Knowing When To Walk Away And When To Stay In Relationships

4by Edith Boyer-Telmer

Dear Friends,
two days ago I shared on facebook the picture you see below, with the theme of walking away from things that threaten our peace or self-respect. The post had an extra ordinary high respond, and not only on likes and shares, but also on how many people felt triggered to respond and share their difficulties and experiences with “walking away”.
Some of you might remember that the energies of the Gemini New Moon on June 4th and 5th have triggered the release of inner oppositions within our emotional bodies, which are the source of suffering and irritation in our relationships. Many had to go thru challenging situations, in order to see where their reality does no longer match, the things they truly desire by heart and soul. So how do we know when it is time to go, and when it is better to stay?

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The first thing to make sure of is, that you truly are in a space of self-worth, self-respect and inner peace, when making the decision to cut the cores with a person in your life. If you are in a place of anger or rejection of the person or their actions, it only delays the healing of your own life!! To be successful as collective in an awakening process into the Golden Age of Aquarius, we have to end all pattern of abuse in our life, and this is where we need to be wise and see the truth as it is.
When we are able to talk to the other being involved, and we see that there is a responds in awareness, which leads to transformed actions, than there is no reason to walk out on them. More tricky it gets when we express our feelings, our needs and desire authentically, and the other one refuses to acknogladge them. Than we need dividing wisdom and a clear mind.

Because when we can see people, their actions and also the situations we create with them – with wide open eyes, do the work of transforming our own emotions that we dedect and than still see and feel the need to walk away – than that’s what we should do. And don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that being aware of the breaking point of old pattern automatically makes it easy to actually make the step, but it still is what we have to do if we desire to grow. That can create fears, insecurity, doubts and bring up feelings of rejection and isolation from childhood or past life impacts, so we are well of to have some handy tools to navigate the emotional waves.1 (2)One of the most powerful sources of comfort and inner strength that we can work with, when we feel the fear of loss creeping up our spine and just want to turn around running back to the status quo, is the Ascended Master Arya Tara. She is one aspect of the big Tara, a Buddhistic Bodhisattva, an Enlightened One, who serves humanity with the quality of our inner sanctuary. The inner temple every being caries in their higher heart, the place where world peace, oneness and authentic bliss emerge from.

The main Mantra for all Tara Figures is this Tara Mantra in Sanskrit:
oṃ tāre tuttāre ture svāhā – which is pronounced as..
oṃ tāre tu tāre ture soha

More directed is the Atisha prayer to Arya Tara
om, jikpa gye kyobma la chaktsal lo
Om, a tribute to her, who protects us against the eight fears

tashi palbarma la chaktsal lo
A tribute to the lady who shines with the splendor of auspiciousness

ngensong go gekma la chaktsal lo
A tribute to the one that closes the door to the lower vibrations

tori lam drenma la chaktsal lo
A tribute to the one that guides us on the way to the higher realms

taktu khye kyi dongdrok dze
You who has always watched me and has taken care of me,

dadung tukje kyab tu sol
I ask you to protect me now with your great compassion.

My other recommondation is as so often before, to work with the tranforming powers of the violet flame. Keep training your inner alchemist, and spend as much time as it takes with this inner flames, that burn for your own authentic life!!02Dear Ones, I hope sharing my experience and tools with you will be helpful for your inner process of finding the right path, decision by decision !! More than ever it is important for us to stand in clarity to our self-worth and the vibrations we have acchieved, so we can be of help for the whole of humanity and life on planet earth. Stay in touch with the earth, keep breathing deeply, make sure you feel it all – and than make a wise and authentic call!!
Blessings and Dividing Wisdom!

Edith

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