these days people talk to me about their desire to fully follow their inner voice, that is calling for a new relationship paradigm. At the same time they express their deep fears about the time within two relationships, the time of BEING ALONE with themselves. What people forget when they try to avoid spending time with themselves is, that human beings learn how to share their true authentic self – when they know how to be alone first. So a more helpful approach to “Alone Time” is training ourselves for truthful and authentic sharing. If you spend time with yourself since a while and desire a new relationship, here are some signs you just might be ready now!!
1. You enjoy solitary at home:
There is a big difference between living your life as single, and feeling alone. Just because you are not living with anybody, does not mean you have to feel bad about yourself. Living alone can help us develop clarity about our core values, and a feeling for personal space, for personal borders and limits. If we want to live with others again one day, this are very valuable abilities to have. So when you reach the point in your life where your own being, your own sparkling personality and your personal energy field is filling up your inner home space, than that makes you also more capable of sharing your authentic-self with others.
2. You enjoy traveling alone:
Once you start traveling alone, you will not want to stop ever! That does not mean that we do not enjoy traveling with a partner, a friend or family member. But being out on the road alone brings so many extra blessings into your life, you will not want to give up on that. The way how our few of life is changing, when we are meeting new people, hear others life story and step out of our comfort zone – is priceless. And when in relationship again, it is exciting to come home after a trip and have so much to share with your love partner.
3. You are sleeping very good being alone:
A big percentage of people are actually highly sensitive to other peoples energy, when they are asleep. And many people never find out about this sensitivity, because they don’t spend enough time alone in their bed to actually feel it. So on one hand sleeping alone can reconnect us with our sensitivity on the other hand, it can teach us to feel our need for personal space in deeper clarity. In our relationships that helps us to know when its time to be close and when we need a timeout. Also spiritual guides and guarding angels are more likely to seek contact with you, when you are sleeping alone.
4. Your creativity is in flow:
Whenever we feel good with our self and enjoy hanging out in our own energy field, the doors to creativity can open more easily. When we spend time with our inner self – without having to be productive, our deep human desire for personal creative expression more easily enters our day awareness. And when we cultivate this inner connection with our authentic creative flow, we can later share it in co-creation with others.
5. You discover how capable you are:
Most people who are in love relationships quickly develop behavior pattern, according to the masculine and feminine role-models in our society. Duties in the household and in organizing the mutual life are quickly defined, from there on many people don’t leave the model anymore. So to spend a while alone and discover that we are capable of taking care of both, or masculine and feminine daily life tasks – such as paying the bills, doing the shopping, taking care of our own nutrition, change the missing light bulb, negotiate new contracts and than cuddle ourselves in front of the TV at night – helps at the end also to find balance in the male and female energies in our relationships.Watching movies alone is a pleasure:
Once you fall in love with the joy of hanging out with yourself, you will also enjoy the pleasure of absolute control over the remote control hahaha… When you are in harmony with being alone, it is simple a good feeling to throw yourself on the sofa and take a little break. Especially when you can do so, in your own rhythm and timing. A pleasure we can only enjoy as long as we are single!!
Dear Friends if you are single right now, I hope this little guide has inspired you to enjoy the time you have to yourself. And for the once in unhappy relationships, that it steered your courage to overcome your fears – and go for the chances a little time on your own will bring!! Get out there and create a brand new chance for happiness in your life!!
Blessings an Love ;-)!
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