 or 9 or 13 repetitions)!!

Master Saint Germain
In the name of the mighty victorious Presence of God, the
I AM,
Christ Consciousness within me,
I call to the beloved Master Saint Germain
and the transforming powers of the violet fire

Violet Flame Prayer
I AM a being of violet fire
I AM the purity God desires.

Violet Flame Prayer for the Earth
I AM a being of violet fire
I AM the purity God desires.
Earth is a planet of violet fire
Earth is the purity God desires.violet-flameDear Ones, I hope very much that this information and prayers can help you on your personal path to awakening the divine forces within you. We all are born human here on earth, we all have our luggage and our themes to transform. Being an endless soul means, the shifting and changing into higher vibrations never ends, so lets get used to effectively use our power tools for the Golden Age of Aquarius on daily level.
Love and Blessings!
Edith

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The Pisces New Moon Field Triggers Our Victim-hood Pattern And Self-Leadership

1by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
just the other day I shared with you an article about the energy field that yesterdays Pisces New Moon and Solar Eclipse have created for the collective awakening process of humanity. I mentioned already there one time, that the impact we are facing right now is a very strong one, and that it can lead to quite fiery explosions. One of the feelings that might be experienced in all intensity these days, is the powerless state of victim-hood. If we have a single notion of a victim mindset or mentality left inside of us, than we will feel it over the coming days. That might not be a very comfortable situation to go thru, but it is an incredible chance to move into self-leadership. Below I have collected some quotes for you that can give an impression, how such a shift in consciousness could possibly look like.

“A victim evokes sympathy, right? Victims are not responsible, right? Victims have the moral high ground… someone else is causing the misery, right? Victims can easily justify why they are right. Victims allow themselves to be stuck in the status quo and they excel at seeing the faults in others, ignoring their own responsibility. They love to take others’ inventory of faults and are excellent at blaming. Victims become hypersensitive to real and perceived injustice, where any slight becomes a reason to reject. Victimization is the toxic wind blowing through families, fanning the fires of dysfunction.”
David W. Earle

“It takes a great level of intelligence to maintain a thinking process as stupid as victim mentality. Because it is such a great undertaking, we take pride in it. It highlights our intellect. Too bad it also highlights our lack of wisdom. For all our twisting, wringing, stretching, and stuffing, we only contort ourselves.”
David G. Allen

“The difference between a professional victim and an empowered person is NOT what has happened to them, but the way in which they REACT to what has happened to them.”
Miya Yamanouchico“Today is a new day. Don’t let your history interfere with your destiny! Let today be the day you stop being a victim of your circumstances and start taking action towards the life you want. You have the power and the time to shape your life. Break free from the poisonous victim mentality and embrace the truth of your greatness. You were not meant for a mundane or mediocre life!”
Steve Maraboli

“When you choose to act on your problems, you cease to be a victim of circumstance and become a force of change; that’s when you transition to not only being a survivor, but to being a leader or hero too, and an inspiration to those still in the victim’s mindset.”
Innocent Mwatsikesimbe

Enlightened leadership is spiritual if we understand spirituality not as some kind of religious dogma or ideology but as the domain of awareness where we experience values like truth, goodness, beauty, love and compassion, and also intuition, creativity, insight and focused attention.
Deepak Chopra

A leader is best
When people barely know he exists,
Not so good when people obey and acclaim him.
Worse when they despise him.
But of a good leader, who talks little,
When his work is done, his aim fulfilled,
They will say:
We did it ourselves.
Lao-tzu

Self-leaders are still true leaders even if they have no known followers. True leaders inspire by the influence of their characters and general self-made brands. Leadership is defined by the virtues of one’s behavior.
Israelmore AyivorDear Ones, I hope this information and quotes can help you in your goal of digging deep for your creation of the Golden Age of Aquarius. This Pisces New Moon and the Solar Eclipse are truly powerful in their ways of showing us all the little moments of victim-hood we are still caring within. Time to release and make bold decisions of self-empowering nature, for wonderful new beginnings in this upcoming Moon cycle.
Love and Blessings!

Edith

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Helping Our Porn Influenced Youth To Develop Healthy Sexual Relationships

3by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
last November I shared a wonderful article from the hand of Bryan Reeves about Why men must give up porn, in order to find excess to meaningful sexuality again. I also posted the reflection of a close friend, how he is no longer procrasturbating his life away, but is looking for new ways how to deal with his life force and feelings. Many people involved themselves in the discussion the impressively honest report by Emma Lindsay, about What a bi-sexual woman learned from dating women who have been raped, brought up.
In her piece the author shares with us, that for women in our society it has become a state of daily normality” to be harassed, depressed or insulted on a sexual level. Now I ran into a study from Australia, unveiling how deeply effected our youth feels by the porn-culture they are growing up in. So lets take a look at what we are truly dealing with, and what we can do to support our children in their attempt to develop healthy and loving sexual relationships for their future.

This is a part of the Article “Growing up in Pornland” by
“[I want] better education regarding sex for both boys and girls [and] information about pornography, and the way it influences harmful sexual practices.”
These are the words of Lucy, aged 15, one of 600 young Australian women and girls who took part in a just-released survey commissioned by Plan Australia and Our Watch. The survey, conducted by Ipsos, gathered responses from the girls and young women aged 15-19 in all states and territories.Sexual bullying and harassment are part of daily life for many girls. Young people are speaking out more and more about how these practices have links with pornography – and so they should, because they have most to lose. Pornography is molding and conditioning the sexual behaviors and attitudes of boys, and girls are being left without the resources to deal with these porn-saturated boys.

If there are still any questions about whether porn has an impact on young people’s sexual attitudes and behaviors, perhaps it’s time to listen to young people themselves. Girls and young women describe boys pressuring them to provide acts inspired by the porn they consume routinely. Girls tell of being expected to put up with things they don’t enjoy.3Some see sex only in terms of performance, where what counts most is the boy enjoying it. I asked a 15-year-old about her first sexual experience. She replied: “I think my body looked OK. He seemed to enjoy it”. Many girls seem cut off from their own sense of pleasure or intimacy. That he enjoyed it is the main thing. Girls and young women are under a lot of pressure to give boys and men what they want, to adopt pornified roles and behaviors, with their bodies being merely sex aids. Growing up in a pornified landscape, girls learn that they are service stations for male gratification and pleasure.

I meet girls who describe being groped in the school yard, girls routinely sexually harassed at school or on the school bus on the way home. They tell me boys act like they are entitled to girls’ bodies. Defenders of porn often say that it provides sex education. And it does: it teaches even very young boys that women and girls are always up for it. “No” in fact means yes, or persuade me.

The proliferation and globalization of hypersexualised imagery and pornographic themes makes healthy sexual exploration almost impossible. Sexual conquest and domination are untempered by the bounds of respect, intimacy and authentic human connection. Young people are not learning about intimacy, friendship and love, but about cruelty and humiliation.

It is intimacy and tenderness that so many girls and young women say they are looking for. A young woman told me that on dating sites she lists under “fetish” wanting to stare longingly into someone’s eyes and to take sex slow. She said if she didn’t put these desires in the “fetish” category, they wouldn’t warrant a second glance.

It is wrong to leave sexual formation in the hands of the global sex industry. We need to do more to help young people stand up against warped notions of sexuality conveyed in pornography.

So what can we do to help our youth find their own way in the intensive stretch between their human needs for intimacy, authenticity, gentleness and kindness; and the projected reality they are daily confronted with on internet, the media, nearly every commercial they see and maybe also their homes. And there is where we can begin. Invite your children to speak openly about their sexuality. Encourage your children to ask questions, and make sure to answer them honestly!! Lead your daughters to have strong relationships with other women. A lot of the pressure young women feel, to perform and outshine, comes from a feeling of competition that can be avoided by a positive bond and healthy association with the own sex.
The website womenyoushouldknow.net recently shared a post, showing a recommendation from the graphic designer Katherine Young on how magazines for our girls should look like, in order to support their over all growth into strong and authentically expressing women. And there is since this month a new way possible to look at female sexuality, by the introduction of a 3D printed clitoris into the classrooms of French schools. If that model spreads, female sexual education will naturally change.
Dear Ones let me know what your thoughts are on this topic! Personally I think it needs a tribe to grow a healthy human being, so lets come together in joint forces, so our children don’t have to feel left alone with this fundamental part of their human education.
weneedtodobetter-768x498This is from the article “This is a 3D model of a clitoris – and the start of a sexual revolution“, by Minna Salami:
This month, pupils across France will be able to use the first full-size 3D printed anatomical model of a clitoris in their sex education classes. The truth is, you might struggle to gain pleasure from a tool you don’t even know you have. In 2016, women finally know without speculation what the whole of their sexual organ looks like; and for many it won’t be quite what they imagined.
You may be wondering, what’s the big deal? Is the clitoris not the “small, sensitive, erectile part of the female genitals at the anterior end of the vulva”, as Oxford Dictionaries defines it? And isn’t the real issue simply whether it brings a woman sexual gratification? Well, decide for yourself.
The popular opinion seems to be that the 3D printed clitoris resembles a wishbone. To my eyes, it also (fittingly) resembles a fleur-de-lys, or, to use a more contemporary example, a tulip emoji.

But the important thing is that it debunks myths that have repressed female sexuality for centuries. For one, it refutes the dictionary/textbook education that wrongly asserts the clitoris is the size of “a fingertip”, a “pea” or that it is small. We can now clearly see that the clitoris includes two shafts (crura) which are actually about 10cm long. Not only can we visualize that the clitoris is more than what the eye perceives; with the visual model we can also now get a mental image of how it encircles the vagina, making penetrative sex potentially orgasmic.

Moreover, with the 3D model, the uninformed ways that women’s bodies are represented, whether through sex education, pop culture or pornography, now just seem silly. Imagine a world where it is common knowledge what a woman’s primary anatomically sexual organ looks like. Imagine how sexually empowered women who can visualise their clits will be. Imagine too how confident men can be when freed from the epidemic deception that satisfying a woman is like winning in the lottery. And lastly, imagine being able to respond to inquisitive children who want to know why Jane’s and John’s genitals are different, with a logical and factual answer – that a clitoris is like an internal penis and a penis like an external clitoris.8Sources: theguardian, collectiveshout, womenyoushouldknow

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Knowing When To Walk Away And When To Stay In Relationships

4by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
two days ago I shared on facebook the picture you see below, with the theme of walking away from things that threaten our peace or self-respect. The post had an extra ordinary high respond, and not only on likes and shares, but also on how many people felt triggered to respond and share their difficulties and experiences with “walking away”.
Some of you might remember that the energies of the Gemini New Moon on June 4th and 5th have triggered the release of inner oppositions within our emotional bodies, which are the source of suffering and irritation in our relationships. Many had to go thru challenging situations, in order to see where their reality does no longer match, the things they truly desire by heart and soul. So how do we know when it is time to go, and when it is better to stay?

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The first thing to make sure of is, that you truly are in a space of self-worth, self-respect and inner peace, when making the decision to cut the cores with a person in your life. If you are in a place of anger or rejection of the person or their actions, it only delays the healing of your own life!! To be successful as collective in an awakening process into the Golden Age of Aquarius, we have to end all pattern of abuse in our life, and this is where we need to be wise and see the truth as it is.
When we are able to talk to the other being involved, and we see that there is a responds in awareness, which leads to transformed actions, than there is no reason to walk out on them. More tricky it gets when we express our feelings, our needs and desire authentically, and the other one refuses to acknogladge them. Than we need dividing wisdom and a clear mind.

Because when we can see people, their actions and also the situations we create with them – with wide open eyes, do the work of transforming our own emotions that we dedect and than still see and feel the need to walk away – than that’s what we should do. And don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that being aware of the breaking point of old pattern automatically makes it easy to actually make the step, but it still is what we have to do if we desire to grow. That can create fears, insecurity, doubts and bring up feelings of rejection and isolation from childhood or past life impacts, so we are well of to have some handy tools to navigate the emotional waves.1 (2)One of the most powerful sources of comfort and inner strength that we can work with, when we feel the fear of loss creeping up our spine and just want to turn around running back to the status quo, is the Ascended Master Arya Tara. She is one aspect of the big Tara, a Buddhistic Bodhisattva, an Enlightened One, who serves humanity with the quality of our inner sanctuary. The inner temple every being caries in their higher heart, the place where world peace, oneness and authentic bliss emerge from.

The main Mantra for all Tara Figures is this Tara Mantra in Sanskrit:
oṃ tāre tuttāre ture svāhā – which is pronounced as..
oṃ tāre tu tāre ture soha

More directed is the Atisha prayer to Arya Tara
om, jikpa gye kyobma la chaktsal lo
Om, a tribute to her, who protects us against the eight fears

tashi palbarma la chaktsal lo
A tribute to the lady who shines with the splendor of auspiciousness

ngensong go gekma la chaktsal lo
A tribute to the one that closes the door to the lower vibrations

tori lam drenma la chaktsal lo
A tribute to the one that guides us on the way to the higher realms

taktu khye kyi dongdrok dze
You who has always watched me and has taken care of me,

dadung tukje kyab tu sol
I ask you to protect me now with your great compassion.

My other recommondation is as so often before, to work with the tranforming powers of the violet flame. Keep training your inner alchemist, and spend as much time as it takes with this inner flames, that burn for your own authentic life!!02Dear Ones, I hope sharing my experience and tools with you will be helpful for your inner process of finding the right path, decision by decision !! More than ever it is important for us to stand in clarity to our self-worth and the vibrations we have acchieved, so we can be of help for the whole of humanity and life on planet earth. Stay in touch with the earth, keep breathing deeply, make sure you feel it all – and than make a wise and authentic call!!
Blessings and Dividing Wisdom!

Edith

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The Spiritual Impact Of The Aries New Moon / Super Moon

ariesby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
this upcoming Aries New Moon has amazing Super Moon powers and brings the promises of new beginnings and another collective rebirthing into higher vibrations for us. Only a month ago, when the energy field of Mother Mary intensively pushed our collective experience, we where given the chance to renew our emotions, our mind-set, believe systems and energetic field. This allowed for all who where ready to make this leap, the chance to be reborn into deeper levels of sensory abilities too. In the last weeks also many people worldwide opened their third eye, in a big collective pineal gland awakening, and are now capable of seeing the world much more realistic than before. Our ability to live in the emotional awareness of oneness with all that is has grown, and opened us for alternative ways of experiencing and creating new relationships.
In the turbulence of the world today, we can see already how far the crumbling of the old paradigm has made its way into the roots of our collective awakening process. More people than ever before on the planet are questioning their government, the intentions of the media, the role of organized religion, the truthfulness of our politicians and other figures and positions of power. As one of the results of the divine masculine healing that we have experienced recently, the paradigm of leadership is now also changing, which makes people align more with authentic sharing and leading by example, than the ideas of power and dominance as role-models.

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The beginnings of the Astrological cycle, with the star sign Aries is also he completion of cycles, marks an increase on spirituality guidance, the emerging of personal talents and abilities, brings more creative expressions for personal integrity and authenticity, and for many even the ability of the second face (to see behind the presented front of things, people, situations). Amazing gifts for us to use in the creation of our personal little part of the Golden Age of Aquarius. Remember we have the Ascended Masters of Peace Kuthumi and Surya at our side,while we are walking the path into our collectively peaceful Golden future!!

Dear Ones, I hope you feel motivated and full of passion now, to be strong and stand clear for your souls dreams and desires these days. I hope you are inspired to bring your spark into the mix of our Golden Age of Aquarius. And that you always remember you are worthy to make all your deepest dreams come true!!
Light an New Moon Blessings ;-)!

Edith

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Clearing The Influences Of Our Sexual Past & The Twin Flame Reunion

jby Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
some of you might remember that over the last few month there where a lot of energy waves, triggering us collectively to allow a transformation in our human sexuality. For month now we have been aware, that within the collective human awakening process the sexual paradigm has to change. Over time it will show, what a role ancient teachings like tantra and the tantric principles will play in this transformation, and how the Native American Code of Ethics fits into the picture of our newly developing sexuality. In December last year
the collective cleansing of the first chakra has changed human kind, and now every individual has the chance to catch up for their personal process too.
At the end of February, the Mars retrograde phase has pushed us to face a collective healing of the divine masculine energy within, which was followed by the Twin Flame energy field of God and Goddess Meru and the threefold flame in our hearts. For many of us the time has come to step us and become goddamn warriors for authentic love. And many who feel called to bring this kind of love relationship into the world, can sense that there might be something missing. Many feel that they are ready by heart, but also seam to be held back by some invisible cords. And that might just be what truly happens. But this feeling is not there in order to hold us back forever, it is there to make us aware. Where we feel trapped, there can be old and maybe long outdated sexual connections active; are maybe past entanglements at work; or our ultimate survival pattern can be on.

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And some relationships, that far extend in connection beyond the material level, can have an influence on our sexual reality in the hear and now, much longer that the 7 year phase of the physical body. So if we desire to be free and cleansed from the past, and maybe even wanna call our Twin Flame connection home, than it is recommended to do so in some conscious acts of transformation and separation.

Here are some steps that help the alchemy of your heart, to transform your past:
1.) Inform yourself in this article about the alchemy of conscious breathing, how the elements within us are working for our shifts like a kubic’s cube.
2.) Make yourself familiar with the power of the violet flame. This flame is part of the crown chakra, which is the physically opposite point to the root chakra and the perfect place to start our experience (above as below). Memorize the simple prayer!!
3.) If you first up want to steer your passion for the process or increase the strength of you inner fire, repeatedly listen to this sacred song to the fire element, before you continue.
4.) Put yourself some healing music on first. Lay down on your back, seek a deep inner connection and regular breathing rhythm and bring yourself to a meditative state. Allow the parts of your physical body, that still hold memories or entanglements to teach you about the leaks in your energy field. Where ever you feel a loss of strength, energy or clarity, direct the passionate fire of your will to leave free from the past to it, and keep repeating the mantra until you can feel the energy shifting. From there on move on to the next and next spot, until your body feels light, liberated and yours.
TIP: Don’t bother wanting to know which encounter had which impact, or even what person of your life left that fingerprint in you!! Simply know that if you need the information in order to heal, it will come to you.. if not, not!
This process can get quite intense in times, so take good care of yourself by preparing well…. have a placket and some water with you.. and reserve time so the flow is not limited by the clock!!
5.) When you feel that your vessel is empty for that moment, cuddle up and keep resting for as long as it feels right for you. Resist the need to understand what happened and rather allow the energy to work a bit for you.
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Dear Ones, I hope this insides and steps will help you on your way to freedom from your sexual past!! I hope you can let go with ease and grace, from the dynamics and pain that still might have a hold on you. I wish you all a wonderful time with the integration of this intense process, and may there be endless blessings for you to come!! And if you desire to meet your soul partner, don’t forget it is your inner clarity that attracts!
Blessings an Love ;-)!
Edith

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