in February two years ago I shared a piece called “How To Attract A Relationship Partner For The Golden Age – Thru Inner Clarity“. Since than the collective awakening path into the Golden Age of Aquarius we are all together on, has taken us trough a couple of energy shifts, that were particularly designed to internally unite the divine feminine and the divine masculine forces in our higher heart.
A beautiful side effect of this process is that by now there are much more people on this planet who are willing to question their old behavior pattern and trigger in love relationships. If you are one of them and in the situation of creating a new love union these days, than I recommend you base your choice on this six questions, which you should ask your partner and yourself equally.
Are you aware what initially attracted you to me?
The best way to attract the person you truly need as partner, is to be aware of who and how you really are in love-relationships. Ask yourself what you essentially desire from a partner. What it is you want to be able to share with this other person in your life! What kind of qualities do you need in a person you might share your life space and energy field with? If one or both of you are entirely unaware of the reasons, the chance is big that the attraction is hiding old behavior pattern.
What scares you the most in life / about our relationship?
If your new partner and you are aware of your essential fears and biggest trigger in relationships, you have a great chance to overcome this challenges trough open communication. When the things that internally drive us show up in hidden ways or through unconscious actions, it rarely ends up well for us. The contrary happens when we deal with our fears and past impacts as openly as possible. Means: being brave enough to show our wounds, we might experience that even the profoundest personal pain can transform in the light of authentic sharing.
Is there anything you think I’m not entirely honest about?
A little while ago I shared a post called “Building Trust Through Emotional Transparency“. In that piece I talked about the importance of emotional and energetic transparency in the communication we apply in our love relationships. We need to develop a combination of emotional intelligence, deeper understanding about our emotional pattern, awareness for our personal fears, and inner strength to be ourselves, in order to achieve clarity in our communication.
When we than add into this mix the human ability to forgive disappointing experiences from the past and move on to new shores, we have a wonderful template for a Age of Aquarius fit love relationship.
When do you feel most alive?
The equation is simple on this one! One of the things that human beings enjoy the most when they are falling in love, is the newly awakening feeling of “being alive”. When we are aware what it is that apart from our partner triggers us to experience this feeling, we usually also develop better abilities to apply our individual qualities to the relationship, which sounds like a win – win situation to me!Are you aware of the collective languages of love? Do you know what it is you need?
Are you? As human beings we have individual traits, build on our own personal perceptions, character and experiences, and collective psychological traits. The five languages of love are known to be expressions that work for human beings from all over the world and all kinds of cultual backgrounds.
How can I help you maintain your individuality?
When we fall in love with each other out of interest in the other person, than we want this person to keep showing their true personality to us. So while it is a wonderful experience in human love relationships, that we can transcend the borders of individuality and merge our energies and hearts over and over again, is it just as important to maintain our individual being and share ourselves from that space.
Comes The Dawn
After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a Soul.
And you learn that Love doesn’t mean leaning.
And company doesn’t mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts.
And presents aren’t promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats.
With your head up and your eyes open.
With the Grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today.
Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans.
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn.
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul.
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure.
That you really are strong.
And you really do have worth.
And you learn and learn.
With every goodbye you learn.
Veronica ShoffstallDear ones, I hope you are all doing amazing right now and enjoy the current collective energy field. I hope you feel inspired by this insides to take a deeper look at your authentic needs in love relationships, and to unleash the partner you are born to be
Love and Blessings!!
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